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[Nomio230]

We don't care if you obsessively chart, temp & OPK, or just do the deed a couple of times a month. As long as you want a baby & can talk copious amounts of rubbish, this is the place for you.

Monday boris so I've got a week to wait. Unless my pain gets any worse, then I have to go to a+e

nympho that's a long wait, but we are here with you. X

Hi everyone! I was gonna post today but just managed to come on now and will post Tomor as miss you all but have seen your posts just now nympho .. Are the tests getting fainter?? Listen, last thing I want to do is get anyone's hopes up but I can't not say anything.. They should have checked that hcg today - I have no idea why the gp said it was a given with the bleeding as that's just not the case. I bled.. Lots.. And the hcg was rising. Some women get it. It can happen. And whilst I don't want to give you false hope, I just feel that waiting till Monday is torture for you when your tests are still positive and would urge you to request the beta bloods. Something up think about.. Either way...I'm thinking of you and will pray for miracle for you, they do happen!!

Everyone else- miss you all hope you are all ok, been meaning to check in for a while still not been keeping well but been trying to dip in and out and will post Tomor hopefully. I'm willing you all on!

Sammy lovely, well done. Beyond excited for you. Your baba is coming. So glad you are in ivf action now!

positive thoughts to all you lovely ladies

Sorry I've been rubbish at posting for the past few days. Will read back tomorrow to catch up with you all.

Nympho thinking of you and willing for your little bean to stick

Who is the crazy tupperware buyer

Good to see you sparkly hope you're ok.

mummy fx for ov in the next few days! Bulgaria bikini action is great motivation. I hereby promise to get to the gym today (although being up this early I already really don't feel like it!)

nomio It is relentless isn't it. Are you still taking Clomid? What dose are you on if so? Not sure I'm up with your fertility treatment story, apologies if you've been over this a thousand times!

Waving to pikz - great to hear from you! Hope you'll pop back soon.Nice to see sparkly too, sorry to hear things are still a battle and hope you get some respite soon.

Nympho wow that is one confident doctor!! Have your lines been fading at all on your sticks at home? It might take a while but worth keeping checking if you're still ok with it. I agree - get a second opinion if you can. False hope is agonising and it's worth preparing for the worst, however a GP looking at a stick and you bleeding isn't a proper diagnosis. How very unhelpful of them! Miscarriage care seems to be so hit and miss. I don't see why you would need to wait a week for a scan - I wonder if it's worth ringing them direct and seeing if you can go straight in? I wouldn't even mention your pre-booked appt or that you've seen a GP, just say you're pregnant and now bleeding heavily. Got to be worth a shot for peace of mind - they can only say no!

Nipping on to do #####STATS Kirjava Ttc #1, 30, cycle 4, bfp due 25th july###
I'm actually due slightly earlier but that would be on my birthday and I don't want to ruin my birthday with a bfn. Being a poas addict, I'll probably end up testing earlier anyway!!!

mega yes get to that gym and I will get to Zumba. Though it is a planned DTD night - annoying that I have to do both!

Just got my flashy smiley so our every day dtdathon starts today

Just got this tidbit on ff. Sperm is stored ready to be released at the same time as the egg inside. Didn't realise quite how it worked - I know they hang around in the Fallopian tubes but didn't realise they get a second wind!

Sorry girls, still no time to catch up, but wanted to wave to Sparkly! Where are you hanging out these days? I want to hear about your pregnancy!
I feel horrible this morning, really tired and headachey which I can only assume is the hormones. Xx

15dpo temp has gone up again and I jus feel different but still a bfn this morning..here's my chart And my bfn

wishing from that chart you are 13dpo aren't you?!

I don't know lol I was goin off when it dipped but could be wrong

Wishing, I'd say 13dpo too. That could be too early for a bfp. In what way do you feel different? Xx

I have had belly ache for about a week n abit crampy but usually I get cramps the day af shows..had cold symptoms and I keep gettin little twinges in my stomach..I haven't got sore boobs or anything which I usually have before af ..I've been preg 3 times before n new then before I did a test but had 3 early mcgs

And last night I feel wet down there tmi but it was like creamy n I've never had that ever before my period

wishing symptoms sound good, when is AF due - how many dpo does she usually show?

The latest I should of come on was yesterday cycle day 31..I had a dream I took a test lastnight n it was positive n it felt so real when I woke up..I said lastnight if my temp goes up again I'd do a test n that's why I did it this morning co it went from 36.2 to 36.49

wishing how long is your LP usually, as it isn’t all about cycle length but luteal phase length so if you are 13DPO now then when does AF normally show? It is a shame you have missed a few temps around ov time so it is unclear when you ovulated. You have had no clear thermal shift - all of your temps are very rocky so it is difficult to work out based on that chart. Also why didn’t you DTD in your fertile period, if you ovulated when we think on CD19 you only DTD on CD14 then not again until CD20 so you may have missed ov that way though the egg will hang around for a day after release. But based on your temps you may have even ovulated on CD28 as this is the only time we see a clear shift – which would make you only 4DPO. Have you been stressed or done anything different that may have delayed ov? I would recommend starting opks because you need an idea of what is going on before it happens so you don’t have a break in DTD around the crucial time. Sorry for long post but trying to help!

It's ok thanks for responding..well I usually dtd every day but this month I had to have a hycosy test which didn't end up happening n I wasn't allowed sexy and then after that my fella had to have a SA so we had to wait again so I was thinking I could be preg coz his sperm was saved longer than normal.i have got a clearblue ovulation kit for this month co I never know when I ovulate n I usually only do my temps near my period to see if they stay high as usually it drops and then I come on..my temp for the past 4-5 months I've been temping has the same pattern it has never dropped majorly and then come back up that high..it's never been that high. And it that I know of I feel the same like I always done more stressed than normal and I haven't changed anything except this month we have been takin vitamins

I don't feel anymore stressed than normal I meant lol

And I usually come on 10-11 dpo goin off my chart of the ovulation time is right

13dpo could well be too early wishing - I got a negative at 14dpo and went on to get a BFP. Sometimes you get late implantation, I think. Good luck!

wishing temps are most useful for seeing ov – we have seen on this bus that they don’t always drop before AF and don’t always go up when you’re pregnant so really mean nothing – it is the 3 temps higher that the previous 6 that would indicate ovulation. I would recommend switching to Fertility Friend app as it would tell you when you ovulated far better than the one you are using (though we still don’t always agree with it). Glad you’ve got a ov kit for next month. Have your temps for the past 4-5 months shown clear ovulation or have you missed temps every time?

either way fx you are pregnant but the hormones are taking a while to show.

Thanks for the info ladies! I did do the temp at first all the way through n it looks like I ovulate when it says it when I had my bloods took for 3months they said I only ovulated the once the last time n it was quite late but coz I haven't had a proper appointment I dnt know anything else in waiting to see my gynaecologist x