March bus

[littletandme]

Just thought I'd start a March bus for anyone just edging into the next month for testing/AF due!

I'll start with my stats:

Trying for baby #2 with a 2.5yo DD
Cycle 2 (although first full cycle after having the implant removed)
CD1 today
AF/BFP due sometime after 5th March depending on what my cycle wants to do this month!

Congratulations @Wise0wl!!! Such great news! Another BFP for the group 😊💕

@newbie0818 its so nerve wracking isn't it. I feel the fear. I had a positive on my 1st ever test but it ended in a chemical so I'm so so nervous this time... Like I really really want af to stay away so I can test and see that BFP but also so afraid it'll be a BFN.
I'm with you 100% on the way and keeping everything crossed for you 🤞🏻

It’s awful @Sausage1990! Sorry about your chemical :( must be horrible to finally see that bfp and then that happen.
Tbh I think I jinxed it by buying those tests as I’ve been having very familiar af cramps since last night :/ what will be will be I guess 🤷🏼‍♀️ (Hate that saying!)

@newbie0818 yeah it's not a nice feeling seeing that positive turning to a negative, I was really sad but it was very early and our 1st cycle. Currently on in the TWW in cycle 3.
Oh but cramps aren't a bad sign. They can happen in early pregnancy as the uterus grows etc... So you're not out of the game yet 🤞🏻🤞🏻 keep us posted. I'm keeping everything crossed for you xx

Thanks @sausage1990 I’ll see how it goes. I really hope it’s that! How many dpo are you now?

Oh girls.
I can't wait much longer..
I am 9dpo today and already feeling quite negative... I am so upset that most likely it will be BFN.. Didn't test yet but really want to...

Don’t lose hope yet @Adrianoska as it’s still early. And you will most likely get a bfn at this stage so don’t do that to yourself. A few more days, you can do it! I have my fingers crossed for you 🤞🏼🤞🏼 X

Umm I'm about 8-9dpo roughly... Af due in 6 days. So I'll wait to see if af arrives before testing.

Has anyone had a 2nd lot of ecwm? I've had it the last few days but my opk have all been clearly negative. I had a load of ewcm and high opk around 3rd-5th march then the cm went creamy and stickier but its gone back to clear ewcm again... And quite watery too. I duno if this is normal or not.

Like @newbie0818 I've got my fingers crossed for you too @Adrianoska xx

@Newbie0818 thank you so much 💖
I am going mental. Restraining myself from buying tests. My amazon cheap ones are arriving tomorrow I think...
😁

I am so emotional. This TTC is a roller-coaster. Lats night I gave my husband some unnecessary crap about being on Facebook (😔😂) and this morning I cried because he didn't hug me! Wtf.

Omg. Please someome save me and give me BFP!

🙏😞

@sausage that's an excellent symptom to indulge in! 👌😊 I wish I had this! I am dry like a desert now.. And apparently you supposed to stay flooded by clear cm if you Conceived. So fingers crossed 🤞😊

@sausage so we are matching the dates, I think I am 9 dpo and my period due in 6 days.
When will you be testing?
How are you feeling?
I did absolutely everything this month.
Seriously.
😔👍

@Adrianoska definitely try and wait a few more days! If it helps I didn't have a particular abundance of CM, only possible symptom was tiredness but I also had a cold coming on so prob just that!! Your definitely not out 🤞

You're*

Another thing... I worry about.
Last night we had sex. I would have been 8 or 9 dpo... Would that not destroy the chances of implantation?? 😢🤞

@Lola871 😘 thank you 💖💖
I am so hopeful... And really wish I had some symptoms but I bet it is too early still?❤️

@Adrianoska not much can deter the blastocyst from implantation if it wants to, so to speak.

@calimommy I hope so 😊
Really really hope so 😚

Oh no!
Sex last night was a mistake apparently according to this study 😭😭😭😭

www.ncbi.nlm.nih.gov/pmc/articles/PMC4074557/

😪Devastated

(copied the conclusion of that study) Intercourse during the peri-implantation window may be detrimental to natural fertility. Methods that allow couples to time intercourse to the fertile window may decrease time to pregnancy by not only increasing the probability of fertilization but also decreasing the probability of failed implantation.

@Adrianoska step away from google

I really wouldn’t worry @Adrianoska if it’s going to happen it will. As much as I hate people telling me that... it’s true! I have been super dry too 😕 but I’ve been on soooo many forums and pages now and everyone’s body is different. I’ve come to the conclusion that symptom spotting really isn’t helpful!

My FRER’s came! Technically I’m “late” whether I ovulated on the 21st Feb or the 2nd. Still cramping on and off today so I’m going to enjoy tomorrow and test on Sunday morning ( either 23dpo or 13dpo). 🥵

Very true 🙂

Fingers crossed for you for Sunday 🤞💖

@Adrianoska I had sex in my "implantation window", 4 dpo I think, please don't add extra worry to yourself. X

@Adrianoska I'm feeling fine. I'm aware of some symptoms but I got those last cycle too and af came 3 days earlier... I'm trying to not over think.
I'm going to test if af is late so maybe Friday or Saturday ? I'm due Thursday... So if af doesn't arrive realistically I'll test Friday... I think it was easier to see af than it was to see the BFN.

HOWEVER I agree with everyone else, you need to step away from Google and try to chill. Having sex in your tww won't effect the chances of any sticky bean. It's either guna stick or it's not. There's nothing we can do to help it along, just pray that this is our time.
We BD during the TWW and it was good to keep some spontaneity in the bedroom... Because it can seem more or a chore when it HAS TO HAPPEN in the fertile window.

I'm keeping everything crossed for us all for March... Xx

Well said @Sausage1990. It’s ridiculous how much time I’ve spent on google during these last 3 months. Even dh has started googling, and when that happened I decided we need to just chill! He’s so not like that. Quite sweet though.