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TTC First Baby Thread 21

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Lottiepink · 17/07/2019 22:54

Hope you all don't mind me starting this one off, but last one was nearly full... already,
Hi to all the newbies ☺️ sorry for everyone I missed, just went through some of the recents, so please mark your place 😊
I try to keep up mused but it moves so fast 🤣

@LokiCat
@AysLon
@LikeTheFruit
@ValidUser
@MrsH497
@ELW85
@Lozzlepop
@Larrydavid
@Anny27
@macbless
@MIW01

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Larrydavid · 30/07/2019 21:48

@MrsEG beautiful pictures! So pleased for you.

Macbless · 30/07/2019 21:53

@Makingawish this is only the third cycle but i’m 36 almost 37 so I feel a bit of pressure from that! When did you get your static smiley? My Af is now due 14th August with the later ovulation. Any time close to you? Xx

LokiCat · 30/07/2019 21:53

@Anny27 thanks love! I'm sorry AF showed up! Take care of yourself and fingers crossed this cycle is the one 🤞🏽❤️ hormones can make our emotions so crazy!!

@Lozzlepop I'm good thank you. SMEP is okay, have only DTD twice so far - think I've got a week to go before I get a positive OPK. Annoyingly DH's work had to cancel his rest days, so he's been getting home after midnight last few days (continues till tomorrow!), which is when I'm normally sleeping. Going to try and stay up tonight, so most likely will be shattered at work tomorrow. The things we do to TTC! 🙈
How are you doing? Your weekend sounded lovely, I love a good steak 😊
Are you thinking of taking a break from TTC this cycle?

@MrsEG what gorgeous scan photos! That must have been so exciting to see. Very happy for you! Xx

@hopeandpray1988 haha he does make this journey bearable! Definitely lucky to have him and his lame one liners 😂
Everything crossed for the morning for you lovely xx

@MrsH497 have not had it myself, but good thing you caught the surge! Time to get down to business!! Enjoy GrinWink

georgiarclark11 · 30/07/2019 21:54

@Anny27 thanks for the reply, new to these chats! I have been doing ovulation tests on and off, going to keep up with them now daily. Also have the flo app to track changes see if that will help. I know the doctor will just tell me to lose weight.

I was on the implant, had it out and didn't have a period for 4 months, had 1 and haven't had one since.

Argghhh!

I know everyone is in the same boat but am seeing so many success stories I am hopeful I can get some advice.

Also saw an article on medication to bring on a period. Does anyone have any experience with that?

Macbless · 30/07/2019 21:56

@MrsH497 good job you using the OPKs! My app and the OPKs don’t seem to be rallying up either. Good luck with the 3 days in a row! Xx

Makingawish · 30/07/2019 21:57

@Macbless I got my static smiley on Sunday which brought my ovulation forward a day or 2 so now AF is predicted 12th August! When does your TWW start? X

Lottiepink · 30/07/2019 21:58

@MrsEG OMG that is simply amazing 😍😍 I bet you are over the moon, so so pleased for you!

@hopeandpray1988 got my positive one today, going to do another one tomorrow and see if it's still peak, usually get 2 days of peak. Good luck for tomorrow!

@MrsH497 sorry I just use the cheap opk's so can't really comment, but that's bound to be a good thing??

How do you ladies all feel around ovulation? I feel utterly exhausted this cycle, need to dtd tonight and I feel like I can't be bothered... totally not like me, normally always in the mood, no matter what cycle day 🤣I've looked back and normally a few days before I've logged slight tiredness, but this is unreal! Also felt so sickly today... really hope I'm not coming down with a bug ☹️ seems like it tho! Best dtd incase I'm totally ill tomorrow 😬

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Macbless · 30/07/2019 22:17

@Makingawish hopefully my temp will have risen in the morning and TWW have begun! If the apps right then my cycle will be 31 days long which is much longer than usually (normally 26-27 days) but trying not to read anything into it! I was talking to a friend who told me she spent a fortune on pregnancy tests so much so that he banned them from the house! I’ve not bought any and have managed to stop myself the last two cycles. Made a deal with myself only to buy one if AF is late. Hoping I can stick to it!
How long have you been trying? X

Makingawish · 30/07/2019 22:22

@Macbless your cycle could still be the usual length but you may just ovulate later on. You've got more willpower than me not having pregnancy tests in the house! I bought a pack of about 30 🤦🏻‍♀️ we've been properly trying only about 4 cycles including this but I'd only been using the cheap OPK's previously so may have mistimed ovulation previously. We're also following SMEP and using preseed so I've got everything crossed this month xx

Macbless · 30/07/2019 22:38

@Makingawish sounds like you are doing everything right! I really hope it works for you xx

Jadey31 · 30/07/2019 23:11

Hey guys. Just marking my place here so I can keep up to date with where everyone is at xxx

LokiCat · 31/07/2019 06:38

@ELW85 @hopeandpray1988 just wanted to wish you both luck for your scan appointments today. Have everything crossed that all is okay ❤️

ELW85 · 31/07/2019 07:17

Morning all!
Scan day and totally nervous, but trying to stay calm and optimistic!

Thank you @LokiCat - I’ll update after the hospital 💕

@MrsH497 - yes, I’ve had that before! Good luck with the next couple of days 😂

@hopeandpray1988 - thank you and good luck for today, my dear. 🤞🏻 Xx

MrsH497 · 31/07/2019 07:32

Thanks @ELW85 both were shattered last night was probably more of a struggle than it should've been 😂 good luck for today!

hopeandpray1988 · 31/07/2019 07:36

Morning! Very nervous, not gonna lie. Did a test this morning so I felt more positive and it's still darker than the one I caved and did two days ago. Keeping everything crossed.
Will be thinking of you @ELW85 hope it's the news we want xx

Lozzlepop · 31/07/2019 08:06

@hopeandpray1988 I have everything crossed for you today lovely!

Makingawish · 31/07/2019 08:12

@Macbless thank you! Best of luck to you too 💜 xx

LokiCat · 31/07/2019 08:29

Well I had a very interesting morning. Tested three times yesterday and wasn't even close to a peak, but had a temp spike this morning, lots of EWCM and a positive on my OPK 😩
DH came home around 1ish last night, woke me up but I was too tired to DTD. So I ran to him this morning and woke him up. Bless him he was up to go but I think I put too much pressure on him (mostly cos I was running late for work - I felt so bad!). So we didn't manage to do it 🙈
He's working late again tonight, but will force myself to stay up! Hopefully we're not out this cycle.. last time we DTD was Sunday morning.

@MrsH497 well done for managing to do it! I didn't realise it would be this difficult 😂

Have a good day all xx

MrsH497 · 31/07/2019 08:38

@LokiCat neither did I!! 😂 still got 2 more days then 1 more for luck! Hopefully weekend away will assist our frisky sides! Last night was just not working for either of us 😂 but hey

Have a great day everyone.

@ValidUser how are you doing?

Nearlyusnai · 31/07/2019 08:43

@whatsthecraic91 here I've only managed to hold off cos I got the BFN the other day and I've not just convinced myself we didnt catch this month. I'll still be devastated when AF arrives. Have fun Saturday I'm off for cocktails for a friend's birthday so we can both drown the sorrows.

ELW85 · 31/07/2019 09:13

Well ladies, I’m 5w6d with a healthy heartbeat and seen!
Keep absolutely everything crossed for me that it stays that way!
So relieved I cried at the scan!
Thank you all for your lovely messages of support - it means so much :) xx

Lozzlepop · 31/07/2019 09:19

@MrsH497 oh the most tiring stage of SMEP!!

@Macbless I am almost 36 so with you on the time pressure!

@LokiCat good going lovely, its a long road is the old SMEP! Well they recommend allowing one period before TTC again. I have started OPKs which are low but the weirdest thing last night and this morning I felt I was having OV pains which is so weird.

@ELW85 so so happy for you!!

Hope everyone has a great Wednesday!!

hopeandpray1988 · 31/07/2019 09:31

@ELW85 congratulations chick! 😘
We've just had our scan and like I suspected I'm only 5 weeks not 6 so there wasn't much for them to see. Said at this point everything is as it should be though in the early stages of pregnancy. Lots of fluid and a gestational sack. They've made me another scan appointment for 2 weeks time where they said they'll see more and we should hear the heartbeat 🙂 I'm going to take my time and relax for the next two weeks now. Luckily I'm off work for the next 4 and a half as I'm a teacher 👍🏻

ELW85 · 31/07/2019 09:39

@hopeandpray1988 - thank you so much!
It’s great that they’re getting you back when they can see more.
I’m sure it’ll all go well, but you’re totally right to relax in the next couple of weeks :) xx

purplefig · 31/07/2019 09:43

@ELW85 YESSSS!!!!!!! GET IN!!! I am over the moon for you mate!!!! Came on here to wish you well today and so relieved to see you've already been in haha. Come and join us on the pregnancy thread whenever you feel like it. I found it really reassuring as loads of ladies on there much further along who have been through it all. Ahhh big hugs. I've got a proper big grin on my face Grin

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