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Anyone ttc baby #2 continued?

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FuzzyOwl · 23/12/2015 21:39

New thread, just in time for all our 2016 BFPs!

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FuzzyOwl · 12/02/2016 10:47

Hello everyone and welcome abc and flossy

Thinking of you all jennie Flowers

I am really down today. I was fully expecting to ovulate on Monday or Tuesday (possibly even Wednesday) but have felt so tired for the last couple of days I haven't even used an opk despite having cm and cramps. Just tested this morning and have a really strong opk which means it was probably first positive on Wednesday evening or yesterday and that means I either already have ovulated or am ovulating now. As DH and I haven't DTD for a week I feel we have completely ruined our chances for this month and am just sat here in tears. Why does ttc have to be so emotionally difficult?!

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Pulledapart2015 · 12/02/2016 11:34

hopelass I definitely see a faint line congrats Flowers sorry happy and excited for you.

thanks kellz gx and cockles I'm trying to get in a positive mind frame.

jennielm massive hugs hun x

waves at f1ddlesticks mimi abcdemma and everyone else.

So I'm booked in for an early scan this afternoon. would be lying if I said I wasn't petrified. Will try pop back and let you all know how I get on.

hope u all have a lovely day xxx

Pulledapart2015 · 12/02/2016 11:39

oh fuzzy massive massive hugs hun. it sounds like you maybe ovulating now so just concentrate on DTD today and tomorrow. you never know what might happen. pls don't get upset I know this ride of TTC is so emotionally draining but you've got to keep positive. fx this is the cycle for u xxx

Hopelass · 12/02/2016 12:58

Thank you pulled, good luck for your scan this afternoon! Thanks

FuzzyOwl · 12/02/2016 13:13

Thank you pulled. Thinking of you during your scan and hope all goes well. Looking forward to hearing about it later. Xxx

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Kellz92 · 12/02/2016 13:45

Fx for you Pulled

Fuzzy DTD today and hopefully you should be okay. Only takes once!

xxx

FuzzyOwl · 12/02/2016 14:19

That is true Kellz. Will DTD tonight and also tomorrow morning and then keep everything crossed. How are things with you? Xxx

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Gx91 · 12/02/2016 16:58

Hopelass- I can't see an every fainter line on the ther one , think u should test again tomorrow but could def b ur BFP ! Congrats and good luck X

Jen sounds like u gav a lot on ur plate ! Hope ur doing ok , u can always vent on here . Sad to hear about ur mil but I'm sure she will b getting all the care she needs hopefully u
get some good news soon X

(( waves)) to everyone hope u have a lovely Friday !
We r getting DD watched and having a meal out , it's been a while and feel the need for a small break ! X

Gx91 · 12/02/2016 17:00

Sorry just relised Iv missed a whole page of posts just going to catch up on what u have all written ! Lol xx

Gx91 · 12/02/2016 17:03

Fuzzy - try not to b upset , ur opk means u can ovulate in the next 36 hours so u still have a chance have everything crossed for u X
Hope scan went well today pulled xx

FuzzyOwl · 12/02/2016 17:37

Thanks Gx. Xx

How was the scan Pulled?

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jennielm · 12/02/2016 17:46

Fingers crossed all afternoon for you pulled. Hope all is well.xx

Kellz92 · 12/02/2016 18:56

Fuzzy I'm feeling a bit down about it all. Came home from work and hubby said he's bought preseed to try, paid for express delivery so it's here in plenty time for peak at the end of next week. Cd7 just now. How are you! Xx

FuzzyOwl · 12/02/2016 20:36

I am feeling down about it all as well Kellz. It is just such an emotional time. I have found somewhere that sells the Chinese herbs I used last time I got pregnant and I think I will go back to using pregnacare and I plan to buy Clearblue OPKs for next month. Oh, of course, I obviously intend to start DTD eod much much sooner!

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Kellz92 · 12/02/2016 21:55

I'm just feeling a bit like why am I struggling when I had a surprise baby a few years ago. Feel like I'm failing xxx

CocklesandMussels · 13/02/2016 08:29

Hello everyone. So sorry to hear about your MIL Jennie, I hope things improve over the next few days.
It sounds like lots of people are feeling down at the moment, it's gruelling isn't it? I'm just hoping against hope that we all get there eventually. DTD starting in earnest again this weekend, it's got to the stage where it isn't much fun! In the meantime I'm on the aspirin and trying not to visualise our future because who knows what it holds!
Have a good weekend everyone xxx

Pulledapart2015 · 13/02/2016 09:04

morning all,
thank you for thinking of me re scan hope fuzzy kellz Gx jennie which I really need at the moment.

so they couldn't see a sac or anything just a blob which they can't tell the position of? possible ectopic. they did a pregnancy test which was definitely positive. they checked my hcg levels on Friday and will do again tomorrow. if levels are too high then they will do another scan. they think it could be very early pregnancy around 4-5 weeks. still a possibility of miscarriage too. I was expecting to come away reassured but feel worse than all this time of TTC. I've just been in tears Sad DH is being very supportive telling me not to worry it'll be ok but I feel rubbish. for now I'm continuing taking the folic acid.

FuzzyOwl · 13/02/2016 09:42

It is horrible, isn't it Kellz but you aren't failing at all.

I hope we all get there too Cockles. Quite often DTD has lost being fun here. I think it is inevitable when you ttc for a long time. Hope you are having a good weekend too.

Oh Pulled. Big hugs. I had a mmc a couple of years ago and still remember the devastation but one thing I did take from it is that even sonographers who do these scans all the time really can't tell at the first scan whether or not you have miscarried or whether you implanted late and everything is absolutely fine. How many weeks should you be? I think an ectopic can be seen from really early on as I know someone who was diagnosed during a scan at 5 weeks. Glad you are having blood tests done as that is a good way to check things in between scans. Thinking of you.

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CocklesandMussels · 13/02/2016 10:06

pulled I'm so sorry to hear what you're going through at the moment. I'm keeping my fingers crossed that it all works out for you

Hopelass · 13/02/2016 10:16

Thinking of you pulled hugs Thanks what a rollercoster for you xx

Pulledapart2015 · 13/02/2016 10:22

thanks fuzzy and cockles means a lot hearing comforting words.

fuzzy I should be around 7 weeks but they think it's only 4-5 weeks so I must have ovulated late I think. im hoping the blood tests show something positive.

TTC is real rollacoaster and then once you get ur BFP the ride continues. praying all of us get an easier time ahead xxx

Pulledapart2015 · 13/02/2016 10:23

thank you hopelass xxx

Kellz92 · 13/02/2016 11:00

Thinking of you pulled hope everything goes well.
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Fuzzy* it's horrible but I'm sure it will be my turn soon

Xx

jennielm · 13/02/2016 11:22

Oh pulled, that's so awful for you. I know that life can be so unfair sometimes but i honestly believe that what will be, will be. I am praying for you that this is your month and that it is just later than you thought. Keep us posted.

Fuzzy, cockles and kellz i know it's hard but try to keep positive and not lose focus of what is important; your other halves, your child and you are already a family...another baby will obviously add to that immensely but don't let it rip you apart. That's what I'm having to keep reminding myself, and again, what will be, will be...but i won't lose what i have now in pursuit of it. I'm sorry, i don't mean to sound preachy, high and mighty or anything like that, i just know that it can tear you apart and besides, dtd should always be fun.Wink

Hugs to all of you along with FlowersCakeWineChocolate
Xxxxxxx

Kellz92 · 13/02/2016 20:15

Jennie that's very true, it will happen when time is right X

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