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TTC after pregnancy loss - Thread 18: Christmas cake for Christmas babies

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Daffodil77 · 21/03/2018 07:06

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hayleyfx · 08/04/2018 18:41

@Daffodils86 @Claire138 think I’ll be joining the TWW with both of you in a couple days! Meant to ovulate tomorrow, almost positive OPK, can’t wait for this TWW to be over with already and it hasn’t even started yet! 😩😂

Claire138 · 08/04/2018 19:01

@boboelephant oh that’s good. I think I will be 8dpo when I next go. Yes, @daffodils86 @hayleyfx and bobo we can try and help each other through the next 2 weeks! Oh I really hope this is the month for us all🤞🤞

Boboelephant · 08/04/2018 19:14

Perfect @Claire138!
Ok so it's @Claire138, @Daffodils86, @hayleyfx and me going into tww. Fingers crossed!!! Anyone else entering tww??

dulwichdays · 08/04/2018 19:17

I’m a couple of days behind you all. Currently in FW according to Clue (I don’t do OPK’s or temp!) so TWW begins Tuesday I think. Fingers crossed for everyone this month x

Chattein · 08/04/2018 19:22

Hi everyone.

Just wanted to share a positive post with you!

I had an eptopic pregnancy last month and have just got my BFP only 3 weeks after my bleeding stopped and my hcg was 0 again! Crazy but proves that there is hope after mc. My due date is only 4 weeks after my mc due date!

I'm walking on egg shells and feel like I'm monitoring every move I make so Please all keep your fingers crossed that I have a sticky bean this time!!

HidCat · 08/04/2018 19:58

@Chattein keeping everything crossed that this one goes well. Congratulations!

Cakelaur · 08/04/2018 20:21

@Martydog I had it all this month. It was my first month using it. It made my temps climb steadily, so I looked like I had a perfect bfp chart, and I had every symptom under the sun, tired, boobs, nausea, and now I just have a delayed period! Haha!! I stopped the cream after my bfn at 11dpo I'm now 13dpo and no sign of AF. I usually have a 11/12day LP. So I've gained a day or so.

Fingers crossed yours are bfp symptoms. When are you testing?

Ladies I'm so jealous you're all about to hit the TWW!!! I'm dreading the next FW!! Haha!!! And AF hasn't even arrived yet!! 🙈

Martydog · 08/04/2018 20:31

@cakelaur I'm testing tomorrow but I will only be 9/10 dpo. Af is due on Friday. The Friday the 13th thing never used to bother me really but I started bleeding on Friday 13th in October and miscarriaged on the 23rd so I'm not holding much hope that this Friday the 13th will be any better. ☹️

Daffodils86 · 08/04/2018 20:38

@Boboelephant
No i dont temp check, i do check CM, this cycle iv found its not been as easy to track.
I did another opk this evening and still positive i think, just, but everything is much lighter. 🤷🏻‍♀️
@Claire138 @hayleyfx @dulwichdays
🤞fingers crossed for all.

@Chattein 🎉Congratulations i hope everything goes smoothly. Maybe some of is will join you soon on those eggshells!

peachesarenom · 08/04/2018 20:39

Good luckChattein I'm super happy for you! I hope you have a happy and healthy pregnancy xxx

Are you readyMartydog I'm super over excited!

Boboelephant · 08/04/2018 20:41

@Cakelaur haha I wish it was over already! I become a crazy person in the tww! Just rest up for the next 10 days or so, you still have some recuperation time 😂 Are you and Mr Cake marathoning again?

MrsMac1489 · 08/04/2018 21:37

Hey Guys; not sure if this is okay but I'm trying to selling my fertility monitor.

rover.ebay.com/rover/0/0/0?mpre=https%3A%2F%2Fwww.ebay.co.uk%2Fulk%2Fitm%2F162974168901

Here it is on EBay. I liked using it but it didn't quite fit in with my shift pattern. I do a lot of nights. Hopefully one of you will find it more useful xxx

hayleyfx · 08/04/2018 21:45

@Claire138 @Daffodils86 @boboelephant @Dulwichdays I’m so glad there are others just entering their TWW! Need all the moral support lol. Fingers crossed there are lots of BFP’s in a couple weeks Grin
@Chattein congrats! I’ll keep everything crossed for you that you have a sticky bean, good luck x

HidCat · 08/04/2018 22:21

Hi ladies, I'm bleeding after sex again. Thought it was AF last time but it's happening again. I don't have any symptoms of infection but also haven't had a period since October due to being pg / miscarrying. My MC bleed was very light, just spotting when I wiped. Does anyone else have experience of the same?

rdm10 · 08/04/2018 22:36

I’m entering the TWW too 🙋‍♀️
Dtd cd 11, 13 & 16 (today) and think I ov’d on cd14 (don’t temp, just going off cm) 1st cycle of trying since mc in Feb so not hopeful but fingers crossed.

Hidcat I bled and had cramping after sex earlier this week (first time dtd since mc) but nothing since so putting it down to ov pains. Could it be that?

randomuntrainedcuntowner · 08/04/2018 22:45

Just got home and did a frer. BFN! 😩

randomuntrainedcuntowner · 08/04/2018 22:45

So now on the 🍷

hayleyfx · 08/04/2018 23:54

Okay don’t know what’s going on. Started getting darker OPK’s on Friday & Saturday and tonight they’re super faint again. Meant to ovulate tomorrow. So confused 🤦‍♀️ I’ll attach a photo, I also tested at about 6pm today and it was darker than the most recent one but fainter than yesterday’s. I shouldn’t have started using OPK’s... I’m obsessed 😂

TTC after pregnancy loss - Thread 18: Christmas cake for Christmas babies
Martydog · 09/04/2018 06:52

Bfn 10 dpo.

TTC after pregnancy loss - Thread 18: Christmas cake for Christmas babies
HidCat · 09/04/2018 07:34

@rdm10 it could be down to ov I guess, hard to tell, I've had so many false alarms lol.

@randomuntrainedcuntowner I hope you enjoyed your vino. Sorry for the BFN. @Martydog sorry for yours too. Still time for it to become a BFP though 🤞

@hayleyfx looks like you just missed your peak Sunday morning so ovulation today would be spot on. Hope this is your month.

maxiflump1 · 09/04/2018 07:43

@HidCat I had just came on here to write the same thing. Had surgical mc 5 weeks ago and yet to have a period. DTD for first time since on Saturday and was fine at the time but then had really heavy bright red bleeding yesterday morning. I thought initially it was was AF but it then stopped abruptly. I have some cramps but like you no signs of infection etc. Just so frustrating!

Cakelaur · 09/04/2018 07:55

Ok so Af just hasn't shown! Haha. I'm 14dpo temp was pretty clear this month. My temp has dropped but not below cover line!! Haha. What a weird cycle!! I had pink a couple of times on wiping and I've thought here she comes, but nope. Nothing. Of course then I get mega excited and thing yay the tests must be wrong. But then I do another test and it's still negative!!

TTC after pregnancy loss - Thread 18: Christmas cake for Christmas babies
Cakelaur · 09/04/2018 07:59

@hayleyfx you just missed the surge over sat night/Sunday morning. Perfect timing for ov today! :)
@Martydog sorry babe, but 10dpo on IC can be early. Or so I tell myself every month!

randomuntrainedcuntowner · 09/04/2018 08:01

Ok so body's really fucking with me now - no sign of AF (a day late now), but BFN on FRER this am - maybe that's it, menopause at the grand old age of 36!

peachesarenom · 09/04/2018 08:16

randomuntrainedcuntowner and Martydog I'm with you guys! I'm so disappointed with my BFN at 8dpo. All hope now rests with weasledale!!!

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