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June Bus - hoping for that elusive BFP

475 replies

bassetmum · 08/05/2017 10:22

Hi all,
Thought I'd start the June bus as af arrived this morning. Biggest kick in the teeth as my sister baby bombed me on her first cycle this weekend and I am now on cycle 10. Trying for our first too.

Hopefully this will be our months!!!

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MaisyPops · 29/05/2017 21:23

7 days to wait until I can test.

This month I think I've found I'm ovulating on day 11-13 according to OPK so fingers crossed this new bit of information has helped.

Fingers crossed for everyone.

MotherofBoy · 29/05/2017 21:31

There's every chance juney! Have my fingers crossed.

Well dh went to sleep at 8.25 tonight so guess there's no dtd tonight for us 😂 Back on it tomorrow so to speak!

Night all, fx for some good news from someone tomorrow!

LollyBeesLife · 30/05/2017 11:54

Dillonc93 please dont be sad. Try and be as positive as possible. I know its hard, but all you can do is try.

MotherofBoy · 30/05/2017 19:31

I think the egg is on the way Grin high soft open cervix and loads of ewcm. Negative opks but I normally ov cd14/15 (currently CD12) so should be soon! Here's to lots of bd!

How's everyone else doing? Thread v quiet today!

BlueeSpottyTiger · 30/05/2017 20:19

dillon im sorry your feeling down Sad must be tough seeing your sister with a new baby, Congrats on being an auntie Flowers

Nothing to report her only 2dpo..Boring 😣
Been with my grandma all day she's very very poorly in critical care. I've cried all day long and my eyes are hurting. Sure this stress won't be good for my body but it can't be helped. Why is life so cruel sometimes?

MotherofBoy · 30/05/2017 20:42

Oh I'm sorry blue SadFlowers and for you too dillon. Know what you mean about the stress it is really making me ill atm. I have final exam of my professional qualification next Friday, we are trying to move house but have lost our buyers plus work stress and ttc! It's too much!

GreenDill · 30/05/2017 21:24

Thanks everyone, don't mean to be so negative!!

blue sorry to hear about your Grandma Flowers life really can be so cruel!

mother good luck for your exam!!

Ava1985 · 30/05/2017 21:25

Sorry to hear about your grandma blue much love to you both Flowers

How are all you ladies getting on? I'm very confused right now! I got an almost positive opk on Sunday and going by past opks I usual get the super dark positive the following day but they went back to negative instead?! Sooo I thought I was a way off still but I've started with the usually post ov sore boobs since that (almost) pos opk?! What the hell? Did I miss the surge ? We Dtd sat/sun/mon so fx that's enough, dh away again now Sad taking it as I've ovulated anyway but really don't know when!

Good luck ladies in tww, I'm saying I'm 1 DPO for the hell of it! Shock

Emz01 · 30/05/2017 21:25

I'm due to ovulate today and had some twinges but it's usually more obvious so fingers crossed I have actually ovulated on time. Managed to DTD a fair amount this FW so fx it makes a difference!

Anyone due to test around 13/6?

@BlueeSpottyTiger sorry to hear about your grandma it really is awful. My grandad is very ill too so I know how you feel Flowers

BlueeSpottyTiger · 30/05/2017 22:18

Thanks everyone Smile
emz sorry to hear that Sad Hope he is okay.
I'm due AF on the 8th June.. I'll be testing from Monday (only on IC's) i have 25 to use lol but i have 3 frers ready and waiting aswell. They are a bit cheaper off ebay, only £8.29 for two (for the 6days sooner ones) 🖒
mother oh wow that's alot to contend with.. i hope you find a buyer soon!
Ava maybe you had a really short surge? 🤔 When was your last opk before that?
When i get a postive opk it usually lasts for around 24hours.. that's why i was confused about mine the otherday!
Dil you have nothing to apologise for.. your feelings are totally understandable x

Impatientmummy36 · 30/05/2017 22:46

Hi all,

Sorry to hear about everyone who's feeling down or under stress... as if ttc isn't stressful enough on it's own...

I'm about 6dpo (not sure this month which day OV was). Hoping we dtd enough with 4 times in fw and 2 just outside of fw (just in case!)... But the one day we didn't dtd was the day I think OV may have occurred. Kicking self for that... thanks Man Utd. Tried to make up for it first thing next morning so maybe egg was still there....

....we quite literally do not have it in us to dtd any more than that! Confused I would have said that surely that would do the job (only takes one time, right?!) but am learning now it's not so straight fwd.. not feeling at all confident, and feel sure will be disappointed again.

Af due 6th-8th June...may test 4th...feeling lots of twinges and tiny cramps but think I did last few months too so who knows. Anyone else due around same time? Feeling any symptoms?!

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Cycle 4

MotherofBoy · 31/05/2017 05:36

Yes emz my af due on 16th so I will probably test around 13th

robinhoodswife · 31/05/2017 06:24

Hi ladies currently 8dpo, AF due on 7th June so a week to go! Cycle 2 ttc #1
A few symptoms but I remain sceptical. Very sore BBs and had a couple of days where I hated dh - which isn't like me. I cried and cried hysterically because he hadnt walked the poor dog!

6po had what felt like my AF coming with cramps and back pain so put on a pad... Tmi alert but had scant brown yellow streak later that day with brown drops of blood and a little ewcm. Trying not to read too much into this but could be IB I guess. I never normally spot apart from just before AF which is still a way off.

tiger and impatientmummy sounds like we are on the same cycle thereabouts, fingers crossed! Do you have any early signs? Smile

TheGrumpySquirrel · 31/05/2017 06:57

Third day of High reading. The cycle I conceived I got 4 days of High before the Peak.. hope it happens this month.. we are DTD every day now

ladydolly · 31/05/2017 07:39

5dpo here. Af due on the 7th, will test on the 4th I think although we'll be away so will have to be sneaky about it. Or I could just wait til the 5th never gonna happen

Impatientmummy36 · 31/05/2017 08:52

Robinhoods not really... just twinges and mild cramps on right side where ovaries would be... it's way too early to be af coming so I'm hoping it means something going on down there... but I thought that last month as well and it obv wasn't!

That does sound like Implantation spotting for you though doesn't it? Way too early to be af so I think you can hope !...

Few of us due same time, I think I'll maybe test around 4th/5th in case can get an early and then wait for the inevitable to come...
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Viletta · 31/05/2017 10:36

Af due this Saturday but I'm already feeling it. This bloody ttc started affecting my mood.. feeling really down and wonder if I should start taking herbal supplements, I have St John' Wort at home..

Viletta · 31/05/2017 10:38

Just read that this supplement should not be taken if trying to conceive... bloody hell! Perhaps it's just my PMS

ladydolly · 31/05/2017 11:04

viletta that's weird, it stops the morning after pill and pill from working. wonder why?

Prepared for you to tell me to piss off but how about some exercise? Get the endorphins going, I always up what I do when I start to feel a bit down and it normally sorts me out.

Viletta · 31/05/2017 11:54

@ladydolly this is a good advice actually! Will definitely do some workout today!

BlueeSpottyTiger · 31/05/2017 12:11

I had ZERO Symptoms atall last cycle when i concieved... but i did the following cycles when i didn't 😂 typical eh!?

I would usually be 5/6dpo by this point in my cycle and AF is due the 8th june but my lp is usually 12days so maybe it won't arrive until the 10th!?

TriJo · 31/05/2017 13:14

8dpo - absolutely exhausted but that could be down to travel and my son having a 5am witching hour on Tuesday morning!

Emz01 · 01/06/2017 10:25

I think I ovulated yesterday as boobs got increasingly tender, lots of ewcm and increased discharge. Managed to BD last night I just hope it wasn't too late but have BD lots the last few days so FX! Let the tww commence!

ladydolly · 01/06/2017 10:42

6DPO, temp rose again today - fingers crossed for triphasic!!

Ava1985 · 01/06/2017 11:25

Ohh good luck lady temp rise is a good sign!

blue I did opks Thursday, Friday and Saturday and they were all neg then the almost pos was the Sunday and back to beg from Monday onwards Hmm! Got sore boobs which always happens after ov so taking it as I either missed my surge or ovulated early even earlier that the Thursday when I hadn't stated opk-ing. Time will tell I guess!

Good luck ladies in 2ww! I'm saying I'm 4dpo although not sure at all this month X

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