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Ttc#1 THREAD 3. Some bfp's, some bfn's, cervical mucus examination class of what was supposed to be January 2016.

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StarkyTheDirewolf · 13/12/2015 22:27

Join us. It's a boat. Full of okp's and symptom spotting and insanity! But also much love and support! We were supposed to start next month, we already have a few bfp's! Our dps don't know what's hit them!

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Runner05 · 19/12/2015 22:12

Hi Cant welcome :-)

Sometimes opk's start showing a second line before preggo tests. No idea why. I'd keep testing though. Sometimes you don't get BFP until 13 or 14 dpo Grin

I ping ponged between definitely upduffed and no chance this month. Was certain I wasn't when I got BFP but at the same time wasn't surprised... Not sure there was any point to that ramble.

How confusing Snow just wait and see what happens next I suppose.

Ooo Pink when you testing???

Stark that cake looks AMAZING!!!!

Drink there really is no way for you to know before that line shows up. Just keep testing and keep fingers and toes but not legs crossed Smile

Pinklily1 · 19/12/2015 22:21

Towards the end of next week Runner. Fertility friend says to test on Christmas Day, Ovia says to test on 29th, so if I need to test I will do it somewhere between the two dates I think. Trying to be all calm and zen like about it but in rl I am a bit of a mess!

StarkyTheDirewolf · 19/12/2015 23:07

Just got another fairly dark okp. Took a picture but the lighting isn't the best. It's not positive yet but I'm feeling slightly less despondent about ovia twisting my melon man! It would be super if I could ovulate tomorrow!

Wish I could share it with you guys! It's quite good cake! Gluten free too! The icing is amazing! And properly easy to make! I would heartily recommend it as a Christmas crowd pleaser!

I'm excited for all these prego tests in the next week, you guys!

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Runner05 · 19/12/2015 23:33

Stark where can we get the recipe... I love to murder a good cake recipe Hmm

Also excited for all the upcoming tests. We still have time for a few more 2015 BFPs!!! Grin

StarkyTheDirewolf · 19/12/2015 23:44

Mince pie cake.
Can be done as muffins, or split the batter in two and use a 9 inch spring form tin.

115 g unsalted butter, at room temperature
225 g light brown sugar
3 eggs
375 g self-raising flour
1 tsp baking powder
½ tsp bicarbonate of soda
100 ml milk
120 ml vegetable oil
1-2 tbsp brandy, optional
1 tsp vanilla extract
200 g mincemeat

For brandy butter icing :
250 g unsalted butter, at room temperature
500 g icing sugar
2 tbsp brandy

Alternative cinnamon vanilla icing:
85g butter, softened
40ml milk
1 tsp vanilla extract
1 tsp cinnamon
375g icing sugar

METHOD
1.For the cupcakes: Preheat the oven to 180C/160 fan/gas 5 and line a twelve-hole muffin tin with paper cases.
2.Whisk the butter and sugar together in a mixer, or using an electric whisk, until pale and fluffy. Add in the eggs, one at a time, and mix well.
3.In a separate bowl, sieve the flour, baking powder, bicarbonate of soda and ½ teaspoon of salt together and set to one side. Separately, mix together the milk, oil and brandy and also set to one side.
4.Add one third of the flour mixture into the batter and mix well, followed by one third of the milk/oil mixture. Repeat until all the flour mixture and milk/oil mixture has been incorporated. Stir in the mincemeat.
5.Using an ice-cream scoop, fill the paper cases until they are two-thirds full with cake batter. Or split between two 9 inch cake tins. Bake for 18-20 minutes (cupcakes) or 35-40 minutes(cake) or until a cocktail stick comes out clean. Take out and leave to cool on a wire rack.

6.For the brandy butter icing: In a clean bowl, whisk the butter until it is pale and creamy and then slowly add in the icing sugar until it is all incorporated and the mixture is smooth and fluffy. Add the brandy and mix in well.
7.Top each cupcake with a generous amount of brandy buttercream/cinnamon icing and decorate with Christmas figures or sprinkles. Once cakes have cooled, split icing, putting half in the middle and half on the top.

I've put both toppings in the recipe, but I use the cinnamon icing, ooooh it's so good! Will pop a pic up when mine is put together shortly.

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StarkyTheDirewolf · 19/12/2015 23:45

There you go runner I never put alcohol in cakes so I've always left the brandy out and added a little splash of extra milk instead! Its so easy to do! Honestly, if I can do it, anyone can! Cake

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Runner05 · 20/12/2015 02:57

Aww thanks Stark you're a Star and that's awesome!

I shall put that in my recipe book later today when I'm awake! Grin

drinkyourmilk · 20/12/2015 07:36

stark, I shall be trying it too tomorrow. Yum!!

ElleSarcasmo · 20/12/2015 07:37

Congratulations Blue!

Fx for some more 2015 BFPs! Pink think I'm more or less in sync with you, Ovia says to test 29th but I think I'm a few days ahead. Was thinking of testing Christmas Day then if BFN can enjoy guilt free booze, pate, cheese etc!

LaraG13 · 20/12/2015 07:48

elle and pink I'm in sync with you both I think! Ovia says 29th to test but FF says a few days earlier. Can't decide if I want to do an Xmas day test! I'm thinking I'll wait.

Canters15 · 20/12/2015 07:53

That cake looks incredible! I am now craving cake. That's a sign of pregnancy right?!

Today's opk is possible a teensy bit darker but there's not much in it. Boobs have started hurting but I recall from the dim and distant past this is normal for me pre AF. Last month they didn't hurt at all, two months before that it was throughout the '2ww' (though we weren't trying then) and before that I was on the pill.

Ho hum. Thank God for mumsnet. OH has no idea of the madness in my head!

Runner05 · 20/12/2015 07:54

I think you should all poas as soon as you can Wink

Just peed on my last FRER. I now have a lovely dark line and I think I can stop peeing on sticks lol

Dr's appointment next Wednesday. I'm excited to be getting the ball rolling and hopefully I'll be able to book my booking in appointment. Think I'm 3+4 today so I'll only have about 4 weeks to wait and then it will only be 4 weeks to the first scan Grin not excited at all

LaraG13 · 20/12/2015 07:54

Has anyone read about or tried using a 'mooncup' after dtd to (sorry for tmi) keep all that lovely spunk near the cervix? I find a lot of it runs out when I get up and about after dtd, so find myself inclined to lay on my back for an hour which isn't always convenient. I quite like the idea of not having to worry about that and knowing the swimmers are trapped near my cervix :)

Any thoughts or wisdom?

Runner05 · 20/12/2015 07:57

Cant that sounds positive Smile

I think both Shelb and I had skittle tits before our BFPs that became less annoying the closer we came to test day.

LaraG13 · 20/12/2015 07:58

Cant, fx for you. Is there any truth to the thing about being more fertile in the few months after coming off pill?

Runner that's so exciting! It's happening. You can stop peeing on things :)

stark, cake looks delicious!

Runner05 · 20/12/2015 07:59

Lara most just lie with a pillow under their bum for 20mins after dtd. I have heard of people using moon cup but I'm not sure if it actually makes a difference.

drinkyourmilk · 20/12/2015 08:06

lara I have used a softcup in the past. Still did at least 30mins with my bum on the end of the bed too.

Pinklily1 · 20/12/2015 09:37

Elle and Laura, i'm pleased to have some testing buddies! Lara i think I am going to wait too. OH is very much of the view that I should only test when AF is definitely late, so am thinking of waiting until the later date (29th).

Are either of you having any symptoms?

How long are your cycles normally?

Pinklily1 · 20/12/2015 09:40

Meant Lara, sorry (my brain isn't in gear yet!)

Canters15 · 20/12/2015 09:41

Eeeeeeek runner congrats! So so exciting! Does it feel real yet?

Lara, I'm not sure if there's any truth in that or not. Last time I came off the pill it took a year to start having AF again so I definitely wasn't fertile then! Thankfully AF came back straight away this time though. I've also heard similar things re fertility when TTC after miscarriage, but again I'm not sure if its an old wives tale or if theres any truth to it.

LaraG13 · 20/12/2015 09:55

pink mine are normally 28 days. How about you? I don't think I've had any symptoms. I keep thinking I have a slight ache in the area but I'm pretty certain it's psychosomatic/ just me noticing a normal sensation. Have you had any symptoms?

Pinklily1 · 20/12/2015 09:59

I've only had two cycles off the pill Lara. First one was 34 days and last one was 28 days. I can't remember what they were like pre-pill.

I've had period like cramps since Thursday, feeling really hot in waves and also nausea most days, but I agree that its probably psychosomatic! Will wait and see.

LittleBelle90 · 20/12/2015 09:59

Pink my OH is 25.
Congratulations to all the BFPs. My fertile window is coming up this week so FX.

Pinklily1 · 20/12/2015 10:10

Fingers crossed Little, time to DTD lots Grin

shelbTa · 20/12/2015 10:21

Pink are you in tww? As those were my exact symptoms! Also not sleeping.

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