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3DPO and feeling poorly 😔 TWW buddies?

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Twitchett22 · 10/02/2020 08:37

3DPO and feeling generally shit. Tiny little stabbing pains in my pubic area and my lower back is killing. Feeling sick and generally full. Have a feeling I'm just getting a bug but can't help wondering if it's something else. I know 3DPO is far too early for any kind of symptoms but its always in the back of my mind 🤷🏼‍♀️
Anyone else's AF due around 21st feb?

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becca321 · 04/04/2020 18:04

@AliSxo fingers crossed for you 🤞

Thanks everyone, I had a bit of a rant and a couple of glasses of wine last night and felt much better 😂 have some opks ordered for next month to do as well as temping x

AliSxo · 04/04/2020 18:10

@becca321 once CD1 is over its only up from there, thanks I'll test tomorrow morning 9DPO which is still early but I'd love nothing more than my BFP this month!! Xx

AliSxo · 04/04/2020 21:10

Having a few period cramps tonight AF due Wednesday I doubt it's implantation as it wouldn't be this period pain like, I wouldn't be surprised to see AF next week xx

HalfPenny28 · 04/04/2020 21:45

@AliSxo you never know! Try and stay positive 💕 I know it's hard. I'm 4dpo and already feeling negative!

Just so hard to imagine a bfp anymore.

Are your boobs still sore?

Hope you're okay xx

AliSxo · 05/04/2020 00:54

Thanks @HalfPenny28 I feel the same I really want to be positive, they have been on/off they were so so sore the other day but not been as bad since, I'll test in the morning at 9DPO and let you know how I get on xx

Hayleylou89 · 05/04/2020 14:20

Wow girls I'm so fed up of seeing these flashing smileys now I'm CD 20 iv been getting ovulation cramps since yest .... do cramps usually mean ovualtion is happening, or about to happen or has already happend, my opks are sooo random and none are positive we have dtd sooo much just incase, but its getting tedious now and i dnt want to give up and i ovualte and miss it 🙈

3DPO and feeling poorly 😔 TWW buddies?
Fifol · 05/04/2020 15:45

@Hayleylou89 I didnt get my static face last cycle until cd25 I had 19 flashing I was ready to crack up! Not sure about the cramps I dont really get them and when I do they don't tend to tie in with opks. Its exhausting x

Hayleylou89 · 05/04/2020 16:54

@Fifol I wont give up! Im breaking into my second pack of cb connected sticks now... next month i wont be starting until alot later than i did this month if im not pg this month... learnt my lesson big time! Even when opk was at its strongest it still flashed 🙈😂 i do tend to get ovary pains but just dnt know what they are signalling so pointless really x

HalfPenny28 · 05/04/2020 18:17

@AliSxo how did you get on testing this morning lovely?

@Hayleylou89 sorry it's so annoying :( just keep trying - I'm sure you'll get you're static soon!

AliSxo · 06/04/2020 08:51

Hey girls! Hope you're all well, @Hayleylou89 have you had your static smiley? I swear those flashing smileys are enough to send people bonkers!

So yesterday 9DPO with SMU I had a vv faint line, it was stronger but still faint with my evening held wee but this morning at 10dpo with FMU although it's still there's it's not as strong as last night which is odd, yesterday morning with FMU it was BFN so I suppose this morning test is better than nothing but I'm confused, however I've read people do have better lines in the evening or with SMU.

The picture quality might not be great but I'm not going mad they are there! Xx

3DPO and feeling poorly 😔 TWW buddies?
becca321 · 06/04/2020 09:20

@AliSxo I can definitely see ones on the 9dpo tests. Keeping everything crossed for you! X

Hayleylou89 · 06/04/2020 09:32

@AliSxo omg!! They are definitely there those line!! So happy for you 🥰!

My flashing smileys are still there 😴... getting bored now... my ovaries are aching though so something is happening ... does anyone get ovary pain and roughly know when u ovulate following the pains? Xx im cd 21 now so really driving me mad my temps not gone up much yet so doesnt seem to have happened yet x

becca321 · 06/04/2020 09:56

@AliSxo just read your post again, if you can see one this morning that sounds really positive!

@Hayleylou89 I get ovary pain some months but I have PCOS. It's a new symptom (only started in December) but a scan showed it is where one of my ovaries is flaring up a bit and not always related to ovulation. Hopefully yours is though and you will see that static face soon x

AliSxo · 06/04/2020 10:07

Hey @becca321 @Hayleylou89 yes line still there this morning just not as dark but I got a bfn yesterday morning and a bfp with SMU so I caught the first possible positive test if that makes sense. I'll try again later I know I'm meant to wait two days but that's unrealistic isn't it x

Hayleylou89 · 06/04/2020 10:12

@becca321 aww hope its not PCOS iv been referred for a scan just to check everything is ok but with everything going on iv not had my letter yet to go but nothing was spotted when i was pregnant a few months ago (i lost at 22.5 weeks) but just asked for a follow up scan to make sure everything has gone back to normal 🙏....ill test again this afternoon and have been dtd aloooot anyway just incase but my temps def not confirmed ovulation yet on natural cycles app 👎 xx

Hayleylou89 · 06/04/2020 10:13

@AliSxo Aww i really hope u get an even darker test this afternoon! When is AF due x x and are ur temps high? Xx

AliSxo · 06/04/2020 10:21

@Hayleylou89 I've not been temping I don't want to see it if it drops I'd rather just not know if that makes sense.

When I get ovulation pain it can be days before or just the day before, your body's been through a lot it's just finding it's mojo back, did you have regular cycles before? I'm sure you're just about to ovulate, sending you love I know you must feel so frustrated, nothings easy is it xx

Hayleylou89 · 06/04/2020 10:30

@AliSxo
I know, just think everything will go back to normal but obv its not... iv had dead on 35 or dead on 38 day cycles before being preg and my one last month was 39 days, Yeah hopefully that little bugger is a static soon 🙏 my temps increased but only a little does it need to go over the coverline to confirm ovulation.. i havnt a clue x

AliSxo · 06/04/2020 10:48

@Hayleylou89 I'm rubbish when it comes to temping I really don't know what its meant to be or what the drops or increases are meant to be either, keep doing the cheap OPK's I find them very reliable it looked like you were coming close to ovulation on the previous photo you uploaded of them? Xx

AliSxo · 06/04/2020 11:28

@Hayleylou89 I have the femometer app and that's very good for temping advice x

AliSxo · 06/04/2020 11:32

@Hayleylou89 there's a YouTube called Corrine, her channel Corrine and Matt, she's putting a video on today all about ovulation and she's using the CD digital ovulation tracker, I'll put the link on here when she's uploaded it xx

Fifol · 06/04/2020 15:17

@AliSxo sounds really positive! Everything crossed for you, you're giving me so much hope!!

AliSxo · 06/04/2020 15:50

Thanks @Fifol my SMU have a stronger line than FMU which I think happens sometimes, just fingers crossed it sticks!! How are you? Xx

calimommy · 06/04/2020 16:14

@AliSxo those are positive. If at all possible😜, wait 48 hrs for the HCG to double. I know you will have a good line then. You already have an easily seen line. 👍

Fifol · 06/04/2020 18:04

Yes fingers crossed @AliSxo really really hope this is it for you!

I'm fine, I'm going to start using my CB opk in a day or two. I was sitting here thinking of when we will time dtd this week and next week and just find myself getting so irritated as I felt we timed it well the last two months!