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Don't mess with the Bumsnetters they have Angry Pubes!

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juneybean · 26/04/2015 11:37

The Rules of Bumsnet

You can shag, you can syringe, you can temp, you can OPK; as long as your aim is a BFP!

We're cliquey so fuck off. LPB will be annihilated.

Make sure you're on the ###Bumsnet Bumstats###

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Sparkly123 · 30/04/2015 22:51

Sammy sorry you are still awaiting AF... Hope you are out of limbo soon! Flowers

Eskimo hoping fancyHSG goes well Tomor, be thinking of you Flowers

Lucie tomorrow tomorrow tomorrow! Thinking of you and absolutely rooting for you! Sure you are a bag of nerves!!Star

Purdita good luck at your app Tomor, I really hope it helps you come to a conclusion on all thisFlowers

Yokyil still no AF?! So testing Tomor?! Exciting!!!!! Positive vibes to you! Star

Spinners id forgotten you were going away! That will be great! Hope dh sample goes well Tomor! Grin

Nomio oh no! Another hard day for you. I'm glad that doctor is taking things seriously and hope Tomor brings you more information.. And less pain!!! Feel better soon lovelyFlowers

Rainy good luck with bloods Tomor. Focus on this next cycle - this is when things are really starting to move forward, you have these tests and fertility ref in action. these are all good moves in the right direction. I know it can feel like it's just never going to happen, but you must must must hold on to the fact that it will. Because that's the truth. Hormones are gonna settle and you will be feeling less emotional soon too. Sending Flowersto you

Woolly so sorry you had a bad day yesterday but pleased to hear today was up!!hope it continues!Flowers

Wotsits is that you?!?! Have you cracked it? Is the device complete?!??Shock

So many of us have apps or something Tomor! Let's hope for a Good Friday for all!!! Smile

Woolly84 · 30/04/2015 22:52

sammy hope she doesn't turn up, horrible that last bit of the wait x

loopylou1984 · 30/04/2015 22:52

Congratulations wotsitt! Xx

Sparkly123 · 30/04/2015 22:52

Yes where is Junebug romancing no doubt Hmm

Sparkly123 · 30/04/2015 22:54

Wotsit you scallywag!!!! Your BFP?!? Congratulations lovely!!!! The device design is down the drain then! Star so happy for you! Flowers

wotsits1 · 30/04/2015 22:54

Woolly today!! I'm in shock a little bit.

Apart from the odd AF cramping (plus some weird sharp stabby cramps occasionally) I HAD NO SYMPTOMS! No matter how many times I poke my boobs they refuse to hurt.

Done a cb digital, a free, a superdrugs own and an ic though and all were positive!

loopylou1984 · 30/04/2015 22:55

Lol at Wotsitts willing her boobs to hurt! Xx

Woolly84 · 30/04/2015 22:57

Ah well done wotsits!! Very reassuring to hear about the lack of symptoms! Can you give us yer stats??

sparkers how's the pain today? x

wotsits1 · 30/04/2015 22:57

Thank you so much everyone!!! Smile

Sorry... my device is still in the 'ideas stage' but i'm planning on pitching it to a midwife for some technical assistance! Don't rule it out yet though... I'm working on it!

Nomio230 · 30/04/2015 22:57

Yay! Congratulations Wotsits!

wotsits1 · 30/04/2015 22:58

###STATS###
Wotsits1, 35, ttc#2, cycle 3, bfp 30.4.15!

Sparkly123 · 30/04/2015 22:59

Woolls intermittent pain! Dunno what that means. I hope I can get some sleep tonight.. Tomor is heavily on my mind as expected!! Hmm

ThePug · 30/04/2015 23:04

Congrats wotsits ! although you totally just LPB'd us, we can forgive you as an original bumsnetter I suppose

I have realised why I'm feeling so lost apart from the bleeding obvious For the first time in over a year I have nothing to plan; I was planning our wedding from Nov-Sept, then the honeymoon til Dec, then in Jan we started TTC. I know I'll get back to TTC soon but all of the excitement of it has gone and I still have at least 4 weeks of nothingness anyway.

Sparkly good luck for tomorrow, thinking of you. You too Eskimo! And nomio I hope you get sorted out soon

Woolly84 · 30/04/2015 23:05

sparks I hope it's just baba nestling in and stretching things in there, of course it must be all you're thinking of at the moment lovely, try and stay in the moment and not let your mind wander too much, not long to go now xx Flowers

purdiepie · 30/04/2015 23:07

Sparkly, you are having a tremendously tough ride. I am praying for the best ever news tomorrow Thanks

Yokyil, I have a hunch about you, old girl Smile

Wotsits, blimey, you don't hang around! Congratulations, love Thanks

Juney's busy social rug-munching networking.

purdiepie · 30/04/2015 23:08

Bozzer, how are things today? Thanks

Woolly84 · 30/04/2015 23:09

pug Flowers I hope these few weeks go quickly for you x

purdiepie · 30/04/2015 23:11

Pug, yes, planning is always such an excellent distraction and is why so many IVF couples get straight onto planning the next cycle if one fails. There is so much room for dreams and hopes when we are planning...

Lucie, we want your dream to come true so much. You are nearly there. If it is bad news then roll with the despair. It will pass, I promise..and new plans await xx Thanks

lucieloos · 30/04/2015 23:16

Just popping on to say congrats to wotsits, brilliant news!

Spinning those sperm results are not good I'm afraid. The total motility needs to be over 10 million to consider even doing normal ivf. You would be an icsi like me with that set of results. I really hope they improve for you tomorrow or else you should get yourself over to Czech Smile

As for me I have been feeling down all day. I'm just certain it hasn't worked. I don't know if I will test tomorrow or Saturday. I will have to see how I feel in the morning but just haven't had a good day. Been on my own pondering things as dh has been in work all day and he's still not home yet as went to his cycling club afterwards so it's been a long old day. I have booked in a blood test on Tuesday to confirm results but I just really, really know it hasn't worked.

lucieloos · 30/04/2015 23:17

Oh purdie cross post it's as though you knew what I was going to say then!

Woolly84 · 30/04/2015 23:19

lucie praying it's good news for you Flowers

Nomio230 · 30/04/2015 23:20

Sparkly, I so hope you get to see that heartbeat tomorrow. Keep us updated whenever you can. Flowers

Lucie, are you testing tomorrow? Good luck!

Eskimo, good luck with your hycosy. Hopefully it will rule one more thing out.

lucieloos · 30/04/2015 23:20

Thanks Wooly x

Nomio230 · 30/04/2015 23:23

Cross posts, Lucie. I am sorry you are feeling down, but I still have hope for you. X

Sparkly123 · 30/04/2015 23:26

Lucie we will be positive for you. Don't give up hope yet. And like Purdie said, you will get through it all no matter what happens Flowers

Purdiepie thanks lovely. Good luck Tomor too. I imagine this bus will be busy with updates!