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A little bit of help please

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babylovexo · 18/07/2017 19:17

Hi everyone
So I did a post yesterday describing some symptoms and showing a clear blue test with a faint line I took a pink dye test this morning and don't know whether I can see a line there or not?

The problem is now I'm convincing myself that it's negative but need some opinions
I am currently 14 days late!!! 😩😩 and this has never ever happened to me before I had spotting around a week ago and nothing ever since I'm feeling nauseous keep getting niggling pains in my left ovary and twinges in my labia majora boobs are sore and very vainy!!!
Could I be pregnant? Because I'm slowly giving up hope!
I have a doctors appointment for Friday morning but just wanted some advice on one whether anyone can see the lines and two whether anyone has experienced this before?
Like I said I'm never late cycle is always 30/31 days and has always been like that! Haven't been under stress at all either

Thanks everyone x

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babylovexo · 23/07/2017 22:35

@ThreeAfter30 oh my god I think I've come across this woman before she was like go to a doctor instead of posting on here you're not pregnant you're just looking for attention I was like woah I was asking for advice don't say anything if you can't say anything nice!! Haha! And yeah exactly it's just bizarre as I'm not irregular always have been on time so god knows what's going on my boobs are so sore like I've done chest day 😂 (Which was probably about 10months ago!) 😂😂 it's just bizarre and I've got a load of spots on my boobs? Which I never usually get and my nipples have gone really dark and I very nearly threw up this morning which I don't understand is why am I getting so many symptoms but not a positive test? Literally so confused!! And oh Hun I know the feeling I just wanna start or get a positive!! Yes it is well not technically TTC we were going to start in a couple of months time but it's made us realise it's definitely what we want!! Xx

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ThreeAfter30 · 24/07/2017 07:02

Omg i actually saw some woman writing something similar last week to someone!😂😂 cheeky bitch!
I honestly think youre pregnant,im defo not as af arrived this morning, its bloody aching (excuse the pun 😂).
Myself & oh werent trying either but have now decided we will. This will be #3 for me but #1 for my oh. Im gonna order some opks today and try to track my ov, at least that way i can maybe avoid all the confusion (ha! Wishful thinking! Lol).
What date is ur next af due? Maybe youll get ur bfp then @babylovexo xx

babylovexo · 24/07/2017 08:48

@ThreeAfter30 I honestly don't get it some people can never say anything nice Haha! I really hope I am and oh no you said you felt like she was coming!! At least you can track things properly now and try for #3! Wish you all the luck!! My next AF is due 4th August so in about 10 days time!!! Boobs are killing me today keep getting shooting pains going through them I've got a couple of Tesco tests coming with my food shop tonight and might give it a test in a couple of days time!! Xx

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ThreeAfter30 · 24/07/2017 18:29

I think some people just get a kick out of ignorance lol sad people lol.
Well i ordered a 30pk of opks and 10 pg tests today for delivery by end of the week so im well equipped for this cycle. Im convinced i had a cp this cycle& thats why i got the 3 faint positives. Af is so heavy today too which is crap but the more i read up on cps the more i defo think u had one!Would be really lovely to have a baby of our own with my OH, hes amazing with my dcs 😊 big massive good luck for you too, youll have to keep me posted! Xx

ThreeAfter30 · 24/07/2017 18:30

That should say *i had one. Stupid autocorrect lol xx

babylovexo · 24/07/2017 20:52

@ThreeAfter30 I definitely think they do! Haha and ah good for you Hun fingers crossed that this cycle will be the one and ah Hun I wonder if it would of been that!! Yes I'll definitely keep you posted the tingling in my breasts have been here all day!! And shooting pain towards my nipple too!! It's so strange! I just don't get why I still haven't had a positive test!! Maybe I just need to keep playing the waiting game!! I will definitely keep you posted! Xx

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babylovexo · 25/07/2017 14:28

So quite interesting I've just had a call back from the doctors and they want me to come in for a routine appointment regarding my results so going in Monday want this all to be over now 😩 Xx

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Eggotchi · 26/07/2017 08:19

Just read through the thread and wanted to wish you both luck! I'm on cd32 today (so not very late yet). Hope doc goes well on monday!

ThreeAfter30 · 26/07/2017 17:18

Aw @babylovexo im sure youre nervous about that but at least you will get some answers on monday!! Big hugs and loads of good luck 😘😘xx

Thank you @eggotchi!! Good luck to you too. How long are your cycles usually? Xx

babylovexo · 26/07/2017 21:08

@eggotchi thank you lovely! It's getting on my nerves managed to move the docs to tomorrow as I just want to know what's going on now I'm now on CD53 and have always had cycles of 30/31 days so I'm VERY late! Lol!

@ThreeAfter30 thank you Hun! I've managed to get it moved to tomorrow so will let you know how I get on! Xx

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Eggotchi · 26/07/2017 23:16

@ThreeAfter30 thanks! I'm usually 28 days (ish) :)

@babylovexo i don't blame you for moving your appointment! I think i'd be going spare by 20 days late!!

babylovexo · 27/07/2017 07:52

@Eggotchi I am going spare! 😂😂 will be good to know what's finally going on because me and OH weren't planning on TTC as soon as my period was due I've stopped smoking and drinking just incase I am but I'm kind of starting to think I'm not but you never know until the doc tells me! 😂😂
Have you had any other symptoms??
I'm so pleased you commented on it because most of the time people just comment negative things saying that I'm not and that I shouldn't be posting? Whereas a lot of people would be in the same boat so it's good to let people know incase I'm not pregnant as to what else it could be!! Xx

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Eggotchi · 27/07/2017 09:46

Exactly. You have as much right to post as anyone else going through this!!

I've had loads of symptoms. My boobs have been really sore, (one now producing colostrum/milk, which it hasn't done since ds2 weaned 6 years ago!) I've been exhausted and needing to nap loads, felt nauseas, had pale pink cm on tuesday and some brown streaking yesterday. I really had convinced myself i had to be pg, so was really confused when the fr said negative on saturday (when af was due). I've ordered some ebay cheapies which should arrive today, so i'm hoping they might show up something. If not, i'm guessing it was a chemical pregnancy as there is no other reason for all the symptoms - they aren't normal for me.

babylovexo · 27/07/2017 12:33

@Eggotchi I know! And I had a lot of those symptoms too! So it's really bizarre to me what's going on I've never had anything like this before around 2 weeks ago I had spotting and nothing ever since so honestly thought I was pg doctors in 2 hours! these next 2 hours are going to go very slowly!!
You'll have to let me know how you get on you never know that could have been implantation bleeding and sometimes it takes longer for the HCG levels to rise so I've read, so you never know!!

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ThreeAfter30 · 27/07/2017 14:54

Eeeeeek good luck @babylovexo really hope they have some positive news for you 😘xx

@eggotchi i think id a cp last cycle for defo. Its so horrible getting symptoms and in my case a faint positive, and then af arrives 😔 in relation to your leaking breast, i had that last year and it turned out i had high prolactin levels (caused by an inactive tumour on my pituatry gland) . I take medication for this and levels now bk to normal. I would go see your doc if i was you xx

babylovexo · 27/07/2017 16:10

@ThreeAfter30 and @eggotchi I have a slight development after the doctors... so it may be that I have PCOS I have to go for an ultrasound in a couple of weeks time to see what's going on or they still think it's possible that I could be pregnant, So I need to do another pregnancy test in a week and then wait for an ultrasound! I just feel so frustrated! 😂

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babylovexo · 27/07/2017 20:12

Annnnnddddd AF has just decided to show her face 😳😳😂😂 well at least that's something!!

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ThreeAfter30 · 29/07/2017 18:44

Awww @babylovexo youre not having an easy time at all! Hope scans in a few weeks have a positive outcome for you, but even if it is pcos it is still possible to conceive so at least you will get the help you need😘😘 sorry to hear the witch arrived, maybe this cycle will be a better one ❤ lots of hugs ur way xx

babylovexo · 30/07/2017 10:37

@ThreeAfter30 no I'm not!! To be honest I have a feeling that I'm having a CP as AF has never been this heavy or crampy!!! I just feel so washed out with it it's horrible!! I'm hoping it isn't PCOS and it's just my cycle being a bit funny and yes fingers crossed this one is better!!! To be honest it has given me more incentive to try now rather than later as I reckon it will start to get difficult the older I get if I do have PCOS and thank you Hun hope this cycle goes well for you too ❤️xx

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Laur3010 · 30/07/2017 11:55

If it could be low HCG - which I hear could last a month - is that worrying? I'm 14 days past AF - and done a few tests (both digital and not) and all have said negative. I've never missed before and 14 days is waaaay over! This would be our first - and we've been ttc for 6 months so really hoping that it's just low HCG for now and will test again in a month when I miss next AF expected date. Feeling generally tired and nauseous but nothing overwhelming.
Any advice would be much appreciated! Fingers crossed for you guys too!!!

Laur3010 · 30/07/2017 11:56

@babylovexo sorry to hear about awful AF ☹️

babylovexo · 30/07/2017 16:28

@Laur3010 I don't think it would be worrying as it does happen and is more common than you think but you could have also ovulated later too! I've never missed a period either! So I went 23 days before AF came so I went to the docs and went for blood tests and my testosterone came back a bit high and another hormone did too which is why they're now saying is PCOS however it's not like I've completely missed one and I haven't had any symptoms either I did come on which is why I'm thinking it's now a chemical pregnancy as it's so heavy and I'm cramping a lot too! If you start to get worried or you don't get a pos go to the docs because they'll be able to help you out, wish you all the luck!! Fingers crossed for you! xx

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