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New Thread for The crazy gang!

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Katie1109 · 10/12/2019 19:27

Hi girls, I have created new thread. Hope you’ll see it x

@Mumofboys17
@Quiffy
@Ellsbells112
@Sunflower2019
@Daisy8008

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Katie1109 · 13/12/2019 06:21

Hi there @Ellsbells112 x I’m CD5 so nothing exciting here.
I hope you’re far away from the bush fires! How are you feeling? Any news? When are you testing? xx

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Ellsbells112 · 13/12/2019 06:34

@katie1109 we are actually near the Bush fires! Luckily they are containing them but it's crazy! Ahh when do you think you will ovulate?
I'm going to test on Monday I think as I only have one first response with me. Update is still getting pains deep down here and there and pain in my lower back and looooads of cm like looooads and it's really weird texture like opaque in colour and silky feeling if that makes sense. I never ever have cm like that and my cervix is soft, I'm due on Monday and it's normally hard by now. So hopefully fingers crossed!! I don't feel pregnant though, no sickness or anything so I'm still scared that af can come on Monday! Xx

Sunflower2019 · 13/12/2019 06:49

Hey girlies...

I can feel af coming and my temp dropped today! Hopefully won’t be much longer and I can get on with things!

@Ellsbells112 I reckon you’re definitely in with a chance 🤞 those symptoms are all really promising!!! Eeeeek 💗

How’s is everyone else? Anyone else left to test?

Xx

Katie1109 · 13/12/2019 07:09

@Ellsbells112 it all sounds promising!! Fingers cross for you hun x I’m normally ovulating CD15 so still way to go 😭

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Blondeandbroody · 13/12/2019 08:02

Omg I am laughing so hard at myself.

So I am now CD26, potentially 9DPO. I did a FRER as it's now 6 days until my missed period so the first day I could take one based on their guidance and possibly get a result. Negative. I don't see it as a true negative until AF shows though, refusing to admit defeat this cycle til I have to but I don't have much hope anyway I just can tell I'm not pregnant, dunno why.

The reason I am laughing is cause I thought okay let's try all this cervix height stuff again as it's getting closer. I genuinely couldn't find it and panicked thinking where the fuck is my cervix. I've checked before so i am familiar with its usual location. I found it, right high up lol dunno if that's a sign or whatever but i made myself laugh thinking I'd lost my cervix 😂😂😂

Symptomspotter86 · 13/12/2019 08:41

@Quiffy omg your cat ate your mooncup!!! That has proper cracked me up this morning!!

Daisydays1 · 13/12/2019 09:30

@Blondeandbroody that is so funny, think we have all had a moment where we think where can it gone. Don't give up it not over until the Af arrives.
I am roughly the same stage of my cycle as you on day 27 today, been feeling a little sick on and off for a couple of days but it so strange, also hot and cold.
When I woke up I am fine then once I am up I start to feel a bit funny, eat and then fine and the about 10 mins later get a sick feeling again but it weird because it is in my stomach but mainly in the back of my throat?. I have brought up a little sick in back if my throat twice today my husband puts it down to all my hormones returning after stopping the mini for a full cycle now.
I done a test on Tues but guessing that was far to early haha, think I got carried away

@Quiffy I can't believe you cat ate your moon cup haha definitely a story and a half there..... Where's my moon cup this month ? Aw yeah the cat ate it 🤣

Katie1109 · 13/12/2019 09:38

Hi ladies x how are we all? I feel something is not right. I woke up this morning feeling nauseated and suddenly with blocked nose - no other cold symptoms. I keep feeling pulling on my abdomen on right side can also feel it on my right thigh. I’m so gassy it’s unreal, sorry tmi 😂 my head is banging, and I mean banging! It hurts my eyes and makes me feel dizzy. you know when you have that feeling that something is not right?!

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Katie1109 · 13/12/2019 10:30

My back is aching as well constantly since 07/12. One thing I also noticed is that normally I log minimum 7 days of sore boobs before my af. I have logged only 2 this time and it was nowhere near as they usually are. And still feel full ache down there even though no bleed for 48 hours now, just checked my cervix its very high, soft and there is brown discharge with stretchy mucus in it - sorry tmi. I don’t feel pregnant or anything but everything I read about period arriving 3 days early and being very very light without bright red blood points at IB and people say they turned out to be pregnant. Why am I doing this to myself I do not know. Sorry this is long, I haven’t got anyone else to talk to 😭

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Quiffy · 13/12/2019 12:15

@Symptomspotter86 @daisydays I’m not sure what worse, the fact the cat chewed the end off it or my DH bringing it through asking what kind of cat toy this was. He actually dropped it because in his words “ewww it’s been up your hoo-hoo “. Ditto dearest! I’m hoping I don’t need to invest in another for awhile 😂

@Blondeandbroody loving the fact you thought it had went missing 😂

@Ellsbells112 Those all sound so promising. Ahhhhh very exciting!!!!

@Katie1109 have you tried a test again just in case? Especially as bleeding has stopped for awhile now?

Katie1109 · 13/12/2019 12:36

@Quiffy I haven’t no x but I have just checked the cycle when I conceived but had an MC and I did not get a positive until what would be CD 36 x do I think I’ll give it few more days just in case x if I don’t count the spotting/bleeding as af I would be CD 30 today x

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Quiffy · 13/12/2019 12:38

Well here’s a good one for you ladies!

So we’ve driven to stay at my parents today for the weekend. I asked DH to pack vitamins for us both. Well he must have unpacked from his bag and left them on the dresser in the guest room and left the door open. I just nipped up to the loo and it was the first thing I saw was a great big box with Pregnacare Conception on it! So I’m quite sure my mum saw.

He’s thinks it hilarious and says I can’t murder him as FW is next week 😡

Quiffy · 13/12/2019 12:39

@Katie1109 good idea, just monitor and see what happens. Fingers crossed you get a nice surprise!

Sunflower2019 · 13/12/2019 12:55

@Quiffy 😂😂😂😂 it’s like a comedy!

@Katie1109 maybe ring the drs? Or just a weird cycle? I had a month when my hormones were settling were I had a really short bleed

Well as for me, AF due tomorrow, keep getting the odd twinge, last tested 11dpo.. 13dpo today so I presumed I was out. Just waiting now... back of my head keep thinking what if af doesn’t come but I know it will.. what a bummer! Don’t wanna put a downer on it but if we are dtd there are no problems, why does it take so damn long?!

I’ve got my Xmas party tonight, it’s fish and chips and a quiz so prob be okay!

Xx

Katie1109 · 13/12/2019 13:04

@Sunflower2019 after I came off pill and we started to TTC I have gone privately to have hormones testing etc done and all was normal. My cycles are very regular so this is really abnormal. Nothing has changed with regards to diet, any medication etc I have no medical conditions, no allergies, literally nothing wrong with me medically - touch wood. I don’t feel overly stressed, just upset when I get BFNs but that’s just disappointment. I honestly cannot think of anything that would make this cycle this weird. I feel soo tired today it’s unreal. Finishing work at 2pm and going to have a nap. I feel quite wet down there, keep checking for bleeds but there’s nothing x
@Quiffy very highly unlikely, but wouldn’t it be just brilliant x I think it’s just my body playing tricks on me x

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Blondeandbroody · 13/12/2019 14:41

@Quiffy I genuinely panicked because I'd been thinking it had been high previously but never thought on those occasions, shit it's gone!! Where is it! Before LOL, what a clown! So clearly that's what high feels like.

I dunno what it means.

I don't really understand CM either! Mines been consistently like a slightly watered down lotion, cloudy/white for a good week or so now. I only remember seeing thicker CM in my underwear the weekend When my fertile window started according to my app so I assume that was EWCM. I didn't actively check then as I didn't know CM was even a thing lol! At times I think it's drying up but then I check again and there it is again. I've felt like I've done a little wee at times and gone to the toilet and I've not HA.

Getting frustrated today because I've been taking tests and they've been negative so it's hard not to think well that's me done this cycle. But I'm due in 5 days if my cycle remains 30 days as it has been for last few months and my boobs are usually sore my now I'm sure of it and they're not even a little bit. I keep telling myself it's still possibly too soon and that's why tests are negative so I still find myself googling crazily. I am waiting for AF to be the ultimate hope killer but I just wish I could fast forward until the 18th when due and it either comes or I get a BFP. It's so hard this waiting malarkey!

If the spotting I had this week was implantation surely I should be getting a faint line now as it's been a good couple days since I had that but perhaps not, I hope so!

It's just pure desperation and frustration now so I'm sorry for the jumbled and pathetic rant!

Also my friend who's been quite negative with me about TTC and telling me to stop thinking about it and saying it might not happen and calling me crazy when I talk about it (duh I know and also aren't all women TTC crazy) all of a sudden wants a third, when she's always been adamant she didn't want anymore and I'm like urm don't you dare get pregnant before me!!!

I don't think I could face her if she did haha!

Blondeandbroody · 13/12/2019 14:42

OMG so sorry for the essay ffs haha 😂

Katie1109 · 13/12/2019 15:19

Well I have just had an hour nap and still would be sleeping if my mum did not call. I feel exhausted, constantly yawning. Checked my cervix and there is brown tinged lotion like cm. My OH walked in when I was getting a shower and said my boobs look bigger - considering I’m a borderline C/D that’s something! I haven’t told him anything about my weird spotting and how I feel not to give him false hope, so as far as he’s concerned I had period from Monday and it’s finished by Thursday morning x

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Daisy8008 · 13/12/2019 16:35

Hi all hope you're all ok! So I've just used a FRER at 13dpo and it's negative. Am I out?? AF due tomorrow 😫

Blondeandbroody · 13/12/2019 18:20

@Daisy8008 not until AF shows x

Daisy8008 · 13/12/2019 18:32

@Blondeandbroody thank you! It's crazy because I know this deep down, but having someone say it to me makes a difference. Also it was a clear blue early detector... just read they're not the best 🙈. May aswell just pee directly on £10 notes 😂

Blondeandbroody · 13/12/2019 18:59

@Daisy8008 😂😂😂😂😂

I don't advise that haha!

Ktn35 · 13/12/2019 19:24

Hi ladies,
Hope you had a good day.
@ellsbells that is exactly what my CM is like ... It's weird. No period (due yesterday) but also a BFN again with an ASDA test ... When will I accept I'm out and stop testing?! 😭🤣

Ktn35 · 13/12/2019 19:26

@daisy8008... My CBs said BFN too..
They must be crap surely?! 😭

Daisydays1 · 13/12/2019 19:42

Sending baby dust to all you ladies at Christmas, day 27 tonight started getting a burning sensation along my bikini line below belly button so think I maybe out now🙄

No period cramps just burning sensation at mo