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Ellsbells112 · 13/01/2020 17:34

Well since we are at the tail end!!

@Beau2020x @quiffy @Symptomspotter86 @BFP2020 @ange211

@Mumofboys17 no I think its from the pain, they aren't normally this bad and it's just making me nauseous 🤢 maybe it's from flying through different time zones ✈️🤷‍♀️

I know right it's so weird I'll even try to help it along but nothing works haha just can't finish! Xx

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Beau2020x · 23/01/2020 13:32

Hey @Mrslane2019 sorry you are feeling like this. I had a month off last month because I felt exactly the same! I'm addicted/obsessed with the whole TTC thing and I don't think I will/can change that any time soon.

Have you thought about having your own tests done? Just for peace of mind? I think you can get some female fertility test online for like £80.

Morganmom · 23/01/2020 13:41

@Ange211 you make me laugh! Thank you so much! I know I wouldn’t be able to hold my bladder after 2 L of water ! So it’s def got to be nml!

Mrslane2019 · 23/01/2020 13:44

I did look into it I think we get the no money January out the way then start looking again
My OH had test back about 8 years so don't know if he need test to
but I blaming that nasty cerelle mini pill you spend your life trying not to get pregnant but just don't think about things like that

I found myself feel pretty stupid last week as my OH best friend announced there were expecting and I absolute cried my eye out don't get me wrong I was happy for them but everywhere and everyone seem to be getting pregnant at drop of hat

sorry for the like rant

Quiffy · 23/01/2020 14:05

@mrslane2019 Totally agree with you on everyone being pregnant at the top of a hat. As much as it's lovely to see people I know with their bump pics on Facebook, between it and sponsored adds for pregnancy I want to tear my eyeballs out. Plus, every tv show or movie I watch at the moment seems to have babies everywhere, or it's the adverts before. Cant even watch a good old serial killer slasher without someone looking at some sperm and being pregnant instantly.

Mrslane2019 · 23/01/2020 14:12

glad not just me 😐i found myself watch coronation street last night and maria was getting her scan i just look at OH he said why don’t you just piss off maria there you go i said for you 😂 i’m just glad he a bit supportive with it
i think the whole crying episode last week really put in perspective for him

Katie1109 · 23/01/2020 15:06

Oh I will second that! People seem to look at a penis and get pregnant around me. Girl at work recently announced her 3rd pregnancy...and said she was even on the pill!? yeah right...

hampshirerose34 · 23/01/2020 15:27

@Quiffy yes I will try and hold a little longer to check ! X

Beau2020x · 23/01/2020 17:05

Would it be totally ridiculous to test tomorrow morning 8DPO...?? I said I'd wait until Sunday. This is what being lonely and working away from home does to you...

Beau2020x · 23/01/2020 17:12

Writing it down made me realise how ridiculous that sounded. Absolutely not testing

Ellsbells112 · 23/01/2020 17:44

@Beau2020x oh stop it we all do it!!! But it is a little early so to avoid shitty feelings I'm telling you no lol

Ttc sucks balls honestly, I was sitting last night thinking, I'll probably cry again next month if I don't get a bfp 🙁 literally

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Quiffy · 23/01/2020 18:05

@mrslane2019 I do think TTC is a real eye opener for the men haha - mine has started to tell adverts to feck off too. It's nice to know they're suffering too.

@Katie1109 urgh the likelihood of being on the pill as well. Fertile bitch (oops I'm sure she's lovely)

@Beau2020x noooo! way too early. Could easily be a false bfn

@ellsbells112 it really is the worst. Saw someone post a bfp after trying for a couple of weeks earlier. Ive not been trying that long compared to others but maaaaaaaaannnn

I put Love After Lockdown on for some mindless reality tv, but noooooo some chick has been out of jail about 2 days and thinks she's pregnant. Is no show safe? I'm off to watch Venom, perhaps Tom Hardy can get my pregger through his movie :D

Beau2020x · 23/01/2020 18:06

@Ellsbells112 I hear ya! I'm so crampy today as well 😭

It's the worst. Like even worse when you've been pregnant before because IT USED TO WORK WHAT ARE YOU DOING TO ME BODY?!?!

Beau2020x · 23/01/2020 18:13

Swear to god. Birth control is an absolute no go for me after (if) I have a baby. It deffo cannot be good for us! Never ever ever ever again!

Beau2020x · 23/01/2020 18:15

Suggested for me?! STFU Facebook 😂😂😂

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Mrslane2019 · 23/01/2020 18:30

@Quiffy oh tom hardy yes please 😋

@Beau2020x i’m same i had the implant before my little boy with no trouble but this mini pill has absolutely muck my body never again

Ellsbells112 · 23/01/2020 19:08

@Beau2020x tell me about it my body wanted me pregnant in the worst situations what a shit show!! I had a copper coil not even any hormones either so I'm well truly like what the fuck?!??? 😔😔😔😔
I think everyday it runs through my head the fact that I know I'm defo ovulating and bang on cd15 every month so whhyyy wouldn't it work 😳 I have to shut my brain off honestly

@Quiffy Tom. Hardy is beaaaauuuutty

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Beau2020x · 23/01/2020 19:53

@Mrslane2019 I'm the opposite to you. Pill last time pregnant 3rd cycle. Implant this time no joy 5 cycles in.

@Ellsbells112 he's pretty nice to be fair. I'm quite partial to Jason Mamoa. I like a bit of rough muscly tattoo looking

Quiffy · 23/01/2020 20:42

@Beau2020x I got that one today too. Rage. And Jason Mamoa is v pretty too

Ive told DH I’m not going on any chemical contraception or any implants etc again. He can either glove it or shove it. Or maybe a diaphragm, not used one before though.

Oh and DH came home tonight why I was in bed watching Tom Hardy again 😹😹

Ellsbells112 · 23/01/2020 21:08

@Beau2020x @quiffy I love mamoa!! My son got angry at me and told me I'm a traitor when I looked at Jason on a billboard and muttered he was gorgeous hahaha he said, "mum don't be mean to dad!! You should only like him!!" 😂😂😂😂😂

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Beau2020x · 23/01/2020 22:14

@Quiffy hahahahaha CAUGHT RED HANDED! 😂 nahhh totally with that. I'm 1000% looking for something au natural. Have tried the pull out method before (when I was 17 and super fertile) and that seemed to work for a year so if I can't get pregnant while trying I'm sure that I can avoid being pregnant when not trying right?

@Ellsbells112 awww bless him that is cute!!

Took my bra off before and it's like a dropped my boobs on the floor - they felt so heavy and a bit sore! Cramping still there but not as bad. Gah what are you doing to me bodyyyy! I can't be pregnant we hardly had sex. Probs all that poking of my cervix I've been doing (which I am going to stop doing from now on)

Mrslane2019 · 24/01/2020 07:35

Hey guys

Hope your ok this morning
so i went to slimmingworld last night in the que people started to cook there food i stood there 🤮 thought i was going be sick with the smell and had to leave
this morning by boobs feel like there burn balloons i’m 8/9 dpo do you think it to early for this i don’t know if if started to imagine things 🙈 i did take a test but BFN i know to early

Quiffy · 24/01/2020 08:43

@Ellsbells112 That's so funny! A traitor indeed

@Beau2020x @mrslane2019 oooo both sound like good boob signs!

hampshirerose34 · 24/01/2020 08:55

Morning all ,

So the dreaded AF made an appearance this morning 4 days early too !! just my luck well atleast I know. Will try again next time. have a good day all. X

Ellsbells112 · 24/01/2020 08:59

I got a flashing smiley today but no sign of any ewcm, I normally ovulate on cd15 and I get a peak fertility on the day of my temperature rise, I'm cd12 today! Normally only get flashing 1-2 days prior to peak, should I start this evening? Thing is I took that letrozole and I have been worried it will change my ovulation date, it also interferes with ewcm. Production but I've been taking evening primrose oil to help that along.

My cervix feels higher than normal but not as high and soft when peak fertile. The thing is I don't want to dtd today if I have to do Saturday and Sunday, I kind of want to just those 2 days so maybe the sperm is stronger but I'm worried lol I don't want to miss ovulation. Ffs the stress is real. What should I do? Just dtd anyway? I wanna see ewcm 😩

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Katie1109 · 24/01/2020 09:09

@Ellsbells112 don’t stress x you know you’re going to ovulate within next 3 days so just take it as it comes x DTD today if you both fancy it but don’t put yourself under pressure, just enjoy it x that’s what I’ve done last weekend, stopped opks on Thursday without waiting for the peak and just enjoyed sex over the weekend without added pressure x it was sooo much better x

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