3DPO and feeling poorly 😔 TWW buddies?

[Twitchett22]

3DPO and feeling generally shit. Tiny little stabbing pains in my pubic area and my lower back is killing. Feeling sick and generally full. Have a feeling I'm just getting a bug but can't help wondering if it's something else. I know 3DPO is far too early for any kind of symptoms but its always in the back of my mind 🤷🏼‍♀️
Anyone else's AF due around 21st feb?

Oh girls i really hope its good news for you! But I'm glad there's a few of us that will be going through it together next cycle, it really makes things much easier. Lots of positivity this time round and NO symptom spotting! 😂

@MrsLlama89 @Fifol I've had a few days where I've felt like I've reached the end of my tether, so hard when all you can think of is seeing that BFP! Feeling more positive CD7 tomorrow, due to ovulate this time next week x

@AliSxo I'm CD 7 today too! Trying to feel positive too.

@Fifol I only have a 12 day luteal phase, so the TWW is actually a 12 day wait. Saw my gp last week he said the time up to ovulation can differ but generally the luteal phase won't move around much which is true for me I always spot/full flow on 12dpo. Going to try every other day now until a few days after ovulation xxxx

@AliSxo do you use any opks or anything? I'm using the clearblue digital one with the smiley faces, found it good last cycle.

Gonna try every second night for a few nights and then closer to ovulation gonna try each night.

@Fifol I use OPKS, I've used the CB digital for a cycle but found the OPKS told me the same thing so I didn't see the need to keep using the CB digital each cycle xxxx fingers crossed for us both xxx

I've just started using that smiley face clear blue OPK this morning (valentine's present, LOL).

For some reason I'm finding it hard to part with the £18.45 for preseed! Is it really worth it??

Had a very frustrating chat with a close friend of mine this morning, who, somehow, got pregnant first month all 4 times she tried. So she obviously just thinks I need to have sex when I ovulate and then I get pregnant, and that I need to BBT chart (like she did) to know when I ovulate. She didn't really believe that there's still only 33% chance of BFP when having sex at ovulation. Felt so deflated.

Hopped out of bed this morning to test with fmu, sat down and there she was. 😞 I was three days late according to one app and one day late according to another but there was absolutely no chance of a BFP. Damn.

This was our last cycle of ttc. We won't be trying again.

Good luck and baby dust to all of you xxx

so so so sorry calimommy, so sad to end your journey, sending love x

@inahaze I haven't got a clue about the preseed!

That's so frustrating about your friend, it can be so upsetting cant it!

Aw @calimommy sorry to hear that. we are here for you, either way x

Oh @calimommy I'm so sorry, it's gutting isn't it. Sending you lots of love x

Any news @gingerglitter4ever @MrsLlama89 ??

Hey! I haven’t tested yet, but I’m currently 3 days late and this morning on my BBT I shot up 0.3 degrees C
Still crossing my fingers and holding out until Friday to test but I’m going on my 8 th day in a row having a massive headache that just keeps getting worse, I got the sweats all the time and feel like I can’t go up the stairs or a little hill without getting winded 😅 I’ll keep you guys updated!

if i remember correctly, sustained high temps means pregnant?

@gingerglitter4ever it's all sounding very positive! I've got my fingers crossed so tight for you x

Started OPKS, DTD tonight and used preseed, used it last month too x

@gingerglitter4ever hope theres good news for you!

@AliSxo I started opks yesterday too, got my flashing smiley this morning, makes me so happy when I see it

That's amazing @Fifol flashing smileys are always a good way to start the day! Hopefully you'll get the static really soon!! Xx

AF came today... 😭😭😭 I really hoped this month was my month...

@gingerglitter4ever sorry to hear that xx we're all here so you're not alone xx it's shit it really is this whole TTC is tough xx

Thanks @AliSxo ❤️
I feel like there was something there, which is a positive 🤞🏻 I’m just trying to take the positive aspect of this experience with me and now looking ahead 💕

How’s everyone else doing with this cycle?

@gingerglitter4ever maybe take a test because if there was something you may have some hcg but tbh you don't need the mental torture so maybe let it pass without testing this time xxxx

@gingerglitter4ever sorry to hear that x

Yea @AliSxo I think last time I had 4 or 5 days flashing so should be the same this time if my calculations are correct!

Feeling so excited and trying to be very positive and keep telling myself I know my time is coming! Might as well put that out and let the universe pick up on it!

@gingerglitter4ever oh im sorry! I was the same last month but maybe it's best not to know for sure. We've got this now for next month 💪

Thanks @Fifol and @Twitchett22! I hope so!! I have to say it was a really nice feeling 💕 how are things going for you two this cycle? Any new stuff you’re trying?