10 DPO, whoes with me?

[jadelouiselaird]

Hey everyone anyone else at 10dpo

Do you have any symptoms and when will you test?

Baby dust

@MsChatterbox that's the thing isn't it - I don't feel pregnant at all. But nor do I feel pre-AF-y. So lord knows! I'm not having any cramps. Nothing else. That's it babe, focus on the positive stats. It would be so amazing, fingers crossed we do 💖🤞🏻

@gigi318 it's a good thing you don't feel pregnant. That makes it even more possible this is implantation. As you don't get hcg until implantation and hcg is what makes you feel pregnant! So I'm really hoping this is it for you!!

@MsChatterbox oh babe that is so true 😭🙌🏻💖 Let's hope it is! I'm CD24 today! Let's see is any symptoms start popping up 😂🙈 although I shall do my best to ignore them!!!

@Gigi318 sounds v promising I know easier said than done but try not to stress it's soooo bad for us I was in such a bad place for a couple cycles then the first time I chilled I am now pregnant. I have zero sex drive and I feel bad for hubby m also scared to have sex incase it does anything wrong hahaha I know how ridiculous that sounds but hoping someone understands where I'm coming from!

@Gigi318 you were right to count the fresh pink/red blood as your first day so I'd say that you are correct in your dates. Perhaps implantation. Fingers crossed

@mrssunshinexxx thank you lovely lady, that really helps! I'm generally so relaxed and especially this month I have just enjoyed it and gone with it. Then when I saw the CM I was soooo confused (with it being 9DPO) at first, then excited thinking IB, then panic it was early AF. BUT I now know it is what it is. So we shall see before long!
Hehehe totally get that. I think I would be the same. Incase you dislodge the baby 🤣🙈 even though I know that's not a think. I think I would be worried at first too!

@Mycrazylife85 thank you! I read somewhere to always count red fresh, full-flow blood so that's what I did. Glad to be reassured! You know sometimes when you're just second guessing everything because you have no idea what's going on! Thank you chick. We shall see if it stops soon 💖

I need to get over this pretty quick or hubby will be grumpy! 😂 @Gigi318

@mrssunshinexxx maybe you could just ease into it? Just sort of play around first. Then back to DTD - so you're not lead there worried the whole time. You'll be fine - just take it easy and relax 💖

I'll jump back on the horse as they say this eve 😜 @Gigi318 if I hadn't tested I would definitely know I was pregnant I feel so weird and constant flutter butterflies nervous feeling hopefully it's all normal xx

@mrssunshinexxx I think that's very normal babe. Lots of people say about the fluttering and just not feeling themselves. I'm feeling oddly energised - especially after a lack of sleep. But, that could be the caffeine (which I do need to cut down gahh). Yesss, definitely. Just ease yourself in and I'm sure you'll relax and go with it!

@Gigi318 I'm glad I feel different to be honest, I'm going to stock up in decaf tea and coffee tomorrow ! X

Can someone slap me please.

I walked into work today and my colleague asked "are you pregnant - just looking at you I got a feeling..."
not that I need much encouragement....
well, meant to be going for drinks tonight after work so basically I did an early test which was bfn and now I'm pissed of with myself and with the result.
Grrrr

@Icouldstillbejoseph oh no ☹️ it's ok, we all succumb at some point and test when we know deep down we shouldn't. Please don't beat yourself up too much... what CD are you? Xx

@Lizziedu49 thanks - CD25

@Icouldstillbejoseph do you know how many DPO?

Not for sure. Not even sure I did ovulate (wail)

@Icouldstillbejoseph any idea how long your cycles normally are and how well you covered your FW by DTD? You tested completely out of the blue so don't be disheartened. Maybe your colleague actually has some sort of genuine gut feeling!!

@Lizziedu49
Cycles are normally 27-28 days. Was using OPK but got fed up as never got 2 strong lines.
DTD over the FW according to my Flo app.

I need to face the reality that this is another failed month!
Thank you for your kindness

@mrssunshinexxx good idea. Best to start cutting back as much as you can. You can have 200mg a day, so some tea and soft drinks is okay! So exciting!

@Icouldstillbejoseph oh chick!!!! Sorry to hear that. And what an odd thing for someone to say. BUT you still could be if no AF! Keep your spirits up chick, you'll get there 💖

I'm wearing a dress that makes my boobs look huge - maybe that's what my colleague meant!

@Icouldstillbejoseph that's probably why! Hopefully you'll get an answer either way soon xx

@Icouldstillbejoseph you definitely don't know it's another failed month so don't say that!! Just need to keep patient and try again in a few days xx

Good luck ladies. I'm bleeding now, 4 days early and going home for a gin and sulk. Hope you are all luckier than me :)

@Icouldstillbejoseph so sorry to hear that ☹️. Hopefully in a few days you feel ready to tackle another month ❤️