10 DPO, whoes with me?

[jadelouiselaird]

Hey everyone anyone else at 10dpo

Do you have any symptoms and when will you test?

Baby dust

[Carolba]

@Gigi318 Yes our bodies are very magical and strange! I have bought a gift box for him and in it I am putting a little baby grow that says 'Hi Daddy', a cup says ' we have a winner', a card and when I get one, my positive pregnancy test! Eeeekkk. I know it's super presumptuous but I like to be freakily organised and would hate to have to wait for them to arrive before I told him so I have got them ready so the minute I find out (whatever month that might be) I can share the news with him straight away :)

@mrssunshinexxx I am going to have to the same! I don't have anymore FRER so I wont be testing tomorrow morning for defininate but once they arrive tomorrow then I will be soooo tempted to do it Saturday morning. When are you due? Are you waiting until AF day to test the first time?

[mrssunshinexxx]

Hi @Carolba and @Gigi318
I also have a tiny baby grow hidden that says daddy and me on it I'm going to wrap it up for him when my times comes
Af is due next Tuesday I have only ever tested early once and that was month 1 I'm not in month 6 I will see how I go i might test Sunday morning if I am bursting ! X

[mrssunshinexxx]

@Gigi318 I have no symptoms so really don't think I'm pregnant sadly but we shall wait and see what about you x

[helpasisterout]

@Gigi318 hey! Thanks for your message 🤗 hopefully going to hold out until Sunday as I work mon-fri and cant bare the thought of going to work Monday after taking a test and getting BFN 🤦🏽‍♀️as I'll be in a rage all day!

Fingers crossed for you all keep posting upto date xxx

[Gigi318]

OMG @Carolba you are the sweetest!!! I absolutely adore this idea. In my mind, I've always wanted to test with OH but now this just sounds so fantastic. We shall see what happens this month and then I may get creative!

And @mrssunshinexxx this sounds the sweetest! Is this your first? How have you found the previous months? Sunday morning doesn't sound too early. Would that then by 12dpo? I've had a bit of nausea and bad back ache yesterday and today. I've just got this feeling I'll have twins!

[Gigi318]

@helpasisterout you're welcome. I feel like we're in the same boat. I'm hoping holding out will save my sanity 🙈🤞🏻💫

[Carolba]

@mrssunshinexxx Awww you will soon be wrapping that baby grow :) Having no symptoms at this stage is as common, if not more common than having them I think. This is the first month I have felt different but that's probably down to the no alcohol, boost in multivitamins, eating ridiculously healthy and stressing about it all lol. Like Gigi said our bodies our complicated, and not so easily understood so stay positive - Tuesday is not too far away now :) x

[Carolba]

@Gigi318 oh I'm glad you like my idea .... I have also found the perfect secret place to position my phone so I can catch his reaction on video lol 🤣🤣 .... and it is so weirded that you mentioned twins ...... Monday night and last night I dreamt that I had twins ...... Tuesday I dreamt that I gave birth to triplets!!!

[Gigi318]

@Carolba it's a wonderful idea and even better to film it. I would never think about doing something like that - mainly because I cannot keep a secret to save my life. I just get far too excited and tell him stuff (obvs I can when it's important stuff haha).

Oh wow really!!! Do you have them in the family? I do, and no one has had them - and in the back of my mind I think I've always thought I might 🙈

[Carolba]

@Gigi318 I am like that, I knew if I didn't already have it prepped I wouldn't be able to wait to tell him until they arrived, I wouldn't be able to keep it a secret even for a day! Even over the last few months I have wanted to tell him what I have bought lol but I have kept my mouth shut (just)

Nope, no twins (distant in OH family) but I just keep dreaming about them haha. Don't know if its because i read somewhere that if you feel nauseous really early it could be a sign of twins - but who knows! But you seem a definite good candidate! Especially with your sickness starting monday!!?? :) :)

[Gigi318]

@Carolba we're alike in that aspect then 🤣 what are we like. 30 or 3, hey 🙈 but it's just so exciting isn't it. I'm loving your dreams too - hope they're premonitions! If that's even a thing!

Oh really??? Okay so now I'm more freaked out! Well, except the EWCM throwing me off this morning - although never been nauseous before and this back ache is next level. Neither ovulation signs for me, I usually just get a strong ache on one side and feel more fruity 😂 I'm baffled tbh. You can tell I'm new to all of this!

[mrssunshinexxx]

@Gigi318 @Carolba

Eek I'm going to video him to and have also been thinking abut the perfect spot for my phone !
It's my first baby what about you?

Wow twins ! Are they in the family , would you welcome that??

Yes I'll be 12 dpo on Sunday so I think if I was pregnant it would be likely to show up.. x

[Carolba]

@Gigi318 did you track your ovulation this month, what cycle day are you on? I've just seen this on another site .... during early pregnancy, it's normal to have an egg white discharge. This discharge is called leucorrhea and tends to be thin with a milk-like color' so it might be totally normal :)

Oh and where is your back ache? Last 3 days I have had it in the lower back but now its the top of my back which is killing me?

Lol I don't know if its a premonition ha but one would be amazing - twins would just blow me out of the park 🤣

[Carolba]

@mrssunshinexxx Eeekkk it will be a precious moment, as long as the phones stay up right lol

Not my first no, I have two boys, well, 23 and 18 so they are two men now so feels like I am starting out all over again! This will be OH first though! I am 41 now (eekk) hence why twins could be a higher possibility if got pregnant. I would be over the moon with twins. OH would love two and with age being against me 2 for the price of 1 would tick a few boxes lol

12 DPO was when I wanted to test really (which will be on Sunday) so why I tested at 9 DPO I have no idea eeeekkkkk fingers crossed hun x

[mrssunshinexxx]

@Carolba aw wow that really special starting again when you have 2 grown up kids!
Well in that case I hope you have twins!
Oh are you due af on tues too?
Maybe we should both test Sunday morning ,,,?
How many months have you been trying x

[Carolba]

@mrssunshinexxx ah no sorry I will be 11 DPO on sunday - AF due Wed/Thurs ..... I will probably still test on Sunday though - tomorrow I will be armed with four new FRER so they should get me to Tuesday haha but I am going to try not to test on Saturday so definitely Sunday! This is our 4 month, how about you? x

[mrssunshinexxx]

@Carolba month 6 and I'm getting fed up my husband works offshore so I'm pretty sure we've just missed the fertile days the first 4 months when o was only going off the flow app last month I started using cb opks but he wasn't around much
This month has been the first time he's been here for whole of fertile days and we dtd 5 days over the 7 green days on my app and in line with flashing and static smiley on my opk so I'm going to be GUTTED if it doesn't happen this month :( because he will probably be away again next month x

[Gigi318]

@mrssunshinexxx yes definitely film. What a memory to have 💖 Yes first baby. So all very new to me! Yes twins in family but none if grandchildren have had them yet. So maybe it is me? Sunday sounds good to me. How exciting. I cannot wait for it to be this time next week now!

@Carolba I did track, but just myself. I am pretty sure I'm 9dpo - but could also but also could be 6! I'm certain it's 9 though. Downloaded Flo a few says ago and it says prime day was last Sat. Again, I'm going with my own instincts. Wow - okay (re the info you gave). So it really could be then? Eek! Back ache started really low, like a kinda AF back ache but now its higher, as if the ache is causing whole back to ache 🤣 weird we're the same! I also say two for the price of one with twins!!!

Yes!!! Both test and let me live vicariously through you!!!

[Carolba]

@mrssunshinexxx aww wow well it definitely sounds like you are in with a fighting chance! I am the same this month. First month we were in marrakesh so far too hot and far too much alcohol to give it a real good go, 2nd month we stopped too early early (according to flo when it re adjusted after my AF came!) 3rd month early ovulation caught us well off guard as my OPK did not show up so we dtd too late! BUT this month we have nailed it spot on, every day of my fertile window (one day twice!) so like you I am going to be soooo gutted this month if it doesn't happen - but it will and it will happen for all of us :) :)

@Gigi318 flo was a bit unpredictable for me the first few months but go with that you are 9DPO ....when does it say your AF is due? Yes V strange we are almost identical! Fingers crossed for us all :)

Hilarious ..... OH has just walked in and spotted a half eaten jar of jalapenos next to me and is now convinced I am getting cravings ( I have just eaten half a jar in 30 minutes lol) but saying that, he is convinced every month that I am! x

[Gigi318]

@Carolba it sounds like you have nailed it! It's so hard trying to balance it isn't it. And crazy as we have like 3-4 days to try and get right! Flo is saying AF due 23rd. I am predicting 22nd - so it's about right. But then a lovely lady (I can't remember if in this thread or another) told me that if I'm ovulating early then AF will be earlier too. So who know. I'm just hoping she doesn't come at all 🤣 that'll spoil my fun, won't it!

All of the finger crossing rn 🤞🏻🤞🏻🤞🏻

Oh that's bizarre. Do you usually like hot food? If anything I'm not fancying food at all. And that's very unlike my usual foodie self!!! Although not noticing much difference food wise. I am very hungry today though. But then some days I am 😂🙈 Need to stop listening to my body TOO closely. I'll go mad!

[mrssunshinexxx]

Yay @Carolba that's great fingers crossed for us all!

Woohoo @Gigi318 first babies 😍😍 when is af due for you? X

[Gigi318]

@mrssunshinexxx AF due 22nd/23rd so a week from Sunday/Mon. 11 days til testing 🙄🙃

[Carolba]

@mrssunshinexxx it really is hard isn't it! It must be more stressful for you with your Oh working away as well - so hard to get everything lined up!That lady was right ... when I o'd early my AF came early as well - about 4 days - thats how flo predicted that I had O'd early and me and the OH spent 4 days BD outside my fertile window!! (still it was fun lol)

I don't mind hot food - although this is the first time I have eaten them straight from the jar! I have just had a big bout of nausea now - maybe it's not a good idea to eat them from the jar lol - and yes it can get obsessive tracking everything thats going on with your body - I have never paid it this much attention before, its crazy ...... but i do feel awfully sick right now :( x

[mrssunshinexxx]

@Gigi318 you still have a little way to wait but we will be here to support and wait with you x

[Gigi318]

@Carolba oh that's really interesting. Now I'm hoping AF doesn't pop up out of the blue. Well, early! We shall see! Lols - it was fun 🤣 that made me chuckle. Annoying that you missed the window though!

Yes, perhaps not the one!! Nausea could be symptoms or just too many jalapeños hehe! and you've spoilt your dinner hehehe!!! I usually do pay quite close attention, and have never noticed backache like this before. It's so bad!