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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Hippychic79 · 03/03/2017 15:44

Okay ladies so we're getting pretty close to maxing out thread #2.... so here it is lucky thread #3

Big congrats to our double whammy bfp today ... dolly & moo ....

Now we bring on the Spring BFP's

Xxx

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Hippychic79 · 13/03/2017 11:53

Hi archies so glad to hear that you had a wonderful birthday weekend despite the wicked witch turning up univited and that you are now totally chilled.

I'm tempted by your approach for next month too - its sounds really good when you say it like that ... making out when you want cuz you want and binning off all the things that stress us out.

Top marks to your dh for booking a wk end away .... sounds just what the doc ordered.

I've just booked a day off in two weeks time to spend with dp as we don't get enough quality time together ... fx my eggy eggy egg joins the party 🎉

Xxx

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Hippychic79 · 13/03/2017 11:56

Thanks bella
Are you going to get any more cb opks today?
Bonking your way through March sounds like a good plan regardless ...
#happyhumping
#sunisshiningheretoobutimstillpissedoff
#hatecd1

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AmandaP86x · 13/03/2017 13:37

CD 34 - AF due today

Spot pinkish stuff when wiping. (Soz)

don't have any tests in house 🙈

Hippychic79 · 13/03/2017 13:43

Hi Amanda It's probably better not having tests in the house... i almost pissed on a fiver this morning, only to discover she had arrived!

#bringonthespringbfps

xxx

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BellaMoon · 13/03/2017 15:30

really fighting the urge to go buy more CB OPKs. Ahhh fuck it, i'm offski to Boots hahaha

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ArchiesMamaBird · 13/03/2017 15:41

Oh god Bella! The one good thing about trying to relax this month is that I'll save a fortune on not buying CB OPKs!!

BellaMoon · 13/03/2017 16:44

soooo this ⬇️

cd12-15 low fertility
cd16-17 high fertility
cd18 low fertility

any OPKs experts able to shed some light on this?

iv had very little of other symptoms such as EWCM, tender breasts etc.

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rainbowsockstoday · 13/03/2017 16:55

I got three positives at cd3,4,5 and now on a negative at day 9. But it's on the rise getting stronger again. My problem is the tests need a level of 20 or above of LH to register and last month at day 21 my levels were 79 so I think I now can't trust the tests. Are you still sticking to SMEP this month? I'd just keep it rocking till the end if I were you xx

Anna2006 · 13/03/2017 17:43

I took a few days away ladies as my PMA slipped! But you ladies give such good support then I will nip in now and then.

Bella I reckon you've ovulated tbf. There not always 100% accurate. Maybe it just missed it! Hold out hope I guess!

So question for all you ladies - how many days do you get AF for and what is your flow like? (Sorry if TMI but I want to get a broad picture of different ppl)

Before mc I was 4 days AF. And terms of flow and days tended to be Heavy, meduim, light, light

Since mc I have a 3 day AF which is H,M,L. Then 4th day spotting which I don't really count. Not enough for tampon basically.

Is a 3 day period normal anyone?! I'm slightly concerned it's quite short. But I do need the green heavy tampons on day 1 and 2. Day 1 they have to be changed quite frequently so I'm thinking that's a good thing? Maybe my body's just destined to get it over with all quickly. I've never had a cycle over 4/5 days since I started them in puberty.

Any help appreciated
Xxx

Hippychic79 · 13/03/2017 17:45

bella I'm no expert in the opk department but if you want to increase ewcm take evening primrose between cd1 up to ovulation next cycle ... I'll email you a link to a good website tomorrow from my work PC if that's ok - remind me as Ive got a memory like a sieve!! Cytoplan is a good brand :)) xxx

Fx for you amanda

rainbow you back with us then on the tTC train express ?

Xxx

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Hippychic79 · 13/03/2017 17:53

anna mine is similar to yours but I use regular tampons all the way through and I wouldn't classify any of my days as heavy ... more like regular, regular, light, light.
I googled this earlier and dr Google said 2-7days bleeding is normal. The soup I posted a while back spinach and watercress builds blood and I've ordered another recipe book to help tTC so when it comes I'll post some more recipes up.

I'm starting to get my PMA back after two major meltdowns and a big fat cry ... and I would say that we are all different - shapes, size, weight, job, stresses, genetic make up etc .... so what's normal for one won't be normal for another .... I think as long as your ovulating, eating fairly clean, not smoking, not overdoing the caffeine, exercising a little, keeping hydrated, taking a pregnancy multivitamin with folic and zinc, and keeping calm .... oh and dtd in fw .... your doing your best xxx

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BellaMoon · 13/03/2017 18:01

thanks ladies... i'm hoping wee peggy egg popped out some point over the weekend as that's when we've been most active with DTD.

SMEP went out the window when DH didn't see flashing smileys last week. he's had a good talking too and realises that we can't only rely on the OPKs, we have to almost forget about them (i'm trying to take some of the pressure off so want him to disregard them while i'll keep a wee eye on them next cycle).

@Anna2006 i can't really help with AF as i was on bc for 20+ yrs so don't have alot of history to give. from the 2 cycles iv had recently, first was very light for 4 days, the last cycle was 5 days light then heavy x3 days then light again. hope that helps xx

Roseandbee · 13/03/2017 18:11

Congrats on the bfp ohb!!! Very exciting having a few expecting ladies here now.

Sorry AF got you hippy but I'm thinking this bfp plate mean that the universe has finally heard you do good luck next month

Bella u have totally reminded me that I was dreaming about Jim Carey last night, so random not like I've seen him in anything recently.

I've started spotting now and feeling rough, I didn't use to get any symptoms till the day before AF (due on the 17th) but I suppose it could still go either way as every ruddy af symptom could also be a pregnancy symptom, but pre af spotting is usual for me

CakesALot · 13/03/2017 19:48

@Anna2006 my afs have also reduced annoy and got lighter. We're always a couple of heavy days and a medium and a final light. Now medium, light, light. Bit I've been on and off different types of contraception for years! Have been off all contraception since august though and this is what I've been getting.

@Hippychic79 sorry about the meltdowns. Totes normal though! Still loads of time to make that winter baby though and spring like fertility too xx

@ArchiesMamaBird I started out this month with the intention of opks etc but ended up giving up with that and just having lots of happy sex! Definitely improved my mood and I think dhs too. Even if this month isn't my month,I think we'll continue like that. It's been quite lovely

@BellaMoon so frustrating! Perhaps you're peggy whizzed down your tubes so fast to meet her Doreen that you missed registering her on the cv opk?! No harm in a bit of wishful thinking hun. Fingers crossed the tests were a load of shite and you hit that sweet spot just fine this month!!

CakesALot · 13/03/2017 19:49

Eurgh, apologies for all the spelling errors! Monday is my day at home with DD and I'm always spaced out by this time!!

notparticularlypatient · 13/03/2017 19:59

Fx that dreams about Jim Carey is a pregnancy sign, RoseSmile

Hippy, sorry for af. Good thing you had a good cry. I think we should allow ourselves a meltdown from time to time in this stressful process. And well done for arranging time off work in next FW!

Bella, your opks are indeed confusing. As you say, you might already have ovulated. But in case Peggy eggy is just a bit late to the party, you might not want to let dh of the ttc hook just yet....? A delayed smep maybe? I have read that it might take some time for cycles to start working properly post coming off bc.

It seems like all these delayed eggys have inspired my own to the same behavior. So today, finally, the opk has two dark lines at CD 23. The overpriced cb monitor said high this morning, and not peak. I'll go with the two lines on the IC and count tomorrow as ov day. Means that dtd will need to happen tonight, dp has a terrible cold, but we will just have to ignore that. Oh, the joys of ttcConfused

AmandaP86x · 13/03/2017 20:47

Oh well AF made her appearance tonight ☹️ Lol was half expecting her though!

So my stats

TTC #1
Cycle 5
BFP due 14/4

rainbowsockstoday · 13/03/2017 21:05

@hippy I'm not on speaking terms with DH but told him the plan, gave him strict instructions and told him he does things my way. We got a letter today from the fertility dr who has shook him up a bit I think. On CD9 today and starting to get positive opk lines now so if it's going to happen he needs to decide now.

I can be a bitch if I want to be and he knows who runs this house so if I go on strike he'll starve to death with no clean clothes surrounded by toys and mess. 😆

My stats are:

Ttc #2
Cycle 22
Bfp due 01/04/17 (soooooooo many jokes could be played!)

BellaMoon · 13/03/2017 21:22

@AmandaP86x sorry to hear about AF. it's utterly shite that she's showed, hope you're ok chic.

@Rainbowsockstoday it's amazing how men need things spelled out to them before they see the error of their ways. hope you're ok too.

thanks for the OV support ladies. i just did my pre-bed pee and guess what - we're back to flashing smiley faces... WTAF peggy, make your mind up! after the low fertility circle earlier, we DTD anyway, as soon as i orgasmed i got a sharp shooting pain in my right side, so much so that i had to bend over to each the sharpness of the pain. it lasted less than a minute but it was v v painful. anyway, a day in the life waiting, wondering and willing peggy along.

my stats are gonna be all over the place this month as god knows when BFP/AF will be due now that i'm still waiting to OV at CD18!

#ifeelahashtagcomingon #makeyourminduppeggy

Itsjustaphase84 · 13/03/2017 21:31

@notparticularlypatient how long are your cycles. I noticed I got +opk late in this cycle at day 17. I usually get them cd13/14.

Sorry to those who got Af over the last few days. Trying to be +ive but this will probably be me nx week. AF due 19/03 since ov pushed it back a couple of days. Im 8dpo xxx

Sophsta · 13/03/2017 21:46

I've still got flashing Smile so am hoping I get my static one tomorrow. DH is feeling crappy today so as much as I want to jump his bones I feel this would go badly.

I always struggle with PMA on a Monday, if only life could be Fridays and Saturdays.

notparticularlypatient · 13/03/2017 21:58

@Itsjustaphase84 my cycles can be from 28 to 35ish days. And lp is usually 11. So this is a long one, but not unheard of. Fx for a bfp for you in a couple of days!

Hippychic79 · 14/03/2017 06:35

Happy Tuesday ladies xxx

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Sophsta · 14/03/2017 07:08

Happy Tuesday. Love today's quotes.

Hope we all manage a PMA today, even if we feel like punching Tuesday in the face.

CakesALot · 14/03/2017 07:22

Great quotes this morning, especially that last one!

Also, how have we nearly filled a thread in just 10 days?!!

Feeling a bit tired and emotional today. 6dpo = limbo land!