A little bit of help please

[babylovexo]

Hi everyone
So I did a post yesterday describing some symptoms and showing a clear blue test with a faint line I took a pink dye test this morning and don't know whether I can see a line there or not?

The problem is now I'm convincing myself that it's negative but need some opinions
I am currently 14 days late!!! 😩😩 and this has never ever happened to me before I had spotting around a week ago and nothing ever since I'm feeling nauseous keep getting niggling pains in my left ovary and twinges in my labia majora boobs are sore and very vainy!!!
Could I be pregnant? Because I'm slowly giving up hope!
I have a doctors appointment for Friday morning but just wanted some advice on one whether anyone can see the lines and two whether anyone has experienced this before?
Like I said I'm never late cycle is always 30/31 days and has always been like that! Haven't been under stress at all either

Thanks everyone x

I did one of them 'answer' pink dye tests today and its stark white, negative. Rage 😡xx

@ThreeAfter30 exactly! So I'm still holding hope the fact I've had a couple of faint positives now it may just be taking a while to develop the hormone so fingers crossed the thing I'm worried about is whether it's a chemical pregnancy or eptopic but I reckon I would be in more pain if it was the eptopic one xx

@ThreeAfter30 oh no Hun!!! Fingers crossed for you!! Don't lose hope! Fingers crossed this is our month xx

@Justhadmyhaircut ah that's really interesting! Fingers crossed I'm going through the same thing! Xx

Thanks @babylovexo 😘
Im so fed up now, every day feels like a week, i have constant af like cramps and a constant back ache, just wanna be put out of my misery lol. Oh is bringing tests home from work later tonight so ill do one in the morninh but honestly i have zero belief left that im preg. Good luck with docs on friday! Xx

@justhadmyhair cut that really is interesting, would be wishful thinking on my part though as we bd on cd17 then not again til cd30 as i had a colposcopy &biopsy on cd19 and needed to let it heal. Though im sure if i caught on cd17 it would show a solid +ve by now? What you girls think?xx

@ThreeAfter30 ah Hun honestly the pain is just getting too much for me now I also have OH on a test run tonight 😂😂 making him get some on his way back from work too! And so do I if it's not pregnancy then I wanna know what it is as I honestly can't put my finger on it! I've had constant cramping in my left ovary area today and CM has gone really thick but all of my other symptoms seem to be remaining!! See me and you could b in the same boat I had sex on cd25!! So you could be implanting later or you could've ovulated later! To be honest I thought I'd have a solid + by now and saying pregnant on the digi test but nothing!!! 😂😂 xx

@babylovexo im praying thats the case for us both 🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞🤞 have you decided what kind of test youre gonna use on fri? Lol xx

@ThreeAfter30 ah so am I! Fingers crossed for us both you'll have to let me know what the outcome is!! And ah god knows! One that will work 😉 Lol!! Xx

I will do!! Hate when people start threads and we never get to find out the outcome lol.Gonna hold off and buy a test tomorrow instead and take it fri morning like you. Ill be cd37 by then. I really feel like the witch is coming, such a sore back and crampy but tbh this is how i felt last time i was preg, thought af was coming and then tiredness made me wonder otherwise on cd35 xx

@ThreeAfter30 yeah I know! Haha yeah I'm giving up now! Need to de-stress a little bit I'm currently on cd46!!! Really really unlike me! And I've felt the same today a lot of cramping and I'm so hormonal! 😂 OH bought me back some flowers tonight to cheer me up and I just burst out crying 😂 I just want to know if it is my month or not if not then me and OH can try xx

Maybe if we act like we dont care anymore we might convince ourselves to stop obsessing (ha pigs flying and all that jazz) lol xx

@ThreeAfter30 I know it's really difficult to stop obsessing over it though but I've done well I've put it out my mind and had a really good sleep and didn't POAS this morning! 😂😂 so onwards and upwards!! Xx

The HCG level is highest in the morning so better off testing on first pee. Tests are very sensitive these days but in the 'old days' we only ever tested first thing.

Well i tested again with a boots own, wasnt fmu but bfn. Im obv defo not preg so just wish af would show her ugly face xx

@ThreeAfter30 remember though, it's always a possibility until the witch shows her ugly face!! Haha! Xx

ThreeAfter30 love the optimism! And your right! ☺ did you get your test for the morning?xx

@ThreeAfter30 no I haven't I'm going to wait until the docs tomorrow and get them to test so I'm going to hold on to my FMU as it's at 9am just hope they aren't late as I'll be desperate!!! 😂 LOL! Xx

@Babylovexo theres no way i could hold it for that long! 😂 im up 3-4 times a night to go and i still couldnt hold it til 9am lol xx

@ThreeAfter30 I think I'm being a bit optimistic I'll just have to refrain from drinking anything in the morning! Haha xx

Haha well good luck with that! Are you nervous about your apt?xx

@ThreeAfter30 ah thank you! 😂 Yes I'm pooping myself!! Fingers crossed it's not bad news!! 😳 Xx

Good luck this morning @babylovexo, really hope its good news for you 😘😘xx

I did a test at 4.45am(id already been up in the early hours for a pee so not sure what i used at 4.45 is classed as fmu). Anyway it was quite dark in the bathroom, didnt wanna turn light on as oh was up at 5.15 for work and didnt wana wake him so close to his alarm. Poas, then took pic of result with my phone with flash on. Can see a faint line in pic but when i actually got looking at it in proper light theres nothing there. I give up lol xx

ThreeAfter30 oh my god i can see the line!! And quite clearly too!! Oh I really hope it is good news! Went to the docs this morning and she told me everything I already knew did a test and it was negative but said with the symptoms I'm feeling she wouldn't be surprised if I was pregnant and the little thing is just being lazy at showing! 😂😂 so I'm now currently sat in the hospital waiting to do bloods she said if I don't come on within the next week take another test as she reckons next week could be when I show and I've just conceived late/ implanted late if still negative wait another week and take another test and if it's still negative go back to her!
Being tested for thyroid, oestradiol, FSH, LH, testosterone and prolactain just to rule them out! I hate the waiting game me and OH are currently playing! Haha! Xx

Oh god what a nitemare for you @babylovexo!!!! Fingers toes and everythinv crossable crossed for good news for you and that its just been a case of really late ov and implantation. Are they testing ur hcg level too while doing bloods?
There was no line when i looked at the test in proper light, seriously wat the actual hell is going on!! Xx

@ThreeAfter30 thank you Hun! Really nice to finally find someone on here who is so lovely and genuine! Had a horrid experience on here before when everyone kept having a go at me 😂😂 and no they didn't which I found odd!! And that's so strange!! Because you can see it in the pic!! I reckon we both are and they're just being lazy and don't want to tell us yet! 😉 Haha! To be fair though going to the docs has put my mind at ease a bit so fingers crossed it turns out to be good news!! Because I now have more waiting to do!! Xx

@babylovexo aww thank you 😘ive seen loads of people on here getting a bashing, one lady in particular is notorious for it, i was quite shocked at how rude people can be, esp when most of us are only posting asking for advice not a full on verbal attack lol. Horrible, no need whatsoever for such rotten behaviour.
Im sure you do feel a bit relieved now that you know youll get answers one way or another. Im in full on pms mode today, one minute im irritable&next i wanna cry. Cramps are that bad i Have ran to the toilet 6 times thinking af has arrived for sure but nope, not a single spec. So odd considering i always always spot before af.
Is this ur first time ttc?xx