Ladies Hoping for BFP In May

[MummyTo1TTC2]

Hi everyone...
Hope all your TTC days are nearly over and hopefully getting some positives in May
Thought I would start a thread for is hoping to get their BFP in/around May time so we can share a journey like I did with other women when TTC my DD :)

Some stats....

Age: 25
TTC: #2
Had the mirena coil removed 5 days ago
Really hoping to concieve before my 1st cycle

Look forward to hearing some good news from you all x

[MummyTo1TTC2]

How bizarre kate I would have thought it would have shown by now. Stress can delay though...?

Has anyone experienced painful ovulation after having coil removed!?
So I was defiantly ovulating yesterday (first since removal of coil) which for me I can always feel and get mild cramp on whatever side I'm ovulating from, but yesterday it was like actual pain on my left side....Making me let out a "ouch ouch it hurts" haha.
Sex last night was also painful on that side had to be super careful was very hard to enjoy it when it was hurting :( :( seems to be ok today though....very strange!! Xx

[Chuckading]

Can i join in please!

I'm 37
TTC#2
Came off pill before Christmas. AF currently 8 days late, but getting BFN! Just want my period to hurry up so we can start again! Bit scared as my DS was born 9wks early due to pre-eclampsia and icp.

Congratulations Pixie!

[Poppydm]

Hi ladies,
Can I join in too?
Age:32
TTC #1
Cycle 1

I just came off my pill (cilest) two weeks ago. Not had an official AF yet and only really 'tried' once so far. Not sure whether it's best to wait and have a real period first? Is anyone else trying straight away after coming off bc?

[MummyTo1TTC2]

Hi poppy
I conceived DD after being on cilest, I was on/off it a few months before conceiving I think I went a month without taking it before x

[Poppydm]

Thanks mummyto1ttc2, feel allsorts of cramps and twinges so it might be best to just hang on a while and settle into a cycle. Very new at all of this and feeling a bit overwhelmed and nervous about it all. It's such a big decision! Anyone else feel like that? X

[MummyBex1985]

Hi all

TTC#2.... Cycle 12.... I would really like a May BFP please!!

[MummyTo1TTC2]

poppy it is a big wave of emotion I remember with my first I wanted to concieve soooo badly then what it happened I started to get anxious and panic, but I was young and had a lot going on at the time.
This time round I am in a more stable relationship, very settled, lovely house, great job (as does OH) and I feel so ready to start again :) I have more excitement this time as it will be my partners first and feel so lucky I get to share the amazing moments with him xx

[Poppydm]

Ah that's lovely! Really hope you get some great news very soon :-) I'm married to my best friend, have a good career and my husband and I both want a family. We've talked about it for a while just feels surreal to finally be making (or trying to make) it happen! I always read about people feeling so excited to conceive and although I want that, just worrying that I feel so nervous and scared by it all. I have an awful habit of overthinking everything X

[MummyTo1TTC2]

You will be so happy when it happens all the feeling scared will go out the window :) hopefully we all get out BFP this month!! We all have different stories and journeys to get to this point it's so good to be able to share and talk about it with others! I was in a forum when I was pregnant with my first 6 years ago on the bounty website and we are still Facebook friends now! It's so lovely to make bump buddies to talk about all the scary parts and happy parts x

[Poppydm]

That's so true and thank you for your lovely message and support. Think we'll just keep trying then do a PT in a few weeks or so. Hard to know anything when you're not in a natural cycle so to speak. How long did it take you to ovulate after coming off the pill? X

[MummyTo1TTC2]

I honestly can't remember as I was on/off it so much and back then I never felt or tracked ovulation. I've been on the coil for 3 years, had it taken out 2 weeks ago (I ovulated a week before it came out) the last 2 days I've been getting cramps so it's defiantly egg release week x

[Poppydm]

Eeek fingers crossed 😊 X

[MummyTo1TTC2]

Just done this OPK x

[Poppydm]

I've never used these before. How often do you do a test? X

[MummyTo1TTC2]

Everyday around ovulation. This was my last one though didn't realise I only had one left. Got 50 PT ready and waiting haha x

[Poppydm]

Ha ha! Hopefully you won't need that many X

[Blondie0912]

Hey ladies! Loads going on here again I love it!

Good luck Pixie I am sure everything is fine- keeping my fx for you!!!!!!!

Mummy that looked positive to me- lots of DTD for you and baby dust!

Poppy-I was on Cilest for 10 years- took me some time to get cycles started again but I think that is just me as loads of people on here have no problems coming off Cilest so I'm sure you'll be fine

Sadly I'm out for a May BFP AF arrived yesterday- but keeping my Fingers Crossed for all of youuuuuu!!!!

[Sophronia]

I'm out for a May BFP too, AF arrived today this was our first month TTC so I wasn't expecting a BFP right away but still, disappointing!

Good luck to everyone hoping for a BFP this month

[dippypanda]

Hi, can I join too?

I'm 37
TTC #2
Cycle 2 after mirena
AF due 27th (or 20th if cycles stay short)

Last cycle was very short 21 days, I've not had AF for 6 years though so no idea what my cycles are like. So I've decided to temp and use OPKs this time and see what's happening. Good luck to everyone

[BuffaloCustardbath]

Sorry to hear of those who are out for the month... Onto the next FW and fingers crossed that June is the month for you!

STILL not out here, CD34 but BFN yesterday, I've no idea what is going on but it's driving me crazy!!

[Blueandpinklove]

I thought I had posted on here a week ago but realise it must not have posted .
I'm 34
Cd 22
Ttc #3
Cycle 2

I noticed a possible implant bleed 2 days ago so now just in the waiting phase trying to be chilled out!

Sorry to those that AF arrived but fingers crossed for June for you. And to those still waiting - here is hoping with you!

[WingingIt83]

Well this has been a rubbish month for dtd. After my first post DH continued to have gastroenteritis for the whole week and weekend. I'd given up hope for this month but then saw what I thought was EWCM on Tuesday so DTD that night. He's now gone on a lads holiday so I've just got to wait to see if AF turns up on 18th which I'm sure she will!

I haven't used opks at all but I think I'll definitely need to next time as I started off thinking I had an early ovulation but then when EWCM appeared that would make it roughly cd17.

[MummyTo1TTC2]

Love coming on and seeing lots of new messages :) :)
Sorry to here that the witch arrived for some of you....fingers crossed for June!!
OH thinks it's funny to joke the last 2 nights....getting into bed and saying he is tired and saying goodnight haha! Such a plank!
Ovulation seems more painful this month don't know if that has anything to do with not having the coil in...? Xx

[KentCat]

Sorry for those getting AF. Still a week to wait for me and I am going crazy with symptom spotting, over analysing every twinge.

[indecisivedoctor]

Hello ladies.. Can I join you?

I'm 35, TTC #2, cycle 2.
AF due 2 days ago, usually 25 day cycle.

Using a CBFM though and no peaks this month, just highs so am trying to reign in my excitement.

Determined not to test until a good 3-4 days late as I can't stand the disappointment of the BFN's

With my DD I conceived very easily and then had a MC, following that it took 18 months to get pg again so I remember all too well the agony and desperately trying ( and failing!) to be more relaxed this time.