Hello everyone 
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Itsme and Suz - that's so rude about your aunts and neighbour! What is wrong with people? If there even a bit curious then why not have enough self-restraint to keep your gob shut for 5 minutes? I've had a lot of speculation too lately and it really just adds to the misery 
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Vap - tbh I'm trying to avoid the internet. It's only caused me grief and upset over the past few months. That's good that you've got another consultant appointment. Do you know what the next steps are? At least this keeps the ball moving. It's not very helpful for the doc to say about the 3 months - it puts so much pressure on you.
Sarah - sorry about the BFN. Hopefully it's just too early. Keep us posted!
Carlton - glad I'm not alone in the non-existent period! ha ha. That also gives me some hope (which I'm rapidly running out of right now). How are you feeling? You must be so thrilled! It's so lovely of you to stay on this bus and chat to us and take an interest .
Rach - I'm sending you the biggest hug. It really sounds like you're having a rotten time. It feels like all these things come at one, and I'm sure they all feed into each other (the not getting pregnant; the depression; the weight gain etc). You're certainly not alone in all of this. I am going through exactly the same thing, and I'm sure a number of the other girls on this bus alone will also relate to what you're saying. It's also sooooo awful when you're convinced you're pregnant and you're not, so you really have my sympathy for that too. On the plus side, with other things being ruled out, you're only getting closer to finding out what may be stopping you getting pregnant. Once you can (hopefully) find this out, then they can do something to sort it out. Just stay positive hun.! As for the christening, have you not noticed that the minute you get broody there are babies and bumps EVERYWHERE. Like, WTF? It is honestly beyond a joke.
Carrot - that's fab news! Congratulations to Mr Van!