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TTC November Baby

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Explorers10 · 10/02/2019 17:45

So my AF has arrived today but looking forward to having another go at TTC for a baby in November 2019.

Cycle: 4
Age: 34
CD: 1

Anyone else want to join in the same position as we try to get through this next cycle together?

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flyingplum · 04/03/2019 10:13

@ale2992 - how's it going?

ale2992 · 04/03/2019 10:37

@flyingplum still spotting the tiniest amount but feeling slight cramps now, have rang epu and said it's normal

flyingplum · 04/03/2019 11:04

hugs

I have no personal experience, but from reading on here, it does seem to be. Hang on in there.

ale2992 · 04/03/2019 12:49

@flyingplum I rang epu and they said that but it may be a chemical, still slightly spotting pink and brown and feeling cramps x

BudgieBird · 04/03/2019 12:50

@Ekie, I think I see a faint line but it could be evaporation - I'd say test again tomorrow. Good luck!

flyingplum · 04/03/2019 13:21

@ale2992 - oh no, I really hope not. Let us know how it goes - I had a chem last month and found it really poo emotionally. How far along are you?

ale2992 · 04/03/2019 14:07

@flyingplum 4 weeks 5 days x

veeboo · 04/03/2019 17:31

Hi ladies. Still lurking here to see how you are all getting on. I'm keeping fx for you @ale2992 hope all okay?

I've just got back from hospital scan to check for cysts etc. All clear. Just an x-ray now to check fallopian tubes and she said if all clear they will refer for IUI straight away! It all feels really scary now and strange to think might not conceive without help.

ale2992 · 04/03/2019 17:34

@veeboo still spotting some red now and feeling cramps but don't really know whats happening unless full blown af shows up?

veeboo · 04/03/2019 17:58

@ale2992 it's positive if epu said its normal but I guess you could ring them back up if it continues.

ale2992 · 04/03/2019 19:01

@veeboo yes I suppose but they said that last time when I miscarried also

ale2992 · 04/03/2019 19:43

Spotting is getting worse, also have done a test and it's come back negative. Looks like this isn't my month after all 😞👎🏻

flyingplum · 04/03/2019 20:17

I'm so sorry, @ale2992 :(

Paddypaws91 · 04/03/2019 20:24

so sorry @ale2992, hugs Thanks

ale2992 · 04/03/2019 20:26

Not going to lie I'm hating life right now

Peachyx2505 · 04/03/2019 20:39

I'm so sorry @ale2992 xxxx

Kinsella82 · 05/03/2019 07:02

Hope you're ok @ale2992 :( hugs xx

AF has arrived with a bang this morning. :(
After a 37 day cycle!!!
Previous one was 28 days. So how on earth do I work out when I'm going to ovulate next?? Any advice?
I was pretty sure I wasn't pregnant so I just wanted AF to hurry up and arrive but at the same time it's disappointing to see it and now more waiting :(

Peachyx2505 · 05/03/2019 07:39

@Kinsella82 have you tried the cheapy opk? I've found them useful in showing me when my surge is just before ovulating. Not sure yet if they've helped with the making a baby yet, but I've got more of an idea of how long my cycle length will be this month (give or take a day or two) xx

Had my surge Sunday evening, and cramps from yesterday afternoon, I'm pretty sure I ovulated yesterday so the 2ww has arrived! Bring on the torture!

Paddypaws91 · 05/03/2019 07:40

Sorry @Kinsella82 :( are your cycles normally quite regular?

I'm 13dpo today and feeling quite crampy, so think I'm out too - boo!

WildFlower2019 · 05/03/2019 08:40

12dpo and BFN. AF due in two days but the spotting has ramped up this morning so I know she's on her way.

Bit of a stinger because today is my original due date. Thought I'd be pregnant again by now. Strange to think that in a parallel universe I'd be ready to pop anytime.

@veeboo I hope being given the all clear on the scans is good news (or is it bad because if there was a cyst that would be treatable?) either way, i hope you're ok x

@ale2992 aww, how disappointing. I'm so sorry xxx

@Kinsella82 Sorry AF got you too. What about testing with cheapie OPKs from about cycle day 8 onwards and when you see them start to darken, move to a clearblue digital? Or just stick with the cheapies x

We might need a new thread... TTC December babies ? Argh I can't believe I only have one more shot of having a baby THIS year. That's rubbish x

Kinsella82 · 05/03/2019 09:00

@Peachyx2505 good luck with the TWW!! I've ordered some IC opks so I'm going to start then this month after AF. Do you do them in the afternoon? Or morning?

Thanks @Paddypaws91 I only came off the pill at Christmas - had withdrawal bleed straight away then it was 28 day til next AF and now this one at 37 days.

Kinsella82 · 05/03/2019 09:02

Thanks @WildFlower2019 definitely gonna use opks this month. They should be arriving any day now from amazon.
I know I really wanted a 2019 baby!! Lol

Peachyx2505 · 05/03/2019 09:21

I did mine about 10am from cd 9 until I noticed they were getting darker, then did them at 10am and evening xx

Kinsella82 · 05/03/2019 09:22

Thanks @Paddypaws91

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Explorers10 · 05/03/2019 09:29

Sorry to hear about all these BFN & AFs Sad I’m in tww but don’t feel any different so I reckon I’m also out this month

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