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january bus!..anyone for the long journey to bfp!

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nuttynutter · 02/12/2015 04:36

Hi everybody heres my story been ttcbaby no 1since sept. I have long cycles typically 42days!Sad been with my partner 12yrs..just had af on monday so am out for this yr ..but positive thinking new year new luck..ne ladies in the same boat want to share support/stories x

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Celen · 06/01/2016 18:35

Thanks Soda, I know the ics are quite hard to read in very early pregnancy (previous experience) but I've followed them up with FRERS in the same pee so I know I've definitely got bfns so far Sad

But I do like the solidarity in the craziness so for that Grin

Celen · 06/01/2016 18:37

And of course please join this sad little POAS party name - I think we've "met" before haven't we? Your name seems very familiar.

nuttynutter · 06/01/2016 18:51

Went for lunch n couple of voddys to cheer me up after af Wink..thanx toadie anna and mimi x i really need to start temping takin more vits and takin control as much as i can with this whole ttc thing i think just been shagging as much as poss n hoping for the best which clearly isnt workin but it all seems soo confusing lol katemoss ur post made me pml thanx soda aswell hows things progessing with u have u got a date for ur scan yet xx

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toadierocks · 06/01/2016 19:58

oooh I'd murder a voddy right about now nutty or a large glass of very chilled wine!!! good work on all the shagging, at least you're having a good time trying Grin

mynameiscalypso am I reading correctly that you may have a squinter! PICTURE PICTURE!!! FX for you!

Sodasoda · 06/01/2016 20:03

Thanks nutty. I'm doing ok. Slightly terrified and can't believe it's real yet! No scan dates or anything - all that will be ages away - I'm not even 5 weeks yet. Time is going sooooo slowly. Got docs appointment on Monday.

Still stalking the thread waiting for everyone's BFPs!

mynameiscalypso · 06/01/2016 20:04

Toadierocks, I actually threw the test away deep in our communal rubbish bins so I didn't spend all evening looking at it because I have no self-control...If I get another squinter tomorrow, I promise I'll share and thanks for the FX!

Nutty, sorry for your AF but I think having a sneaky lunchtime drink is the best way to cope. FX that next month is your month!

Curlywurly4 · 06/01/2016 20:08

Thanks again everyone for thinking of me, i nice to feel loved SmileI feel a bit bad cluttering up this thread with my woes.

Good luck to those POAS soon, fingers crossed for those BFP! Commiseration for those that are out this month. Hope Feb is 'the' month it happens.

All ok here, actually feeling a bit better today, felt like the world ending yesterday, not helped by a crappy day at work.

It's all a bit ongoing still. EPU rang to say my bloods this morning showed HCG has almost tripled. Progesterone is too low though and womb lining line obv gone as I've had my period, so they are thinking ectopic again.

Scan rebooked for Monday when I'll be 4+5 and hopefully they can see something. Fingers crossed nothing major happens between now and then!

KateMossIsMyQueen · 06/01/2016 21:07

Pain in my right side started today, only CD6 but just got a faint line on the IC ovulation test i bought thousands on Amazon. Surely way too early?! DH is home tomorrow till Sunday, not sure whether to warn him in advance that I'm jumping him as soon as he gets in...

Annarose2014 · 06/01/2016 21:26

A faint line = negative & doesn't mean ovulation is near, sorry. It has to be dark as priests socks!

Rememberallball · 06/01/2016 21:32

Evening all.

CD24 and 13dpo. One bfn 2 days ago but today had on and off niggly pains in my side on and off today so don't know what to think!!

KateMossIsMyQueen · 06/01/2016 21:39

Thanks Anna I know even when it's bold it means it's still a few days away. Back to the patient step!

MiniLop · 06/01/2016 22:38

Hi all. Just checking in. CD27 today and BFN. No idea what DPO as I'm not even sure I did ov! Will test again in a couple of days probably tomorrow if AF doesn't turn up first!

GinandJazzHands · 07/01/2016 00:23

Hi ladies just checking in. Sorry to hear about all the BFNs at the moment - keeping fingers crossed that many of you will see a BFP soon! 13dpo (it's just after midnight so I'm counting itSmile) here and trying to DTD as often as we can muster waiting to OV. Thinking of going onto the OV sticks twice a day. Looking forward to the possibility of a squinter pic tomorrow mynameis! And curly you are in no way cluttering the thread, let us know how you are getting on Flowers. Sorry the bitch is with you nutty and fx for Feb! X

Annarose2014 · 07/01/2016 08:46

CD27 & bfn, so I'm suspecting I'm out this month and I didn't ovulate this month either.

However it ain't over till it's over and I've a referral in, and most importantly I've a toddler singing tunelessly to himself in the kitchen right this minute so I'm counting my blessings this morning.

mynameiscalypso · 07/01/2016 10:21

Not even a hint of a line on a FRER this morning and 13 DPO. AF cramps are getting worse too so think I'm probably out for Jan. Good luck to all those POAS and Thanks for curly.

MiniLop · 07/01/2016 12:20

Did an IC this morning - bfn. Was getting EWCM about an hour ago so thought I'd do an opk - strong positive, CD28!!! Better late than never, hey?! DH will be pleased, he thought all the DTD was done for this month Wink

nuttynutter · 07/01/2016 15:19

Thanx toadie u still holdin out to poas?and ginandjazz..dnt u dare apologise curly thats what i started this thread for soo we can all cheer each other on..must b soo confusin with them sayin one thing then changin their minds they should b givin u a scan quicker than that surely all the waitin just adds to ur stress x..soda enjoy every moment of ur pregnancy before u know it ul b gettin a scan buyin cute clothes n stuff x anything worthwhile doin is scary..

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firstgo1984 · 07/01/2016 16:38

gin neither of us has ovulated yet then!

toadierocks · 07/01/2016 18:46

Huzzah for OV minilop Hoping you OV soon too GinandJazz

Sigh for the BFN mynameis Flowers are you going to keep testing or just wait and see?

Flowers annarose lovely to hear about your toddler singing tho, so cute!

Glad you're feeling a bit better today curly been thinking of you [tea] and Cake

celen where are you at? How was the POAS party today?

nutty I'll be getting my POAS party started tomorrow, got my superdrug test and jug at the ready Grin although I've had some PMT rage today so I'm not holding out too much hope, still a few days early but you never know! rememberall are you joining me tomorrow for the POAS party?

xx

mynameiscalypso · 07/01/2016 19:00

AF turned up this afternoon so I'm definitely off the January bus. Good luck to everyone else!

Celen · 07/01/2016 19:50

So sorry to hear that mynameis Sad

Curly I can't believe the hcg is still increasing and that you've got to wait til monday, you must be going nuts? I do hope you have an uneventful weekend x

Thanks for asking toadie …I'm mostly feeling sorry for myself. I've not posted all day as I'm just feeling a bit miserable. 10dpo and bfn again, not that that is a big surprise. But it's the first anniversary of my friend passing away tomorrow and I just can't stop thinking about her Sad What with that and obsessing over stupid bfn tests, I'm feeling a bit down...

kittyvet · 07/01/2016 20:04

big hug celen. There is still a chance this month. My first didn't show until 12 DPO.
Sorry calypso about AF. Where are all the Xmas BFP to keep the midwives run off their feet this autumn??? Not on this thread.
Like ginand mini still waiting for OV. Got some EWCM today so looks like OH luck is in here too. Also thinking of using my CBFM in am and IC OPK in the pm. because I don't pee on enough sticks already!

toadierocks · 07/01/2016 20:08

mynameis Flowers Sorry the witch has got you this month, FX that Feb will be your month, go get stuck into the gin, pate and cheese

celen ah that's so sad about your friend, I'm sorry for your loss and that you're feeling so blue. 10dpo is really still very early so don't rule yourself out this month but it is heart-wrenching to keep seeing BFN's, just be kind to yourself this evening, maybe light a candle for your friends memory and have a nice bath for relaxation, take a bit of you time xx

KitKat1985 · 07/01/2016 20:22

Sorry to hear you are out for this month mynameis. Hoping you get your BFP soon. xx

Celen you are starting testing really early. I think I would have been about 12dpo when I got my (very faint) BFP with DD so don't rule yourself out yet. I'm sorry to hear about your friend. Maybe do something tomorrow in honour of her memory? xx

mynameiscalypso · 07/01/2016 20:26

Thanks all, I've eaten a lot of leftover Christmas chocolate so feel a bit better now.

Celen, I'm so sorry about your friend Thanks

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