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Chixk34 · 22/11/2019 02:54

Was TTC (trying to conceive) With My Husband. My LMP (last menstrual period) Was April 18th. I Have 28 day cycles. We have sex all the time unprotected. However I Was Sexually Assaulted May 10th & Got A Positive Hpt May 16. I’m Afraid My Baby Could Belong To a rapist. I Went To The Er May 20th Hcg was 434 & Had Them Rechecked On May 23 & They were 1134. My Due date is Jan 23 & My Baby Has Been Measuring Perfect to That. I Know I Need a Dna But Up Until Now I Was Certain My Baby Was My Husband. Please No Mean Comments

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Pixxie7 · 22/11/2019 03:20

Bless you not sure how to answer this. Presuming you husband knows what happened to you, remember that it takes a minute to become a father but a lifetime to be a dad.

Chixk34 · 22/11/2019 04:34

The test 6 days post assault

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NotMaryWhitehouse · 22/11/2019 06:59

I would think it unlikely (but not impossible) that a pregnancy test would come up that clearly after six days.

I hope you have been able to discuss the assault with someone? It must be very distressing for you, please make sure you do everything you can to help yourself get through this.

MsChatterbox · 22/11/2019 08:12

So sorry you have had to go through this. There is a really small chance that the baby is not your husband's. I don't know anyone that's got a positive test at 6dpo! Even if you implanted at 2dpo which is the earliest possible point, you would need more than 4 days for hcg to rise enough for a positive. Of course still have the dna test, but I would feel confident to say that it's your husband's baby.

Katie1109 · 22/11/2019 08:58

I'd say the baby is your husband's x I'm so sorry you had to go through this. As I said in your previous posts, clear positive like that at 6dpo is technically impossible, so you must have been pregnant before the assault, possibly conceived between 2-5th of May x

Hepsibar · 22/11/2019 09:27

You are more than this assault. This is one horrible thing that has happened. But you are a whole human being who everyone cares for - funny, amazing, intelligent, determined, resilient and we are all inspired you have the strength to reach out here. I wish you the very best with all my heart.

Sunflower2019 · 22/11/2019 10:33

I would say definitely your husband. I’m very sorry you had to go through this. I hope that this baby gives you a little ray of light through an awful ordeal. Xx

LouMumsnet · 22/11/2019 11:31

Hello, @Chixk34 - we're really sorry to hear about what you're going through and we wanted to flag up our
We Believe You campaign as there is lots of useful information there that may guide you towards seeking some RL help.

With very best wishes to you and thanks to everyone who's offered OP much needed advice and support.

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Chixk34 · 22/11/2019 13:04

Thanks Guys For Your Help

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Chixk34 · 22/11/2019 13:07

Thanks for your help I appreciate it. My doctor told me it’s a less than 1% Chance But Ig The pregnancy is kicking my anxiety into overdrive

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