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[Nomio230]

We don't care if you obsessively chart, temp & OPK, or just do the deed a couple of times a month. As long as you want a baby & can talk copious amounts of rubbish, this is the place for you.

Either tummy bug or quads nympho! Really hope you feel better soon. D&V is the pits

Welcome back rainy!

rainy glad you had a nice holiday! Sorry about the traffic.

madame I haven't been to a festival either. Just a busted concert once

Googling early morning sickness to discover that some people believe that they got sick immediately after DTd - literally when they rolled over! (if I ever get that crazy, come to my house and slap me!

nympho supposedly my mum knew instantly if only they knew what we do now!

Gah - found out tonight that mil has told her sister about our fertility issues :(.
DH doesn't get why I'm so annoyed. X

Sammy, I would be pretty pissed off too. It is not her place to discuss your private business.

Robot, glad you are enjoying your night of freedom!

Mummy, DH's mum says she knew instantly. I have to bite my tongue not to tell her that actually it takes a bit longer than that!

Nympho, the month I got my BFP I had a really upset tummy from about 5DPO. Everything I read said that was too early for symptoms, but they stopped as soon as I lost it, so I am convinced it was related.

If orbit to say, I have never been to a festival either. Lots of concerts, but festivals just don't appeal to me. I wee far too often!

I forgot, not if orbit! Autocorrect!

Positive opk! Shit the bed!

I don't think she meant to be insensitive, she's close to her sister and probably wanted to discuss how she could help us, knowing her. I just feel like the aunt has probably told others now, and I swear if everyone knows at the BBQ tomorrow then I will just be walking out.
On a positive note, I forgot to say that we had the best non ttc CoC last night... Maybe because we know we don't have to have any forced baby making sex for a month... it was awesome! Xx

Go Mega, go! It's CoC!! Xx

Robot, it is probably best not to shit the bed if you are hoping to entice DH into sex.

Yay for good sex, Sammy!

sammy I'm sorry...Not her situation to share. Hope she told in strictest confidence.

I can't get on it...He's out with work! And we're at my mums all weekend...eek!

I've never contemplated ovving so late...is cd28 ok to conceive at?? I'm scared to death of losing another bean...

Laughing at nomio

Also I am SO happy for the lovely non ttc dtd sammy... it's amazing how fertility treatment, although intensely pressured in lots of ways, weirdly takes the pressure off. Hope there's lots more to come

mega CoC for you!!!!

sammy even if everyone knows at least it avoids the "when are you going to start" question

Get shagging robot I was given clomid once but it was taken off me before I had a chance to make use of it! Consultant said he'd referred me to IVF and there was no point in me taking it.

So jealous of your non ttc CoC sammy! I would be so annoyed too and even though she meant well it wasn't her place to say anything.

I had awful cramps too last night nympho fx crossed it's a good sign for you mine was most likely caused by my dodgy cooking

Hope you're feeling nice and refreshed after your holiday rainy.

I looked up anovulatory cycle and ov earlier in the next cycle. Apparently you don't get a 'real' AF after an anovulatory cycle, you get a withdrawal bleed and your cycle carries on but you can count the day of your bleed as cd1. Female bodies are such complicated things

Dizzy, I think Clomid would work wonders for you. I think you should ask your private clinic for a prescription. I think mine cost about £200 including the consultation.

I can't understand why the consultant would have sent you straight for IVF instead of trying that first. I am on the waiting list for IVF, but am on Clomid. Weird how different doctors have different processes.

Rainy, I am glad you had a nice time. Hopefully you will be lovely & relaxed ready for CoC.

Temp dropped by .4 today BUT I took it at 3.50 because that is when I woke up and I took it out of my mouth a few seconds before it beeped (half asleep and thought it should be done by then) so prob not very accurate. But boobs have gone soft and veins gone

Cd10 bfn

13dpo today, and think my temp is slowly starting to drop.
My feet were out the cover, but I think we all know that would be clutching at straws. Expect it will plummet tomorrow!

Mummy - sorry for your bfn... But I don't think that temp can really be counted, more because of the disturbed sleep than taking it early

*disturbed taking of temp while half asleep!

While it is up it is up sammy. Well above cover line so you're not out yet! I agree with my temp, discarded it and much happier with how my chart looks haha.

I caved and took an ic today. Bfn. but I know twerly at cycle day 25 still feel rough today! it's a horrible feeling of ick in my stomach that only eating helps.