Thank ladies, am not too sad just a bit meh!
After all I did a deal in my head saying I'd be happy if DH got his job, which he did.
Can't expect miracles but would've been the icing on the cake!
Periods always been entirely predictable and regular. Af returned about 6 or 7 weeks after Baby arrived but she is a bit of a milk monster ( feeding as typing) so if I continue to fail in my efforts to make dc4 I may have to accept Mother Nature telling me to give myself a break!
Having said that don't actually know when af arrived last month as wasn't tracking in view of ttc not being on the cards this time last month. Have a memory of being surprised at how much later than expected it was but can't remember the details. Think am cd27 today so I'll just wait for af to arrive.
faybelline I'd dtd today and prob tomorrow am if you can manage it. Egg lives about 12 - 24 hrs so give yourself the best chance of catching it. Then headlong into tww ( or hellish fortnight of sending yourself mental symptom spotting as I like to call it 
!)
We'll all have a better idea where we are upto next month.
issie my ds will be very excited when I tell him I have a friend with spider senses lol - here's hoping you're right about may.
We should all hide whilst nicky resets her phone then jump out and surprise her later hehe!
Catch you guys later.