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3DPO and feeling poorly 😔 TWW buddies?

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Twitchett22 · 10/02/2020 08:37

3DPO and feeling generally shit. Tiny little stabbing pains in my pubic area and my lower back is killing. Feeling sick and generally full. Have a feeling I'm just getting a bug but can't help wondering if it's something else. I know 3DPO is far too early for any kind of symptoms but its always in the back of my mind 🤷🏼‍♀️
Anyone else's AF due around 21st feb?

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Fifol · 12/03/2020 19:37

Hey gals. I never did get my static face so don't know if I even ovulated! Still testing every day just out of curiosity at this point.

Plenty of bd'ing though just in case!!!

Hope you're all well sending positive vibes and baby dust x

Hayleylou89 · 12/03/2020 19:50

@AliSxo

How r u feeling in the 2ww any more symtoms showing 🤞🏻🤞🏻 not long till u test, when r u doing it ? X

Hayleylou89 · 12/03/2020 19:53

@AliSxo

Sorry just read down!! Good luck for sunday!! Xx sunday will be the what would normally be my last cd but because of my loss last month i dont really know if it would be due then or not but ill be testing sunday aswell x x

AliSxo · 12/03/2020 22:58

Hey @Hayleylou89 I think I remember being in a group previously with you around September last year. I miscarried at 5 weeks in early October. I am so so sorry for your loss, I can't even imagine what you're going through and I hope you have lovely friends and family around you to help pick you up xxxxx

HalfPenny28 · 13/03/2020 07:06

Hey everyone 🙋🏼‍♀️ how're you all getting on?

Anyone's af nearly due?

I've just hit the point where I can test and before today I've been fairly relaxed and positive but it's just hit me now that it could be another bfn so really trying not to test.

Af is due in 6 days.

inahaze · 13/03/2020 07:58

Just POAS and the effin test was null and void! Angry so angry! It was just totally blank, no control line. Never had this happen before! And because I didn't collect my FMU I can't test again Sad period due monday

@fifol sorry about the ovulation mystery. I hope it was just a false negative

Hayleylou89 · 13/03/2020 08:31

@AliSxo

Yea we were in that thread together and 5 of us made a whatsapp group and kept in touch as we were all due the same time and out of 5 of us, 1 lost hers at 12 weeks, i lost mine at 22.5 weeks and one lovely girl, her baby has a life threatening condition but she is going full term to try and see what happens when he arrives, the other 2 are ok ... how crazy is that out of 5 of us ... life isnt fair sometimes atall!! but im Here again trying 🙏... how long was it before ur first AF arrived ... im still waiting almost 5 weeks later ... i had pretty high lh reading at the weekend so dtd but really dont know if i did ovulate and iv still not had no AF and im CD 36 out of usual 35-38 day cycle AF would be due sunday at the latest usually but just dont know where my bodys at tbh. Xx

Fifol · 13/03/2020 08:54

@inahaze thanks girlie. Sorry to hear about your error test so annoying. Stay positive x

@AliSxo @Hayleylou89 that's horrendous Shock best wishes to all of you and good for you for being so positive. Onwards and upwards girls the right time is coming for us all xx

Hayleylou89 · 13/03/2020 09:02

@Fifol

Oh i really hope so, if I'm not pregnant i just want AF to arrive so i know where i am at but still no sign 5week after my loss... usually would be here by sunday if it was my normal cycle but my apps are predicting next weekend now after my loss sooo just got to keep on hoping, going off opks im 5dpo today 🙏 xx

Twitchett22 · 13/03/2020 09:21

Hi @HalfPenny28 AFs due in 7 days for me. I've only got one test in the house and its a CB digital so won't pick up early and I'm DETERMINED not to buy anymore 😂

@inahaze maybe it's fate? Telling you not to test until AF is due! I'd take that as a sign and try and hold off 😬 although I don't have any willpower so I probably wouldn't 😂

@Hayleylou89 gosh I'm so sorry I didn't know about your loss. I can't even imagine how hard that must be for you. Very scary aswell that out of 5 of you there are 3 that had problems! Just goes to show what miracles babies are doesn't it. Sending you lots of love 💜

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Hayleylou89 · 13/03/2020 09:28

@Twitchett22

I know dont realise how precious it is - my waters broke early, not sure why but the baby was perfect, which is harder knowing that she was fine and my body decided to do that :( ..ill be high risk in future pregnancies so that's the only silver lining really that ill be monitored like a hawk... Iv been doing cheapies 5dpo bfn obviously so dont know why i do it ... if it was a normal cycle id be due AF between now and sunday which is why im testing just incase i got my Ovulation date wrong and it was earlier but my apps are saying im due AF next weekend now instead going off temps and opks x

Twitchett22 · 13/03/2020 09:33

@Hayleylou89 that's heartbreaking. Any loss is awful but that far along i can't imagine how you must feel. But yes it must be of some comfort to know next time you will be carefully monitored. I hope everything goes smoothly next time you absolutely deserve it 💜

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AliSxo · 13/03/2020 11:21

@Hayleylou89 i can't imagine how you're feeling you're so brave for just posting it and talking about it. My period resumed 4 weeks after and I just resumed back into a a normal cycle, my loss was at 5 weeks, be patient with yourself, your body will find it's mojo. When I miscarried I felt so empty I just wanted to TTC straight away xx

calimommy · 13/03/2020 14:20

@Hayleylou89 wishing all the best for you and your future pregnancies xxx

AliSxo · 14/03/2020 02:55

Well girls although I said I wouldn't test I did on Thursday evening 9DPO and got a very faint squinter but since then all bfns. Now I'm 11DPO AF due tomorrow I'm on a test ban I've learnt my lesson xxx

3DPO and feeling poorly 😔 TWW buddies?
calimommy · 14/03/2020 04:17

@AliSxo I'm sorry my dear but I believe that is negative. Still time though x

AliSxo · 14/03/2020 08:49

@calimommy my boobs have been SO sore all week but not anymore they're fine now. AF will no doubt arrive tomorrow x

Fifol · 14/03/2020 09:29

Aw @AliSxo sorry x

I got my static face this morning! After 18 flashing. Was so shocked I leapt into bed to bd before hubby goes to work and he couldn't perform Shock the pressure obviosuly got to him and I'm so disappointed and trying not to be annoyed because but ote so bloody frustrating!! And we have planned to go to my parents later so we will try again when he gets home from work.

We bd tues, weds, thurs and took a break last night and I'm raging now! Hopefully we will still be covered

AliSxo · 14/03/2020 09:52

@Fifol the day after my positive OPK do you think my partner wanted to or let us BD? No he was "too tired" ...arsehole!! I did it sun, mon, wed - ovulation was Tuesday 🙄 we try our best and that's all we can do!! At least you've got your static xxxx

Fifol · 14/03/2020 09:57

Ha I know it's so annoying but he feels so bad now so I'm not annoyed at him just the situation.

We're going to get our wedding photos back this evening so hoping that will give us both something else to think about!

Wasn't even going to bother testing anymore so was surprised to see that static face!!!

AliSxo · 14/03/2020 10:22

@Fifol we've all been there xx it'll be a lovely distraction to go through your wedding photos xx

inahaze · 14/03/2020 10:24

Just pulled this out of the bin to double check, was BFN 2 hours ago, and now....... can be false?!

3DPO and feeling poorly 😔 TWW buddies?
Fifol · 14/03/2020 10:32

@inahaze defo a line there although very faint. But if it was after the time might not be reliable. All you can do is test again tomorrow I think Hmm

Twitchett22 · 14/03/2020 10:43

@gingerglitter4ever how are you getting on?? I saw on another thread you thought you might have bfp but couldn't find the thread again so wanted to catch up!

Imagine if tests were just a flat yes or no 🙈 they're so confusing when they show up their shitty little fake lines 😔

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AliSxo · 14/03/2020 11:13

@inahaze fingers crossed for you!! Xx

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