Anyone just starting the tww?

[Bas27]

Hi all!
Either 1dpo or on ovulation day here! Been trying smep this month but hoping for a few lovely ladies to go through the tww with!
Age: 26
Ttc: #1
Cycle #2

@Bas27 congratulations!

Another BFN for me this morning too ☹️ still really nauseous and crampy though, not sure if I just have a stomach bug so might try and get hold of a FRER today just to check.

@mumplanner thanks for your support, it’s killing me too 😂 I think deep down though I know it’s gonna be a BFN so I’m just prolonging the inevitable and really should put myself out my misery! I’m just waiting because I know AF is going to show at some point and that will feel less disappointing than doing the test xx

Thank you lovelies @mumplanner, @Charlotte1x
Having a lazy day today and then off to a music festival tomorrow so hoping to cheer myself up. Thanks for all the Support lovelies.

Good luck @Charlotte hopefully they're BFP twinges and not AF 🤞🤞🤞

Congrats @Bas27, so excited for you!  @Charlotte1x I feel your pain, I'm testing tomorrow and I'm alternating between being sure I'm pregnant and sure I'm not!! I've been driving myself crazy with symptom spotting all week, I must have had every "symptom" in the book (or more likely I've imagined that I had!). I've also had lots of AF-like cramps so I'm really hoping she doesn't turn up I'll be 13-14dpo tomorrow so hopefully I'll get a clear answer...

Congratulations bas.

I'm out... again.

That's us on 2 years with no contraception now and no baby. We can't move forward until DH sorts himself out and gets his sperm analysis and he's been putting it off for 6 months since my firsr round of tests confirmed ovation and normal cycles. He keeps saying he must do it but then doesn't. It's really annoying me.

@BlueArtemis sounds like we really are in the same boat! When I’ve had really bad back cramps there are times when I think ‘this isn’t normal for me, surely I must be pregnant’ and then other times I’ve convinced AF will arrive.
Not feeling too optimistic today, I’m testing Monday morning but I feel sure that AF is going to arrive between now and then.

Hugs to you @MaisyPops - speak to DH about this, he can’t keep putting this off when it’s so important to you both xx

@Maisypops of course you're annoyed, I would be furious.

Feeling crampy now but I'm not sure if its physcosymatic after the BFN this morning. I'm also being an absolute b*tc# with DH. Want to know one way or another...

BFN this morning at 9dpo 😔

Sorry to hear that @FSlater
Still early though so there’s hope yet! X

@MaisyPops that sounds horrible! DH needs to get his act together.

Thanks for all the congrats guys.
I'm going to stick around and hopefully see more bfps rolling in on this thread.
Remember, you're not out until the red witch.

Thanks ladies. I think he's been putting it iff because my first lot came back fine so it's scaring him to get his arse in gear. I get it. I put off doing mine for a bit too because I didn't want to feel like i was the broken one.
As I said to him, it could be he's fine and I've got some blockage needing fixing. Or we could both be fine and very unlucky.

Hi all. Woken up in the night to bad stomach cramps and there was some brownish discharge when I wiped :( think this is the start of AF and I’m out! Gutted x

Sorry if this is TMI but now I’m a bit confused! My CM is now white/creamy again. That’s what it was like earlier but with a bit of brown when I wiped a couple of times but nothing further seems to be coming. When I start AF I don’t usually spot much, just bleed red blood nearly straight away and then it’s more brownish towards to end of my period. So now I don’t know what’s going on really.

Don’t think I’m going to test on Monday, I’ll do one in a few hours to finally put myself out my misery! X

Hi @Charlotte1x - I’ve just been woken up by cramps too!
It all sounds to me like it could be part of the implantation process - that little nugget might be burrowing itself in there and causing the brown to appear. It’s so hard to know.
Good luck for your test in the morning - I will be keeping everything crossed for you x

Good luck with the testing @Charlotte1x 🤞🏻

@FSlater 9dpo is still early, you're not out yet - maybe try again tomorrow?

Well I tested this morning and BFN  I've also got some brown spotting and my temp has dropped, so thinking AF must be on her way  clinging onto the last hope that it could be late implantation (I don't usually spot at all before AF either), I'll wait to see if AF arrives in full force then might allow myself a gin as a consolation prize!

@Charlotte1x Brown discharge can mean so many things! Good luck with testing, at least you'll know!

I thought I could see something on the test this morning but it didn't stick around. Off to get a frer as soon as the shops are open.

Thanks everyone. I know it seems like I can’t make my mind up but decided against testing this morning! I am going to meet friends for brunch for a birthday at 11, and I thought on the off chance that it’s a BFP there’s no way I could sit there and act normal! Will definitely test in the morning, I’m off work and no plans so I can either celebrate or open a big bag of choc and feel sorry for myself.

No more spotting this morning, it was just the tiniest bit last night and that’s it! And sorry if TMI but it was amongst a lot of discharge which also isn’t normal for me before AF (I usually dry up) so don’t know what to think.

@BlueArtemis if spotting isn’t normal for you either then it isn’t over until you’re in full AF! Keep us posted xx

12 dpo today and my app is saying to test today. Really don't want to as know it will be negative, need to get it out the way though

Test done and BFN ☹️

@donna474 good luck 🤞 I'm 8dpo have no symptoms it's putting me off testing next week 😑

@Charlotte1x sounds like a good plan! Enjoy your brunch x
@blueartemis don't count yourself out yet especially if it's not normal for you (easier said than done I know) 🤞
@Donna474 sorry to hear that lovely

Fingers crossed for you @AngelMiracle

Sorry @donna474 - hugs 💐 x

After my pain in the night, I had a bad feeling so I did a clearable dating stick this morning and got a BFN. I just did a second one which came back as 1-2 weeks so it makes me think that this may be a chemical pregnancy :( I'm heartbroken as we decided to tell our close family yesterday.

@Mumplanner my goodness I can't imagine what you are going through. You can go to the epu if you feel you want to. Sending internet hugs.