(Still) ttc#2 continued

[Loki17]

New shiny thread everyone!

Hi #myfriends. Cd 18 and still no sign of temp dip or peak fertility on opk...getting desperate now. I had really hoped for a 2016 baby but it looks like it's just not meant to be. I just pray i can have one before I'm 41...i would have given up if i wasn't so desperate to have number 2; I'd never stick at anything else this long that makes me feel this bad, i just pray it's worth it in the end.

I hope everyone else is in a better place than me. Sending good vibes and babydust to all.xx

Hugs jenni.sending good vibes and baby dust to u too

Good luck with the potty training g.it sure is tough but u seem like u are making good progress. Dd is still having lots of accidents (hoping by the time she turns 3,all will be well.)

Waves Peyia kellz abc cockles pulled hoggle loki little under mrsj and all I didn't mention by name.

Scan pics plz to the upduffed ladies

Hi Myfriends

Still egging you here and looking forward to more announcements. I often apologise for not addressing everyone by name - sorry!!!

Mimi hope you are well and don't have a long tww.

Good luck G with the potty training. Good timing before lil one arrives. has she taken an interest?

We have a 4d scan this Friday. I'll try and update then.

Px

Congrats Under, how could I forget to add that!!

Hello #myfriends. I'm after advice...have i ov or not? I haven't done OPK yesterday or today but before that i had high on dopk on 6th & 7th April/cd13-14 but then no positive on cheaper tesco opk since...I'm just trying to figure out if my body is failing me or not, it would be a miracle if i caught this month given that we've only dtd once. Although I've been ill for 3 weeks I was very poorly on 6th April which is what I'm attributing the first spike to but any insights appreciated.

jennie I've only just started looking into temping but I'd say that last big increase signalled ov. Just waiting for my kit to arrive and I'll be starting all that hopefully tomorrow!

Jennie im feeling really low too just now about this! That lady at your work doesn't deserve a child if thats her attitude. So many people desperate for one and she is acting like that. Makes me angry

Mimi Good luck in tww! Hope youre well

Gx Im not temping after all, DD isnt sleeping great yet and it wouldnt be accurate! good luck with potty training, we were all out of nappies but had a few accidents one night and it put her off so will give her a wee bit longer and try again. Shes fine through the day.

Well im only cd9 and i have been cramping to right hand side and lower middle stomach, ewcm basically since AF, AF was like ewcm and blood together , tmi sorry! l, did an opk yesterday as had one in the bathroom and that was very negative. So tired and sicky but who knows, body is just playing tricks on me :(

xx

Hey my friends
Jenni - sorry I have never tempted to can't comment on ur chart I hope it means good news for u and u never know that one time dtd could have done it , hope ur feeling more up beat soon ( hugs) X

Mimi - thanks we seem to b doing am really well with the potty, only accident was a sneaky poo under the kitchen table lol but I understand sometimes u just want some privacy other than always having someone watching lol X hope u r busy enough during ur TWW so ur not stuck counting days ! Good luck ! X

Peyia - u must b very excited for ur 4 d scan ! We didn't get very good pictures as baby boy was face planting the placenta and he didn't want to budge , which was ashame but not too bothered as we wer mainly there to find out gender X
Hope u enjoy seeing ur wee son and b lovely to see him if ur posting a picture ! X

Abc , hope ur temping kit arrives soon and u get going with that ok , looks pretty confusing to me lol X

Kellz , hope u and DD r doing ok ? It really is exhausting when neither of u r getting much sleep and shame it's stopping u temping . Probs best to wait so u don't get wonky inaccurate results X
Hope ur feeling better soon and u get a positive opk soon , cramps sound promising X

I'm going to try and get DD down early tonight so I can go lie down too , been at mums all day doing a shit load of washing since still no sign of a new machine ! Really is hard work carrying it down 4 flights of stairs and across the road to the car park ( only space we have for the flat ) + carrying a stubborn toddler ! Can't wait to get my head down lol X
Hope u r all having a relaxed evening x

Hello everyone! Been lurking but not much to report. CD 14 and have dtd 6 times in the last 8 days so just really trying to catch that egg! No idea when ov has or will occur. Ewcm lasted from day 5-11. Today I'm getting stabbing pains in my ovaries. I'm just going to keep going with dtd. Not much else I can do!

Gx she's better again thank you but wakening up a few times at nights it's exhausting. I've been cramping for days so fx!
You must be shattered, have an early night, I will be

Fx for you Loki

Xx

Hello my friends

peyia hie dear. Glad to hear from you and that you are OK.you sometimes go mia. It should be exciting to go and see the little chapsend him hugs!!!

gx hie hun. Hope the machine finally arrived and u can get back to your normal routine. How is dd and the training? It must be getting harder with a toddler and a bump, would love to see u in action 😂

kellz so glad dd is better now. You can start concentrating on giving her a little brother.hope u catch the egg

Good morning all !
Hey Mimi , doing ok ta , still no machine and have caught a cold from somewhere !
Potty training going better than expected so glad we decided to go for it ! X but yes hard work chasing after a toddler as the bump grows lol
How r u and DD ? How's ur TWW going any symptoms ? X X

Kellz glad ur DD is feeling a lot better , hope she starts sleeping thru the night again for u ! X
Hope u manage to catch that egg sounds like ovulation! Good luck X

Loki good luck u also sound like ur in ur peak time ! Good luck catching that egg ! Hope u enjoyed ur holiday X !
( waves ) to everyone else hope ur doing well ! Xx

hi all,
promised to come back and update all after scan so here I am. happy to say all seems OK so far. conformed due date of 13th Oct so officially 14 weeks today so second trimester is well n truly under way. baby decided to be face down the whole time so not a great scan pic but will upload anyway. I'll still be having the extra abnormality scans but for now I'm feeling a little less anxious.

hope ur all doing well n no one minds me posting the scan pic

Hie gx wow how nice your dd is co-operating .how old is dd by the way?hope u taking some honey and lemon for that cold((I feel for u)).for the 1st time don't want the tww to end. I fear seeing a bfn or af .am getting tired of ttc 😂

Ooh how sweet pulled.so glad everything is ok and it must have been exciting .we don't mind pics hun, it gives us smthng to look forward to. Hope you are doing fine and 2nd trimester already!! Time flies. Do u have a little bump yet?

Lovely scan pic pulled ! What a shy baby lol X glad everything's going well for u ! X

Hey Mimi DD was 2 in November X
sprry to hear ur feeling down again uv bn doing so well , really hope u don't see a bfn at the end of ur TWW X
I'm gunning for u so much ! Think seeing ur BFP would b like seeing my own as Weev known each other on here for a while now !! X
Sending loads of baby dust ur way ! Hopefully that 2 am romp has done the trick Hun !! Xx

Hi everyone, pulled that's a lovely scan! Nice to hear updates from everyone else and hoping to hear about lots of BFPs here.
I'm afraid I'm a complete misery with vomiting and wiped out with exhaustion. I'm going to bed at 7 every night and spend much of the day lying on the sofa. Not managing to go to work much, my boss is annoyed and has stopped talking to me - nice! (She has form for that kind of thing).
Anyway, enough of me moaning, I'll get through it and will feel better soon.
Have a good day everyone xx

Thanks gx, hoping so too hun. I really worked hard at dtd 😂 My dd turned 2 in December, so pretty close.my bfp is due next week so we will see. You seem to be doing well, not much sickness ,hope that rubs onto me.

Hello cockles sorry for the sickness, hope it goes away by the 2nd trimester. What an old hag-your boss. I was miserable until the day l want to labour ((not good))

Woke up feeling some cramps(wonder what it could be now)

Pleasant day my friends

Want=went

Thanks mimi definitely have a bump and have put on loads thanks to the nausea and constant eating to avoid it. I'm hoping it will calm down soon 🙄
This is going to sound weird but I've got a good feeling about u for this cycle. really praying u see a BFP ☺

thanks gx so glad DD is doing well with the potty training and hope all is well with u ☺

thanks cockles I feel your pain with the vomitting hopeful it'll pass son for us. just take as much rest as u can. don't worry about ur boss she sounds like an idiot. just concentrate on u & baby x

hope everyone has a lovely day and we see those BFP's coming through. love to all x

Happy Saturday my friends .this thread is getting quieter

I'm still here. I'm lurking though. Not much to report. Thinking about taking a break after this month. It's starting to take its toll to be honest.

Me too Loki, just hope this is it. What cd are u on?

Cd18. 10 days away from either af or a chance to test. Going to get back in the saddle tonight even though I think ov happened in the week following af (going by ewcm). I'm taking a break next month though. I've got really important deadlines at work so I'm going to concentrate on that and forget about ttc for a while. It is just too hard.

Ladies I am going to be deactivating my account from today. In real life, someone who should know better has been stalking my posts on here and has just used their knowledge of my posts against me in an argument. I'm completely gutted because this place had become my sanctuary and you have all been so brilliant with helping me through everything. This forum has been the only thing that has kept me sane and im not sure how ill cope without it but I cant post here again. I feel like my diary has been read and all of my innermost thoughts have been ripped out and laid bare. This was my one place where I could just vent without having to be brave or filter myself. More often than not it helped me to make better choices in real life and reflect on my own thoughts. It was private and just between me and you - our anonymity providing a barrier that meant I didn't have to worry about your reactions - I could just 'be'. It was the only real source of information about what might happen to me during my miscarriage. It was the only place I could talk daily about my lost baby and my struggle to conceive because, actually in real life no one wants to hear. No one else could say 'I understand'. I just can't post on here anymore knowing that my privacy has been so utterly pillaged. Even if I changed my name I couldn't tell you it was me. I'm so fricking angry I can't even begin to put it into words. Good luck to you all. I really hope you get your well deserved bfp soon. Thank you for all of your support and for sharing your stories.