End of November, jump on board!

[Skygirl1983]

Moving on from the October threads, join in those that will be testing at the end of November. (Which also happens to be my birthday!)

@mellymoo86 I ordered myself some new decs today, Mataram have a 3 for 2 on😍😍

Hey girls. Mind if i join in? Im driving myself insane this month trying to symptom spot 🙈 think im due to ovulate tomorrow. AF is due around 27th. I feel like i should be half way through TWW already. I need a distraction 😂😂

@Jam234 This probably isn't the most distracting play, but at least you're not on your own and realise you're not the only crazy one! Is this your first cycle?
(I felt like saying first rodeo there 😂)

I also blame this for my late night Amazon shop of One step tests and Christmas decorations 😂😂

Update - boobs still sore they seem to be worse late afternoon evening, full of wind last night & this morning. feeling on & off queasiness this morning but maybe I'm imagining it. Working today so won't be on until later. Hope everyone is well & there's no AF for anyone ❌🤞🏼

Think I'm out 😔 woke up with AF cramps this morning. Took a FRER because I was worried about AF turning up during the day and having a little cry at work 😂. BFN. Not a single hint of a line. Am 12 DPO and AF due Friday so pretty certain it's accurate! Wishing all you ladies lots of luck, will keep reading this thread to see you get your BFPs! X

@stepmumma91 fingers crossed it's not AF 😕 @nt1992 how many days DPO are you now? x

@CiaraJ01 I'm 13 DPO today xx

@nt1992 theres still hope 🤞🤞

Morning guys
I'm 11dpo today and feel NOTHING
I hate this I feel to cry so ridiculous isnt it!! I know af isnt here yet but I just know I'm going to be so upset if it does 😓 I guess I'm just having one of those days 😒
Ttc is just consuming my life but how can it not I'm not a laid back person plus me and OH dont have a lot of sex normally so it has to be scheduled in to get somewhere! Urgh
Sorry I just needed to vent 😓

How is everyone?

How are you all? I hope atleast one of us gets a BFP.
I know 2ww is too hard and disgusting enough. but i think convincing ourselves that we are not pregnant and surprisingly getting a BFP is WAY BETTER than feelin pregnancy all the way and atlast welcoming the witch. :(

Relax everyone. Stressing can affect conception.

@Ellsbells112 Similar to you, 8 DPO and nothing! I'm trying to put it out of my mind and focus on Christmas now! Agree with @PrettyGirl5545 stressing affects us - and causes it's own symptoms just to confuse us more!!
But it is shit constantly planning..then waiting. What cycle are you on?

Morning ladies. 1dpo for me. What fun! I'm feeling good though. What will be will be. Based on feedback from my hubby and how much of a pain in the arse I have been stressing, I will not be stressing or obsessing this month. It consumes enough time as it is. I'm not going to let it consume my every waking thought as I wait! I'll go mad if I do!!

@Skygirl1983 I was about to ask how you were feeling today. I found myself googling and youtubing again last night but I stopped myself. I have however been feeling my cervix out of curiosity. I think I found it now lol

@CiaraJ01 officially cycle 3 but came off iud in april hoping it would "just happen" 🙄
I know stress isnt good lol I hate stressing but it's really hard not to constantly think about it, as you know! Plus I suffer with anxiety so this is like the worst thing ever 🤣 the thoughts that go through my head make ME roll my eyes hahaha
I guess because saturday I will know or I will be on af and it's super close I'm getting nervous now
What cycle are you on?

@mellymoo86 I cant reach my cervix as it's too far back. Smear tests are always fun!! Not sure yet when I will start testing from but probably next weekend. I will try my best not to symptom spot though. Especially as my AF throws up a lot of symptoms anyway. Are you feeling positive about it all though???

@CiaraJ01 Yes please divert your mind to something else lovelies. It helps in conceiving fast. My friend and I have been ttc since 8 months. This month, she had decided not to worry, not to expect and had made her mind that I'm not pregnant this month. Now she called me and said she got her BFP!!!!

@CiaraJ01 This could be my cycle9 ttc sisso.. Right now I'm on AF day 4 💔

@Skygirl1983 I think I'm feeling my cervix 😂 I have no clue to be honest. I'm not sure how I'm feeling. Sometimes I feel nothing and I'm telling myself let's just keep trying as I'm already convinced it didn't happen this month. I guess I feel like I should feel something although I know it's early days. I was thinking ydy that if nothing happens by January I'm going to the doctors and will say I've been trying for a year.

@mellymoo86 I think we need to just keep reminding ourselves of how early it is in the process and the reality of it is the sperm might have only just met the egg and the process may have only just started. I'm not expecting to be feeling anything yet. If we dont get pregnant we are going to keep going til the summer before we go to the doctor. I'm not looking forward to that. My hubby hates the doctors!!

I think I'm more laid back this month because we've booked a suprise villa for my parents next August and if my dates are out we cant go 🙈 So although I really want a BFP and wouldnt care about the holiday- it's kinda win win this month whatever the result 😂
Tike definitely goes quicker in the 2WW if you try avoid thinking about it, but definitely easier said than done!!
@PrettyGirl5545 I'm sure it's also harder the further cycles your on. This is only 2nd cycle so not fat behind you @Ellsbells112 x

@Skygirl1983 yes that's very true...and every woman is completely different so time will tell. I don't have patience to wait that long 😌 I've been ready for a long time and now the time has come I want it to happen quick. I know realistically it won't but I can dream 😊

@CiaraJ01 it's tough isnt it when it comes to planning trips. We are going to Paris in April which will be fine but have a few other trips we have been invited to with his parents that may or may not happen. But you still need to live your life too.

@mellymoo86 I too have wanted this for so long now. It always makes me sad when some people who cant even look after their children just pop them out and the people who are so desperately trying cant!! I know a lady who tried for 10 years who is now adopting who has had to jump through so many hoops and had her whole life scrutinised. The adopted babies mum is a junky who just keeps popping them out!

@Skygirl1983
Totally get what you mean. I was speaking to a friend last night. She has a daughter who is a few years old. I asked her about her ttc journey, she said she doesn't know what ovulation is and didn't know we had a small window to try in. I don't know, that just makes me think why I'm trying so hard. She said they just had a lot of sex over a week or two and she got pregnant. Maybe my insides are dead from all the drinking I did at uni lol.