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TTC 1st Baby - Thread 17!

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MrsEG · 08/05/2019 15:50

Hi everyone! I’ve started a new thread as we are dangerously close to 1000 posts in the last one! I’ll add a link to it now :) Here’s hoping it’s a lucky one!

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ValidUser · 11/05/2019 19:24

And the fact that I've started at 8dpo and not 5 is positively restrained for me!

Jessikka · 11/05/2019 20:09

@Marleym28 I can sympathise!
Since stopping the pill I've had what I've nicknamed "faulty" periods. 😂
I went from 4days of medium... to two light days one heavy... to 1 light day 1 medium and that was it! (That one scared me I thought 2days was too low) but I've now moved back to 4days of light and medium.
I did a LOT of googling when they nearly stopped and I learnt that some women only bleed a day. Some for 7. Everyone's different but the main thing is that you're getting them. Not the length I think X

Marleym28 · 11/05/2019 20:22

@Jessikka thanks

I came off my pill on Oct last yr, since then they've been pretty consistent
That's why it's thrown me a little.

I think it is just period though ... TTC doesn't some funny things to your mind 🙄

Jessikka · 11/05/2019 20:31

@Marleym28 I want back all of the times In the last 10 years I've turned down sex with the OH because I forgot one pill.

Had I bloody known how this malarkey works I'd have enjoyed myself more 🙈🙈😂

starkid · 11/05/2019 23:03

@DayDreamer1707 - welcome back! Definite line there, am excited for you to post a FRER soon alongside @MrsEG ! 😍
@ValidUser - ooh that's a squinter, try again Monday? 😊

Ok some advice please - I'm only 4dpo, but there was bright red blood when I wiped just now. Could that be anything at all except a cut? I don't feel sore 🤔 really weird!

starkid · 12/05/2019 07:40

To update, this morning there was a blob of pink cm :-/ I'm only on cd20, and 5dpo

MrsEG · 12/05/2019 08:06

13DPO! @DayDreamer1707 Have you tested yet?
It still doesn’t feel real - I think I’ll only allow myself some excitement if no AF at all tomorrow!

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MrsEG · 12/05/2019 08:11

@1990shopefulftm I started feeling shattered yesterday at 12DPO, but as you say tiredness can be one of many things!

@Beck2277 Have you tried using an app like Clue to track ovulation so you can be sure of the dates?

@Starkid I really don’t know on that one - 4DPO seems early for implantation bleeding - maybe keep an eye on it then next few days!

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ValidUser · 12/05/2019 08:55

@MrsEG that's a lovely line!

Still squinting here, but had a massive temp rise this morning.

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MrsEG · 12/05/2019 09:36

@ValidUser I really am keeping fingers toes legs and arms crossed for a dark line for you in the next few days!

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ELW85 · 12/05/2019 09:36

@MrsEG - congratulations!!! That’s definitely a positive 😊 so happy for you!!

Fivebyfive2 · 12/05/2019 09:42

@MrsEG, yeeesss!! Hopefully she stays away, I'm sure that line is darker than the one the other day?! Xx

@DayDreamer1707,sorry I missed all last nights posts. It's a definite line, are you testing again on a different type of test in a day or two? Xx

@Validuser, I'm not good at squinting (sure I need glasses sometimes!) but it's really early, maybe try to hold off a couple of days if you can? When is af due? Could try the day before? Got everything crossed for you! Xx

@Starkid, I'm not sure about what that could be?! Are you feeling OK? Xx

PaintingOwls · 12/05/2019 09:45

Breakfast today. What has my life become!

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ValidUser · 12/05/2019 09:46

@Fivebyfive2 you truly overestimate my restraint! Due in about 4 days. Temp rise prompted me to test today! 😂

MrsEG · 12/05/2019 09:48

@ELW85 Thanks lovely!

@Fivebyfive2 Yep, definitely darker! If AF stays away tomorrow I’ll do one more for good luck on Tuesday and then get myself to the GP! How are you feeling at the mo?

@PaintingOwls Ha!!! Enjoy!!

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KatBeCool · 12/05/2019 09:48

@starkid I wouldn't worry too much about it, as long as it doesn't turn into something more noticeable. Could be a cut, could be a ruptured cyst, usually larger amounts of blood are a sign of concern.

Mrskcam · 12/05/2019 09:52

Hi all, I’m currently 3dpo and I feel like AF is about to arrive!? About 5pm yesterday I was in work and had to run to the toilet as I thought she’d come even though I’m not due for 2 weeks. Ive got AF cramps and my back is really achy and sometimes I get a stabby pain in my uterus. Not sure whether this is good or bad as I’m new to all this! Any words of wisdom are much appreciated. Also congrats @MrsEg !!!! Can’t wait for you to test again @ValidUser exciting times!! Good luck to everyone else ... oh and also what’s cm supposed to be like after ovulation? Mines creamy and loads of it (I have no idea if that’s normal)

Fivebyfive2 · 12/05/2019 09:54

@Validuser, ha ha, it is so hard to resist I know!! Stay strong if you can, but if not we'll all be here to squint with you... Although hopefully in a few days, no squinting will be needed, as the line will be clear as day 🤞🙂

@PaintingOwls, omg another convert to the pagan rituals 😂

Ps, really hope you gals don't mind me sticking around?? I want to see how you're doing! Also, the grad thread is mostly soooo far ahead of me at the min, I feel a bit in between threads?! But soon they'll be a whole new batch of grads on there, from all these bfps 😀

PaintingOwls · 12/05/2019 09:55

Ooh congratulations MrsEG!!!

MrsEG · 12/05/2019 10:02

@Mrskcam I really don’t know - 3DPO is extremely early for anything pregnancy related as implantation doesn’t tend to happen earlier than 6DPO. Keep an eye on it and if it gets very painful I’d be tempted to see the doctor just in case? X

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MrsEG · 12/05/2019 10:06

@PaintingOwls Thanks! The core isn’t so bad is it?? So does this mean you’re super close to ovulating?

@Fivebyfive2 Please Do! I don’t feel nearly ready for the grads yet; want to give it a couple of weeks! We can get through this first tri together!!

Going to see Mum today as it’s her birthday tomorrow; this is going to be one hell of a secret to keep! DH and I have both decided this time round to keep it to ourselves until we get to a healthy scan (🤞🏻). Can only think of two events where I’ll have to get creative as to why I’m not boozing!

Is anyone else on here testing any time soon/this week?

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ValidUser · 12/05/2019 10:10

@Fivebyfive2 thank you! ❤️ I'm honestly at a point where it's hard to see it ever happening and I'm trying to hold on to hope while also being really afraid to hope. Peeing on sticks gives me a false sense of control over it all! 😂

LokiCat · 12/05/2019 10:18

Morning ladies! So took another ovulation test today and it looks like it's gearing up for a positive! Maybe I haven't ovulated yet? 🤔 so confused but will keep testing and DTD!

@MrsEG ahhhh congratulations!! Don't think we can doubt that line! Good luck at your mums today. Fingers crossed this is a sticky bean 😊

@starkid it does sound like a cut if you had bright red blood? I hope everything is okay! Can implantation bleeding happen this early?

@PaintingOwls Haha looks like the pineapple converts are starting!

@Fivebyfive2 it's good seeing you and the all the new bfps stay here and see how you're getting along! How have you been doing?

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Mrskcam · 12/05/2019 10:38

@MrsEg that’s what I thought it’s too early to be anything pregnancy related so I was just wondering if that’s ovulation pains or something?

Fivebyfive2 · 12/05/2019 10:42

@Validuser, I get it hun. I really think it will happen for you! Xx

@MrsEG, sounds like a plan! My symptoms currently include bloating, wind and being constantly hungry! Also, I'm feel a bit hot in the morning. No sickness, but a bit of queasyness. I'm trying to be chill about it all and not think too much about last time: distraction and relaxing are the buzz words at the moment!!