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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Hippychic79 · 03/03/2017 15:44

Okay ladies so we're getting pretty close to maxing out thread #2.... so here it is lucky thread #3

Big congrats to our double whammy bfp today ... dolly & moo ....

Now we bring on the Spring BFP's

Xxx

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Hippychic79 · 11/03/2017 07:00

Come on af .... get your fucking butt round here .... I'm gonna make your stay with me so god damn shit that you'll regret you came !!!!! Your sleeping on the floor... you won't be having any alcohol you won't be having any caffeine and you can fack off if you think I'll be getting the chocolates out for you ... you're a bitch and I'm gonna be telling you in no uncertain terms to fuck off, not come round again and to leave my mates on here alone too!!!!!!!!
Xxx

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Hippychic79 · 11/03/2017 07:01

Oh thank you for the voucher frer !!! Xxx

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Hippychic79 · 11/03/2017 07:02

Good to have you back salem xxx

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BellaMoon · 11/03/2017 07:10

@Hippychic79 love love loves that... uninvited guest... haha AF, you're in for a tough stay at Hippy's house 🏡❌

notparticularlypatient · 11/03/2017 07:11

So sorry Hippy, it's so hard when you have done everything you can and still nothing. You are amazing and it will happen for you! And I don't think it sounds like you are not doing enough, so please don't feel like you have to find a fix - unless you feel it helps you. I have no idea what we did differently the month we conceived DD. I think it just took nature five months to get everything to work.

Sorry for those who have had af visiting. I am alone with DD this weekend and she is not particularly interested in me reading and typing on my phone, so don't have time to read back, but we will all get there! And hurrah for @Ohb0llocks and bfp!

Hippychic79 · 11/03/2017 07:18

Thanks patient -you ladies are amazing - you really are :))) under the circumstances I know I am doing everything I can but i love reading and I'm a big fan of Emma cannons books so I've ordered a couple more and another book about mindfulness and keeping calm when tTC ... I stressed loads before and around ovulation this month which clearly didn't help .... I need to relax more around fertile wk ... its just tricky cuz dp doesn't know how hard I'm tTC and therefore doesn't realise how important certain days are for dtd ... bullying him into sex is clearly not the way forward 😂 Xxx

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Hippychic79 · 11/03/2017 07:20

As much as I want to #throatpunch ladies that tell me to relax about this ... maybe they're right .... xxx

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Moo31 · 11/03/2017 07:44

Hippy I'm not sure I have any words for you except that I'm sorry Flowers af is going to have such a horrible stay she won't come back! You are so amazing in terms of staying positive - such an inspiration. You're right that screaming and kicking doesn't get you anywhere but if you feel the need we'll be the last people to judge you. Have you got any nice plans for today to take you mind off it?

Hippychic79 · 11/03/2017 07:49

Thank you moo no need to be sorry .... it's no ones fault ... just not my time yet. Thank you for saying I'm inspiring- I appreciate that. In terms of plans - I'm out this evening with my girl cousins for a meal so that should be nice .... I'm not sure my mind will ever be off tTC until I'm upduffed of course ... but I know what you're saying xxx

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BellaMoon · 11/03/2017 07:58

i'm totally taking a leaf out of your book @Hippychic79 in terms of keeping DH out of the background work that goes on with TTC, ie OPKs, teas, SMEP etc. he actually wants a baby a little more than me (i do, i really do, but it's new to me and he's always wanted a child) BUT since i got to reading up, OPKs etc he has become disengaged... prioritising the gym on SMEP days therefore energy is out the window! (i'm thankful for his tree trunk thighs don't get me wrong 😉)

he's always been "ready at the click of my fingers" before but since the click of my
fingers became a little more structured and precise, he's either feeling the pressure or, in his words "never felt less like sexy time".

So, next cycle, i'm POAS in secret... i'm not telling him a bloody thing, i won't be clicking my fingers, ok i admit i might shake my
toosh in his general direction but ill leave the instigating of pumpage to him!

hope y'all have a beaut day... canny wait for the rugby at 4pm as it's CHAMPAGNE AND SUSHI SATURDAY for me... whoop whoop (in true bella style, pictures to follow)

oh and the hope for a little fizzy front bum haha

Moo31 · 11/03/2017 08:05

Haha Bella your posts make me laugh! Enjoy your sushi and fizz (both of the alcoholic variety and the front bumper variety!!)

@hippy - glad you have something to look forward to this evening - hopefully your cousins don't know you're ttc and none on of them are upduffed so there will be no pg/ttc chat! Xo

Moo31 · 11/03/2017 08:05

Haha Bella your posts make me laugh! Enjoy your sushi and fizz (both of the alcoholic variety and the front bumper variety!!)

@hippy - glad you have something to look forward to this evening - hopefully your cousins don't know you're ttc and none on of them are upduffed so there will be no pg/ttc chat! Xo

Moo31 · 11/03/2017 08:06

*bumper bum!

SalemTheTeenageWitch · 11/03/2017 08:11

Sorry to hear about bfn hippy xxx

mrsbarnettsbaby · 11/03/2017 08:34

Cd 88 here today. 😱. On a brighter note, as we live near Lincoln we are off to the pub to watch the biggest match of our lives this afternoon. Will watch the rugby first. So an afternoon of sport and beer. 👍 FX for anyone testing this weekend. I'm testing next weekend.

Hippychic79 · 11/03/2017 08:36

bella enjoy your Saturday Hun ... I think not involving dh in the finer details may work better for you .... worth a shot :)))

moo I don't think any of them are upduffed and they don't know I'm tTC so should be fine ... xxx

salem thanks mate xxx

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hellybellyjellybean · 11/03/2017 08:41

Sorry to hear about the bfns but loving the positivity! Onwards and upwards to next month! Def enjoy that sushi and fizz, I may need to rethink my decorating day as that sounds a better plan! Fell asleep on the sofa about 9 last night, woke and was thinking we'd dtd when I woke up and went upstarts, DH came up about ten minutes after me and I was fast asleep on the bed! Been at it this morning and will have a bonus Sunday bd to make up for last night!

SalemTheTeenageWitch · 11/03/2017 08:46

DH and I are booking a summer holiday as I think the stress is getting to us. It would be middle of August (don't want to coincide with AF) but 0.00005% of me wonders if it would be ok to go on holiday when pg?

What is everyone's plans for today? And would everyone like a new list or shall we wait until next week?

EMHW123 · 11/03/2017 08:59

hippy squeezy hugs for you pet. Hope you are ok xxx did you do frer?

Barnett who are you playing today?!

I've (we've) Bella Dolly and Amanda got a big game tonight! Mon the Scots!! 😂

Sushi! Nom!!

Salem you are so good with the list!

Urgh I have a hangover 😭 drinking with people ten years younger isn't cool.

Have a great day ladies

Ohb0llocks · 11/03/2017 09:04

Morning my loves!

Me and DS are just having breakfast in bed. He is eating his on DPs side where e slept last night as DP was away!

I had a good cry last night worrying myself stupid (mostly about DS and mine relationship) and I really do feel much better for it.

I think however much you want that BFP, when you do finally get it it is still a shock!

Is anyone testing today?

Hippychic79 · 11/03/2017 09:29

salem I've booked a holiday for June ... I think it's a good idea as we all need a good dose of vitamin d and something to look forward to :))
Thanks helly and emh - yeah it was a frer .... at one point I thought I saw a line but I think they call it wishful thinking 😂 Xxx

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SalemTheTeenageWitch · 11/03/2017 09:42

Oh wow where are you going Hippy?

Hippychic79 · 11/03/2017 09:46

Pafos in Cyprus Hun my folks have a wee apartment there so it's all good xxxx

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Hippychic79 · 11/03/2017 09:47

Get and book a massage and destress yourself chic... and get ready for another cycle ... you got this salem xxxxx. Please can the list wait another wk as I'm still waiting for the bitch to rock up 😘

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MissMagpie · 11/03/2017 09:48

Aww Hippy I'm so sorry about your BFN. It's devastating but like you say, just use it as a springboard for the next time. Hugs.

I have had another flashing smiley today. That's 5! A record. Wonder if I will ovulate this month or not. Going to be so upset if I don't. What about you Bella? Any sign?