10 DPO, whoes with me?

[jadelouiselaird]

Hey everyone anyone else at 10dpo

Do you have any symptoms and when will you test?

Baby dust

@Mycrazylife85 @Lizziedu49 fingers crossed girls. Arghh it's hard to know what's going on sometimes, isn't it. I feel deflated today with this CM. It's a little darker now x

@gigi318 how is the cm? Xx

Morning everyone, how are we doing??

@MsChatterbox morning babe! Long time no talk. How are you feeling?? I've had virtually nothing since my bath last night so very much on CM watch this morning to see what's going on 👀👀👀

@mrssunshinexxx how are you feeling babe?

@Carolba also want to check in on you, lovely. How are you?? 💖

Morning @Gigi318 not long til you can test now ! :) I'm fine thanks nothing happening really symptoms have died down and slept better last night thank god because I was exhausted xx

@Gigi318 when r u testing hun? X

@mrssunshinexxx I'm glad chick, nice for you to get a break for it as everything could really amp up at 6-7 weeks 😬

@AshFern I'm going to test Tuesday, babes. Hopefully the CM is clear or dry today. Literally no other symptoms at all so I can only hope that's a good thing 🤷‍♀️ how are you feeling babe?? Have you had wine 🥂

@Gigi318 I'm a genuinely so excited for you!!! Really hope its your month 🤞🤞🤞 I'm much better now....just waiting for my period to finish so I can get on with the next cycle 😉 I'm thinking of visiting the doctors early next year if I dont have any luck! I'm 34, so not sure time is on my side! But we will see xx

@AshFern I'm so glad chick. I was like that last month. So sad when AF arrived, then felt relieved, and then excited to get started again 🤣🙈 such an emotional rollercoaster!!!
Try to stay as calm as you can. I know age does come into it, but not really. I feel like if you're healthy, you're spotting fertile CM or getting positive OPKs then you've got a lot on your side. It's mega hard but if you can relax, and just enjoy DTD as much as you can around the right sort of times, you'll get there. I always think there's GOT to be a reason why so many women catch so quickly the second they 'stop trying'. We're our own worse enemies at times overthinking it all. I know I am right now 🙈 but definitely speak to a doctor to see if there's anything going on down there. Girl, you've got this 💖
That's such a kind thing to say, thank you so much 💖 I hope it is too. We shall see what happens in the next few days!!!

@Gigi318 100% agree with what you said! I go through the exact same rollercoaster every damm month! But we do enjoy the extra DTD so its not a bad thing in my opinion 🤭 sorry TMI! I was doing OPKs but stopped as it was causing more stress waiting for the smiley face on the clearblue monitor! Good thing is I always got the static smiley and my periods are very regular, so I just hope its just my timing that sucks! I often wonder whether its better to do in the mornings? We are very much night people and very very rarely do in the mornings?? I wonder if that's why we are not catching the egg??? My head tells me all kinds of theories! Haha either way, a quick blood test wont do any harm just to make sure I'm ovulating properly etc!

Hope you manage to enjoy the weekend, just relax and let your body do its thing! I will be looking out for good news in the next few days xxx

@AshFern hehehe don't worry, not TMI to me. We're all in the same boat hehe. I can imagine, I've not used OPK yet but I do worry about that. Absolutely chick, it's good to get confirmation from the doctors! It'll give you more confidence. Are you DTD three days before O? That might help? I'm not sure about time of day. I think as long as there's swimmers there before the egg pops out you're good!
Thank you chick. I hope so. I've got lots of lovely little bits to do so it should be a nice distraction 🙌🏻💖

To be honest, we have tried it all. We have done every day of the fertile week, every other day and every 3 days aswell. We have tried every combo possible and nothing! I do think it's a lot to do with luck! I even wonder how I conceived first time around but it was like you said, the month I conceived we weren't trying as we had a big holiday to look forward to! And bam! I was pregnant on holiday! I just cant seem to replicate that this time around! I've stopped temping and doing OPKs as I hope that will relax me and just let me go with the flow, u know?

Enjoy your relaxing weekend and take it easy xxx

@AshFern exactly. And then you find yourself overthinking it and planning so much. I truly believe that all of the thoughts lead to stress and just harm our chances. It consumes us, doesn't it. Even when we try to relax, it's there hanging over us. And it MUST mean the womb is hostile or something. Because why else when women stop TTC and just go about life does it happen. So frustrating! I say keep going as you are and just try to keep busy. And if all else fails, book a holiday 😂🙊👏🏻
Thank you love, I am so far - it's very relaxing!!! 💖

Good news! After thinking my positive OPK was a distant dream- it arrived this morning! Clear as day. Managed to pull out all the stops to coerce DH not to go out into the garden, and stay in bed. EWCM too. First time the stars have aligned on a positive OPK day. If anything, that'll do me alone

@Mycrazylife85 babe this is amazing!!! Hurrah!! So pleased for you. Now you can relax and enjoy your weekend. And TWW starts tomorrow??? 😍👏🏻

@Gigi318 it certainly does. I'm not holding out much hope, and (so far) feel relaxed, but most importantly there is more hope than previous months. ☺️ have a lovely weekend ladies. Be thinking of you for test day

Hi @Gigi318 ..... Sorry I have been away so long - I have tried to remain stress free and not analyse everything over the last month! I have missed so many posts but how are you? Where are you in your cycle? I am currently 4 days late for AF but keep getting BFN on the tests ..... It is driving me crazy because I can usually set me clock by my Af - she always arrives bang on time like clockwork so I just don't get it :( :( :( It is driving me crazy now! And thanks for checking in on me xxx

And OMG @mrssunshinexxx CONGRATULATIONS!!! Eeekkk I am so so happy for you babe ...... its amazing news :) :) :) xxx

Thanks so much @Carolba I did wonder where you had gone :) hmm what tests are you using? Xx

@Mycrazylife85 definitely best for you to relax as much as you can! Absolutely. Allow yourself to be positive. It's okay to believe it can happen! So pleased you've had such clear signs of O and you've covered it. Hurrah! Thank you. And don't worry, I will be sure to share what happens with everyone!!

@Carolba relaxation is good!!! Eeeekkk 4 days late. Yay!!!! Some BFPs don't come for days. When did you last test?? This is so exciting!!! So pleased for you to be late and relaxed. Hurrah!
I'm well thank you. Currently 11DPO. No symptoms apart from pinkish-brown CM 9DPO and yesterday. Really slowed down today. AF due on Wednesday so I think I will test Tuesday as I will be 14DPO by then 💖

@mrssunshinexxx I've been using FRER so should have shown up by now as they are the mostly sensitive but I've also used clearblue early detection and just nothing. Everytime I go to the toilet I expect AF to raise her ugly head! When is your EDD? I bet you are just on cloud 9! I am so happy for you :) xx

@Gigi318 This morning lol ..... I have tested every morning since AF due :( I am scared to get too excited but I have all of fingers crossed that I will get a BFP soon! Either that or AF so we can start again - this is even more agonising than the TWW! ...... Fingers crossed for you for tuesday! Pinkish brown cm on 9dpo is definitely a good sign eeeekkkkk xx

@Carolba all depends on when implantation happened you could of ovulated later than you think ?

23rd June which is our wedding anniversary how cute x

@Carolba eeeekkk maybe wait tomorrow and try again Monday? You know that the hcg doubles every 48 hours so giving it a day is always a good idea 🙌🏻 and maybe you can have a relaxing Sunday!!
Yes definitely, you just want to know what's going on, right!
Awwww thank you, everyone is saying as such as I do feel positive but I'm also scared to feel positive - like you. Only 11DPO today so still early, but I just feel normalish really! I am excited to test, just hope it's going to give me good news 🤞🏻💖

@Gigi318 feeling normal is not a bad sign I felt normal and was not feeli positive for my test at 13dpo I was gobsmacked honestly xx

@mrssunshinexxx eeek! I'm trying not to be too excited butttt 💖💖💖

@Gigi318 I dont think I will be able to stand not testing tomorrow if AF doesn't come lol ...I have a test for tomorrow and I've ordered more that arrive tomorrow - i figured i will need them, even if it's for next month! I've had no symptoms at all other than feeling really tired but I think that's just work, oh and I have a few lower stomach cramps, like when AF is due but a lot lighter and I've been having them on and off for about 5 days - surely HCG should be a little higher by now! But hey I'm not out just yet :) I am really excited for you this cycle, I have a great feeling for you.... roll on Tuesday :) xx

@mrssunshinexxx yes I'm hoping implantation happened on the later side and I was out with ovulation by a day or so and theres still a chance. I've read on some threads that some people didnt get a positive until weeks after a missed period so I am still clutching at a few straws lol....Aww that is so sweet ..... you will have a lot to celebrate :) xx

@Carolba you definitely will need them. Whether for now or next month, let you say. Hopefully that BFP will show soon. Do you feel as if AF is coming on? Glad the symptoms seem to be a bit all over the place - nothing too AF like then?
Thank you so much chick, I am both excited but nervous. Not much longer to wait now 🙌🏻💖