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start of 2ww...AGAIN

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harrypotternerd · 10/12/2016 04:28

Tomorrow is the last day of my fertile window. 6th month ttc. Trying not to get my hopes up. Felt rather positive at the start of the week but now feeling quite negative. Testing on 22nd. Anyone else on the 2ww?

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BumpleLeeds · 19/12/2016 15:26

Bfn for me. Will have to reign myself in and wait for a few more days. With my DS I got a positive result really early, so finding it hard to be patient Confused

Still only 8 days dpo, so still time.

Babycarmen · 19/12/2016 17:53

Hi all! Ttc number 3. Got Nexplanon removed on 8/12. According to tests ovulated straight after(?!) so should be about 10dpo just now? Had cramps for the last few days and slight spotting 3 days ago but that's it. No sign of AF yet and didn't bleed on the implant at all. Very wishful thinking that it will happen straight away but you never know! Baby dust to all. X

DuRezidal · 19/12/2016 20:35

I think the 2ww is possibly the most agonising wait in the world, especially when you know you have hpts in the house Grin

I have no idea if I am in 2ww or not. I am currently CD13 and had highs for 7 days with the CBFM so most confused and no evidence if I have ovulated or if I have when If happened.

So I will assume I am in the 2ww for now Confused

sarahboro1 · 19/12/2016 23:07

Right this non-symptom spotting malarkey is no fun at all!! I'm 7dpo and due af on Xmas day so here they all are: very thirsty, bit nauseous, sore nipples, slightly cramping on and off, bloated, big sensitive pressing over my ovaries!! There they are, that feels better!! 😂 Xx

Itsjustaphase84 · 20/12/2016 08:15

I was due AF yesterday and did a test yesterday and got a bfn!!! So gutted but still no AF. Not had ANY of my usual AF symptoms. I Dtd a few times but can't exact be sure when ovulated.
Ttc2
Cycle 1
Cycle day 31 now!!
Age 32
Last 6 cycles lenghts.recent first: 28,27,26,30,28,30

I'm going to test again later this week.

Anyone had this where they had bfn which was a bfp and gone on to have healthy pregnancies??

Hippychic79 · 20/12/2016 08:45

I'm officially out for this month... af has arrived! Gutted - yes absolutely.
But I am very grateful for the following -

  1. The phenomenal support from all of you lovely ladies.
  2. My periods are regular and I have negligible symptoms
  3. I love my life
  4. I love and have a man who loves me
  5. I haven't lost the faith in the fact it will happen
  6. I'm a million percent sure that I want a baby
  7. It's nearly Christmas 🎄 yaaay

So I'm dropping off this thread for another two weeks ... I'm guessing they'll be another next month.
Good luck to all those still waiting
Fingers crossed and baby dust xxxxx

Hippychic79 · 20/12/2016 08:47

Good luck phase - I've read bfn can be incorrect.
If you'd like to regulate your cycles I'd strongly recommend weekly Accupuncture
Xxxx

DuRezidal · 20/12/2016 10:23

Arghhhhh... 8 consecutive days (CD 7 to CD14) of highs on the CBFM!!!

Itsjustaphase84 · 20/12/2016 10:59

Sorry to hear Hippy. I always thought i was regular until I counted back on my app today. Love your outlook!! Keep trying and fx it will happen soon. Have a fab Xmas,will let you know what happens x

Hippychic79 · 20/12/2016 12:17

Thanks Phase - have a great Xmas too.

I know its really hard, but its best to stay positive and not stress about it too much. I know we all want it really badly and i really do appreciate how frustrating and soul destroying this process can be... but we're women and we're strong and we can do anything we put our minds too.

yes please keep me posted :)

xxxxx

lucylou1234 · 20/12/2016 13:14

i have my fingers crossed for you next time hippychic Flowers

I got another positive on a first response last night and again this morning.

I have to tell my work today. I wish i din't but it can be physically challenging and if something happened and i hadn't said i would never forgive myself. Because of tht ,e and OH told our immediate family . - Far too early i know but i didn't want to tell someone at work before even telling my mum :(

I am just prying that everythings alright and this isnt a chemical Halo

baby dust to you all xxx

BumpleLeeds · 20/12/2016 17:03

Am not doing another test until Xmas day (AF due then) as have now had to bfn's (Clearblue digitals) and am feeling deflated. Anyone had a few negatives using digital tests early but then had a positive further down the line?

MishyBakes · 20/12/2016 17:29

You have a very sound head on your shoulders hippychic. I'm going to keep your mantra in mind this weekend. I hope you have a lovely Christmas, take very good care of yourself.

Lou, sounds like you've been very sensible. If I manage to conceive I have to let work know straight away as I work with some nasty chemicals. Fingers crossed for you.

I've had a very funny day, where I've done a terrible job of not symptom spotting. There's been some intermittent twinges on my left side, light headed and I can feel my heart rate is up. Not massively, and it could be that I'm about to come down with a cold!

lilyborderterrier · 20/12/2016 18:48

I'm due on the 24th ( but my cycle went mad last month 27 days instead of the usual 31-33. I have no symptoms at all and determined not to test until I'm late,I might last until the 25th !!! Expecting a negative as I feel no different and I'm sure I had a few things I noticed when I fell pregnant with my first. Will be massively upset though as it's really starting to get me down, I want another baby !

Take care lovelies x

Itsjustaphase84 · 20/12/2016 19:33

I got another bfn with a cheapie today so I'm going to wait until Sunday/Monday to test again as still no sign of AF and none of my usual af symptoms. I'm reading lots where bfn turned into bfp weeks & tests later... Good old Google!!!

sarahboro1 · 20/12/2016 21:23

Aww hippy sorry to see you go. I'll probably join you on the January bus for lots more encouragement and hand holding!! just don't think it's gonna happen naturally for me. Xx

ADuckNamedSplash · 21/12/2016 06:33

I thought I'd had some symptoms this month, but couldn't be sure. I had some twinges of abdominal pain a week after ovulation, but not many - sore nipples, but they're back to normal now, etc. Half thought I was just kidding myself.

But it's CD27, 12DPO and I just got my BFP! Shock Grin

I'm over the moon! We're only on cycle 2, but I have some gynecological issues that mean it's been a long road even to this point and I was worried it would take much longer. I just pray that it sticks!

start of 2ww...AGAIN
MishyBakes · 21/12/2016 07:02

Congratulations!

DuRezidal · 21/12/2016 07:43

Wow congratulations!

I am currently sat here after POAS to see if we have another HIGH day to make it 9!!!

Hippychic79 · 21/12/2016 09:14

Lucylou - thank you kindly xxx and big congratulations xxxxxxxxxx

Bumple - try not to feel down, I know that's hard but your not out till af arrives. Try not to do anymore tests and just focus on the positives in your life. I know this is easier said than done .... listen to Robbie's new song I love my life - which should help if you like him xxxx

Why thank you Mishy xxxx yes yes yes - keep the pma alive xxxxxxxx

Lily - fx for you Hun xxxxx

Phase - I did this too and there are loads of stories about cryptic pregnancies ... stay positive which will definitely help either way it goes and keep us posted ... praying for you xxxxxx

Sarahb - thank you kindly and yes I'm on that January bus and the positive thread where the bfp keep coming - join us the more the merrier xxxx. DO NOT entertain the idea that it won't happen naturally for you .... your subconscious will pick up on this and accept it as true ... you need to stay positive... pm me if you want some tips xxxxxx

Duck - big congratulations xxx

Baby dust to all xxxxxxxxxxxxxxx

Hippychic79 · 21/12/2016 09:16

Good luck Du xxxx

MishyBakes · 21/12/2016 09:23

Caved and tested at 10dpo, of course it was a negative! What was I thinking?! I'm clinging on to the hope that I've just tested too early. I have no appetite (very unlike me), and the cramping I've had for the last three days has gone. I'm so confused 😢

ringroads · 21/12/2016 10:34

Conngrats duck!
Im due sat/sun im too scared to test im just so sick of seeing BFN! Got loads of IC though,, so might just be tempted Blush

Babycarmen · 21/12/2016 17:29

Roughly 12dpo, bfn, CF turned creamy today (sorry for tmi!) so exhausted. Think there's still hope or does it sound like I'm out for this month? Not impatient or anything.. Hmm

ringroads · 21/12/2016 17:54

Who knows! Stay positive ....even tho i keep looking at my boobs thinking they dont seem bigger then usual and arent tender or sore so i must be out Shock