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We don't care if you obsessively chart, temp & OPK, or just do the deed a couple of times a month. As long as you want a baby & can talk copious amounts of rubbish, this is the place for you.

mummy my stats haven't changed, ff is still predicting bfp on 01/08 even though AF came earlier than predicted at the weekend.......?

I must have totally confused ff though as its giving me two possible AF dates and a fertile window of 9 days rather than the usual 4!!

Thanks for all your kind words. I feel better today now the shock has worn off. Cd2 already and still taking my temps so not all bad. Onwards and upwards. Have also contacted Care Fertility to find out when we will get an appointment through so waiting on someone to respond.

Sorry for temp drop sammy but things will be moving in the right direction for you this week. We want each and every detail of your journey.

Sorry AF arrived mummy but pleased that you're feeling ok and focusing on moving forward.

Sorry for all those who has been hit with AF. She must have been busy this weekend.

Dizzy, I think everyone gets the occasional weird cycle. I know it is worrying, but please try not to obsess over it. You will get there soon. X

I have been crazily busy this weekend.Worked at my sister's office on Saturday, then yesterday went to see my gorgeous, crazy nephews, as one of them turns 5 today. In between that, I have been finishing assignments & revising. I handed in my last assignment last night. I have an exam tomorrow, one Weds, then that is it!

3DPO for me, but I am not massively hopeful this month. We only DTD about 3 times & not even on OV day. We have both been stupidly busy & just couldn't fit any more in.

Nevermind though, it is Wimbledon time, so I will be nicely distracted the next couple of weeks!

DizzyN that is very odd! Then again, I sort of ignore what FF says and just put BFP at CD28 as in a non-stressful, normal month I have a 27 day cycle – it has just been somewhat screwed up since TTC started! I have a 10 day fertile phase according to FF

DizzyM glad you are feeling brighter and more positive.

Nomio the end of your course is nearly here! Good luck for the final stretch. Glad you had a good weekend, stay hopeful – it only takes one sperm!

4 hours sleep last night - I am struggling to keep my eyes open at work and afterwards need to go home and cook dinner and bathe DS as he didn't get one last night! Is it acceptable to just take a nap at work

Just hide under your desk, Mummy.

I very nearly did!! Whereas DP slept until the 12 and has napped on the sofa this afternoon too and has the cheek to say he is still tired!

Kill him!

I am so hungry today. I just want to eat constantly despite the fact that hot weather normally makes me lose my appetite. Must be a symptom.

nomio absolutely a symptom!

Baby bombed in the most ungracious way. A close friend of ours who we confided our pregnancy in and text her throughout my miscarriage who has been avoiding me since has put on Facebook that she is 12 weeks pregnant. No warning text or anything. Means she got pregnant 1.5 weeks after me. Never mentioned it. Just avoided me then baby bombed publicly, I saw it when I got home from work and just sobbed and sobbed. SIL was very sweet and rang me as soon as she saw it.

God poor you to be let down like that Mummy. Some people should just grow a pair. As an aside, advertising baby news on a medium like Facebook seems to me to be a bit dangerous at 12 wks. I didn't post anything til ds was born. That's just me tho. I know loads of people do. And I was a little tempted when I first got harmony all clear. Nomio please symptom spot with me!!! I've been swinging between being convinced I'm preggers to convinced I'll never again be preggers all in the space of a fortnight! I must have used loads of brain calories! x

Lucie, bless you, what a pain in the star and a massive disappointment. Who was this stupid doctor? Your English one? What clinic is this? Can you link me to yours and Sammy's thread so I can support you both there?

Sending love to all.

*star = arse

Mummy you poor thing,there is no kindest way to be baby bombed, but she could have wrote you a letter if she did not want to do it face to face, fingers crossed it will be your much deserved turn next in becoming pregnant

Hi Ladies,

Sorry for AF mummy...my next cycle will be number 5 too...sounds kind of lucky to me. I'm so sorry about your friends baby bomb...that really sucks!

Rainy go get your spermies you horny minx!

Sammy I'm exciting for you starting your treatment, keeping everything crossed for you.

Putney don't rule yourself out yet, your weird symptoms sound pretty promising to me.

DizzyN hope your last shift is better tonight...enjoy your hols

DizzyM glad you're feeling better today, new cycle = new hope...I really hope this is your month.

Robot glad you've had a great weekend, a bit of CoC is better than none and it only takes one spermie, fingers firmly crossed for you lovely

Nomio glad your exams are nearing the end so you can concentrate on your tww...and Wimbledon of course

Waves to all the other lovely ladies ????

Cd24,7dpo here...who's up for a game of symptom spotting?

I know! Very cowardly! And she lives a 2 min walk from my door. She has known DP 15 years so not a distant friend either. And we get on well with her DP so he could have told us too

Oh well. I'm drinking cider and she can't. Plus decided that I need to go on DS's trampoline for at least 10 mins a day to get fit again. AND just put my mooncup in - surprisingly comfy! Though had to chop the entire stem off so worried I have an abnormally low cervix!

knickers I hope it unlucky number 5 for us both.

typed *hope it's lucky number 5 and my stupid iPhone changed it! Hope it's not a sign.....

Mummy your iPhone made me laugh...perhaps it's trying a bit of reserve psychology? ????

You deserve that cider lovely lady, that is so shitty that she didn't tell you ????

I hope so knickers. Just read through all the bomb comments and there is a scattering of "I am glad it's out now" "congrats again" so looks like quite a few people knew - people who she isn't even close to. I hate that I am reading so much into this. Just feel crap.

Mummy you're bound to feel crap..it's horrible. I would save yourself anymore heartache and block her. Stay strong, it be your turn soon ????

I can't. She is our friend . When we have a last minute BBQ those are the people we would invite.

How is DP feeling about it mummy?

He thinks they haven't done it to hurt us. Which I agree with but they could have told us personally rather than at the same time as people on Facebook they don't even talk to anymore! Have text her congratulations to not look like a bitch but she hasn't even responded. Stupid cow.

I am not surprised you are feeling down, Mummy. That is a horrible way for her to let you know. I can understand she might have been unsure about how to tell you, but anything would have been better than that. I hope she gets so fat she waddles.

Putney, where did you have your Harmony test done? DH and I have decided that if/when I get pregnant, we are definitely having one.

Did someone say symptom spotting......

Mummy have you managed to speak to her, I am not condoning her putting her statement out their on Facebook, maybe she was scared of uspetting you by telling you , she should have told you though before putting it on Facebook, if she is the kind of friend that has always been there for you maybe have a quiet word with her saying you are pleased for her but the way you found out upset you!!

hopesup try and not symptom spot give it a few more days, you will only make the tww drag even longer, fx for you !!