Boris, I am so sorry things are looking bleak for you. I also think it is incredibly unfair that you don't get any IVF help just because DH already has children. I would definitely look into going abroad if I were you.
Just out of curiosity, has DH changed anything lifestyle wise since having children before? Started smoking, put on weight etc.? It seems strange that he was fine before and now isn't.
I know it is not the same as having family, but if you ever want to talk, feel free to mssage me. X
Kir, I hope you feel better soon. I am still not feeling well, but at least being ill is distracting me from the TWW!
Lily, I think I can see something, but am doubting myself now you said you have had a BFN. Sorry to hear about your mobility problems. It must be horrible to be in pain so often.
Beaut, being tired is no excuse. Tell DH to man up & do the deed!
I used to be very private about TTC, but these days I tell people that we are having trouble. I have had a lot of people open up about their own struggles once they hear our story. I think the problem is that people often feel ashamed, as having children is supposed to be easy and natural. When it isn't, we feel like we are somehow failing. 