TTC First Baby Thread 21

[Lottiepink]

Hope you all don't mind me starting this one off, but last one was nearly full... already,
Hi to all the newbies ☺️ sorry for everyone I missed, just went through some of the recents, so please mark your place 😊
I try to keep up mused but it moves so fast 🤣

@LokiCat
@AysLon
@LikeTheFruit
@ValidUser
@MrsH497
@ELW85
@Lozzlepop
@Larrydavid
@Anny27
@macbless
@MIW01

@Maisy24 thank you! You're right and I'd be saying the same to other people. I think sometimes it can just get a bit overwhelming - I panicked yesterday but I think I'm good again today. It's great that your friend got pregnant so quickly! And I did not know that about twins! I thought twins were more likely with ivf but I didn't realize that about the double egg thing. I really hope it happens soon for you too 💛

@Larrydavid @Maisy24 - I will put the thermometer down as honestly, my temps are hovering around the 98.4 mark (two kind of ‘steps’ up since Ov) and they may have a couple of days where they fluctuate but I can’t control it.
And if it was about to give me bad news, I can’t change it, so why obsess every morning?
This is my adult view of the world today, haha!

So keeping positive and everything crossed til the scan, and thanks ladies as always, for the support!

@Larrydavid - the twins thing is as a result of an increase in FSH which is usually triggered by a diminished ovarian reserve, so you get one hormone telling another to put more effort in to releasing one each month. In that, multiple eggs can get released. Fun :D

Hi everyone! Hope it’s ok me jumping on. I’m TTC first baby since April/May. Came off the pill in February and AF has been regular since then but only seem to last 2.5 days properly then it’s just spotting. Have been using cheap OPK’s and seem to be ovulating but got some clear blue ones on the way to be more accurate. Also going to try preseed this month! Haven’t had any luck with conceive plus x

Thanks @ELW85 and @Lozzlepop will see if coq10 works. He can be a bit stubborn like me so we'll see how I get on...

You'll get there @Lozzlepop, it will happen for you.

Didn't know that about twins later on either, I thought it was always ivf too.

Hi ladies,

Newbie / silent reader - I hope you don’t mind me joining you on this tread

This is our first month (semi) TTC after I had an ectopic pregnancy in December. I am almost at the end of my TWW (AF due on Friday) and symptom spotting constantly.

I have taken a few IC and all BFN . I was feeling sick and dizzy last week, went off coffee and v hungry but have been getting cramps since yesterday so it’s not looking good...

We’re not telling anyone we’re TTC again & even though DH is really supportive it would be great to speak to people who are in a similar position

Hi everyone😊

Hope you don’t mind me joining. I am new to this forum and it is so reassuring to hear everyone else’s story! I started thinking it was just me who couldn’t stop thinking about becoming pregnant!! I can’t believe there is so much to know- I always thought you just do the deed and that’s that! 😂

I’m currently 7dpo and seem to be symptom spotting🙈 I’m really nervous about doing a test too soon! My periods are sort of regular ( I think I’ll be due Friday 29) but even if I am late I am nervous about doing a test and it being a BFN as I don’t want to be disappointed!

To top it off I’m going on holiday on Sunday! I don’t want to be worrying about having a glass or 2 of sangria😂

When do you think will be the best/most accurate time for me to do a test? I want to be certain that the result is accurate!

Thanks xxxxx

Well AF came this morning for me, so that's officially 12 months TTC, genuinely did not see this coming . I feel like it is never going to happen.

@May2311 I thought the same about it being pretty much DTD when you’re ovulating and voila! But clearly not. I’m now even more baffled by these people who fall pregnant unexpectedly.

I think the FRER tests are the most accurate early ones and can pick up a positive about 6 days before AF is due x

Welcome newbies!

@Maisy24 so sorry to hear af arrived. At least you get a week to try rest / reset and start over. It will happen for you.

@Lozzlepop hope you are ok. Been thinking about you over the weekend.

@ELW85 100% agree on the thermometer. Will be tough though as it's almost part of daily routine!!

4 dpo for me. The wait is on!!

Happy Monday x

@Makingawish Thanks! Tell me about it! If only it was that easy.

What is FRER?

How long have you been trying?

Welcome, @PrincessConsuela12 and @May2311!

@May2311 - I’d wait until AF is due before you test, but if you really can’t wait, a minimum of 10/11 DPO is your best bet, to allow implantation and HCG to be detected.

A FRER is a First Response Early Result pregnancy test and it’s the most sensitive one on the market.

@Maisy24 - I’m really sorry to hear that. It’s a really harsh process, TTC for a while host of reasons. Be kind to yourself today and indulge in something.

@newgirl89 - I didn’t temp this morning, and I’m feeling pretty good about it :) it’s like step 1 of a 12 step programme, haha!

Have a wonderful Monday, all x

@May2311 it’s a First Response test. I’ve not used them yet but got some ready to collect for this month. This will be month 4 of trying for us. You? X

@ELW85 think that's a really sensible plan. When is the scan? xx

Morning @purplefig :) how you doing?
The scan is a week on Wednesday so I’m not sure if the time will drag or fly, but it actually felt pretty good not temping today.
It won’t change anything so I’m happy to just crack on and stay positive! Xx

@ELW85 you sound in a really good place today, makes me smile. I really have got everything crossed for you. Not long at all to go - perhaps not temping will speed things up to. I loved temping for TTC, but I did find doing it first thing put me in that mindset as soon as I woke up. I'm pretty good thanks, just the usual tired/potato obsession stuff going on!

Thank you, @purplefig - I feel a lot more settled. It was all pretty traumatic last week, but I’ve had time to get my head around it and it was good to see the progression in the CB digital test yesterday (it went to 2-3 weeks) so that was reassuring.
I think it’s just a lot to take in without having the bleed etc, but feeling much more settled about it!
I’m so tired too!

Tell me about your potato obsession? 😂

@ELW85 that is completely understandable and I think you handled it really well considering how traumatic a time it was. I really do feel quite good about your progression through - the fact your CB has gone up is so, so reassuring. And (not that we're talking about them anymore!) but your temps are where they should be too. I know you won't properly relax until you've had your scan, but I'm so glad you're feeling more settled. Nausea = carb cravings which has turned into an all out obsession for the humble potato. Honestly, I'll never take them for granted again!

@ELW85 Great to see you have a scan date! I know it probably feels like ages away but the further along you are for a scan the better. It’ll be here in no time at all as well - just one more weekend!
If I can offer some advice from someone who knows all too well what that ‘limbo’ feels like - put the HPTs away, too. You’re definitely pregnant! Test progression is a bit of a myth especially in the early weeks and the HCG levels are just kicking in. Plus, urine tests aren’t nearly as reliable for the hormone count as a blood test so it’s not unusual for a line to not change, or even a CB to go backwards. Would you panic if you took another and it said 1-2, even though in actuality there’s nothing wrong? I know I would. I just ignored all of my ‘TTC paraphernalia’ (as DH called it) completely and just keep in that positive mindset - just tell yourself, right now you are pregnant - that scan will be here before you know it x

@purplefig - thank you for the lovely words and support. I’m even doing a (gentle) gym session tonight so I’m pretty happy with where I am :)
Haha, I’ve felt nauseous off and on but am yet to stumble upon your potato obsession- give it time though!!
It’s great to hear that you’re getting on well. Have you had any thoughts on finding out the gender?

@MrsEG - of course, advice is always welcome :) and it’s lovely to hear from you!
You’re right, they aren’t as sensitive as bloods and apart from the one the hospital is making me do before I go in for the scan (they want to make sure I’m still getting a positive after the bleeding), I promise I won’t be doing any more!
I definitely feel in a much better mindset and although it’s still a bit of limbo, I feel pretty good and am determined to stay that way.

How are you getting on? X

Hi ladies!
@ELW85 glad you're feeling positive
@Lozzlepop hope you're doing ok
@MrsEG so lovely to see you and @purplefig

@PippaPug how was your wedding?!

Welcome newbies

We are thinking of trying SMEP this month anyone done it and been successful?! Xx

@ELW85 The first few weeks are a limbo for anyone; you’re in no different a boat than anyone else! You’ve just had a bit of an early scare but I feel very hopeful for you :)

@MrsH497 Hi lovely, how are you doing? I am fine - really feeling the effects of the hormones the last few days but I’m getting through it okay, with the help of beige food and polo mints :) xx

Let's relax and conceive.Most women conceive when they least expect it.Stress is no good.I know it is easier said than done but it is possible to enjoy this ttc journey in a more relaxed way.
The only scientific thing I am using now is opk and temping.I have decided to not check cm anymore.
I have started to listen to positive pregnancy chants too to avoid feeling negative.
Gonna keep myself busy

@MrsEG I'm ok second AF was shorter than normal. Keeping everything crossed this is our cycle! Enjoyed being in Devon and got a day off today with DH and enjoying the sun xx

Afternoon ladies :)

Hard to keep up with so many messages after a day or so of not reading haha!

Hope everyone is doing well and keeping positive.

I am 7dpo and having similar PMS symptoms as usual. Feeling still hopeful though! AF due next monday/ Tuesday so thinking of testing on Sunday

Those whp have had their BFPs - did you experience the normal PMS symptoms or did you feel different?

A menstrual flow of minimum 2 days is acceptable.
Our cycles can slighly vary from month to month.