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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

The April 2015 bus is here ready to bring us a flurry of Springtime BFPs

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Cariad2014 · 10/03/2015 08:19

Here's hoping this month is THE one!

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Mumof1sofar · 24/03/2015 13:34

Haha babybump that's so funny Smile

Tessie ouch poor you!

laurasdream · 24/03/2015 13:58

Hi all, thank you for the warm welcome Smile

Sparkly Sorry to hear about your bad experience with the HSG procedure Sad...I hope you feel better today x I am refusing to get it done! Two chemical pregnancies is proof that my tubes are fine & it is the only good I can take from the situation.

My problem is low progesterone Sad...I have a luteal phase of 8/9 days, so it is preventing successful implantation...I am currently taking 100mg of Vit B6 & 25 mg of B12, in order to help lengthen it. I started last month & my lp went from 8 days to 9 days!! Fx it will lengthen a bit more this month....I am still taking EPO up to ovulation...other than that I am trying to stay stress free!

Welcome Chill & hello to all the other ladies I don't know Smile x

laurasdream · 24/03/2015 14:06

babybump I too pick up bargains when I see them! I just can't resist Grin...I love all the baby outfits too! They just make me melt.. x

On the subject of buggies, I just love the Baby Jogger City Versa! I even pushed it around the shop floor! Smile

I am Cd 9 today & I am still bleeding Sad. light but there all the same..oh the joys of crazy hormones!! I hope it buggers off soon!

Roxy1212 · 24/03/2015 14:26

Afternoon, ladies

Just a bit late to this month's thread (still working out the site...) but ready to join in now!

FX for all you ladies waiting for BFPs this month - I'm at 13 DPO with lots of BFNs now but NO IDEA when AF should be due so still hoping there's time for a double line yet

Babybump and Laurasdream - I'm trying to resist anything at all until we get to 12 weeks (had 1 MC already) but it's sooo tempting to pick up little bits! My sister-in-law is 12 weeks now (17yo, wasn't TTC at all) so there's a lot of baby buzz going on here just now - I'm very pleased for her but can't pretend it's not a little difficult. On the plus side though, at least I can start picking up some of the cute baby things I like so much and our little one will have a wee cousin to play with when the times comes!!

TrixieRay · 24/03/2015 14:30

Hi ladies, just checking in. Pretty sure I'm in the 2ww, managed to DTD lots over the weekend.

Had an IVF consultation yesterday as we wanted to get the ball rolling. The consultant was really good and went though everything but turns out there are 2 issues. First I have raynards (poor circulation) my Mum has it and had 3 of us but I've been told to start taking aspirin. Secondly I have polycystic ovaries which is news to me!! I don't have any symptoms but my scan that I had in September shows that I had over 12 follicules on each side which apparently is a sign of pco. I'm a bit miffed that nothing was said then but I think the main implications of pco on fertility are problems with ovulation and I have regular cycles and temping/bloods have confirmed ov. She was a specialist in fertility nutrition and was saying that there is a link between pco and high insulin levels (which can cause hormone imbalances and affect ovulation) so I need to revamp my diet. I see there has been a lot of talk about diet so hopefully this will be of use to everyone...

It is really important to keep blood sugar levels constant. I'm a real grazer and she said that this means my levels are constantly spiking. I've got to eat three balanced meals a day and if I do snack it has to be protein (goodbye afternoon bag of crisps!)

I'm a bit confused as all my blood tests were ok but no harm in revamping my diet.

I asked her about wine as I do drink a few glasses every weekend and she said it is fine as long as you are not getting drunk but to try and avoid it on ov day.

IVF plans are on hold for a few months to see if the aspirin and diet help - I will be stocking up on brazil nuts!

Laura, I was actually thinking the other day about people who've not been on the buses for a while (Scottish, Chandlers and Dastardly if you are lurking hope you are all ok) so sorry to hear that you had another chemical. Good to hear that you have an appointment though and hopefully the vitamins will extend your lp even further this month.

TheMShip · 24/03/2015 14:34

Thinking about starting TTC #2 soon, could someone point me to an explanation of the BFP bus concept? Would love to join in!

Is it ok to be here if I might be pregnant already? AF a few days overdue, but a) doesn't seem like there was enough shagging at the right time (illness), b) not really any symptoms, c) cycles are wonky at the moment anyway, and d) would really rather wait another couple of months.

nightandthelight · 24/03/2015 14:44

Does Raynauds affect fertility?! Trixie Glad to hear that all went well with appt :)

MelonMelon · 24/03/2015 15:26

CD19 here and I've got watery brown spotting. Not due AF for another 10 days anyone know what this could be?

TrixieRay · 24/03/2015 16:36

I'm not sure Night, I did a bit of googling last night and looks like plenty of people who have it get pregnant. I'm a bit confused to be honest. I just had a call from the fertility doctor I saw yesterday and she has suggested some blood tests which I may see if I can get my GP to do.
Do you have it too? Mine isn't too bad but my hands and feet are pretty much always cold and my hands go really red, sore and itchy in the cold.

nightandthelight · 24/03/2015 16:40

I do have it yes trixie as do most of my family. DH refers to it as my zombie hands. My mum has it and she had four of us so it can't be that bad surely! Fx for you now that things are really moving forward :)

victoria401 · 24/03/2015 16:56

Hiya!

To the lady who was talking about drinking pineapple juice on the last page.... useless with names its grapefruit juice to increase ewcm before ov. And its EATING pineapple CORE that's supposed to help implantation but its not been proven.

As for buying baby things... I have had some stuff stashed hidden from dh for over a year now. Kind of regret it. Its from before we got our subfertile diagnosis. Bought it the month I was 5 days late but didn't take a test until the 5th day (bfn) and started bleeding few hours later. I'll never know if it was early loss. I kinda hope it was as then we would know it could be done! That was last April. Crap sperm diagnosed in the May.

Sweets27 · 24/03/2015 17:09

Hello ladies!

My, what a chatty bus we are becoming! Grin

I've been lurking/not checking much the last couple of days as mid-way through tww am getting a little bored, but thought I would check in. I have just been out and bought pineapple juice and brazil nuts. Are we going to cause a huge spike in UK nut sales?!?!

Just going to read back properly, but a big WELCOME to newcomers Smile

Whoever asked for stats, we do have a list that mummyofone kindly made. I have editing access to it so I'll try to do some updates now.

Sweets27 · 24/03/2015 17:26

Ok ladies, updated stats list here:

docs.google.com/spreadsheets/d/1e0_ygzSyD5Zg2Ir6pXZBqKxPmsCMFl5F2A0Zw6ASdbk/edit#gid=0

Let me know if you think you've been missed!

Oh and TheMShip, welcome! the buses are just a way for us to go through the TTC journey together, so you can join the April bus and chat with us if your next period (or, hopefully, your positive preg test or BFP!) is due sometime in April. Obviously you are welcome to join even if that's not the case - the more the merrier! It's definitely fine if you think you might be pregnant already - how exciting! Have you done a test?

BabyBumpHopeful · 24/03/2015 17:39

Roxy Best thing about a pregnant sibling is buying stuff on the premise it's for her! So when youre early stages noone will know you're pregnant! Mwahaha!

Roxy1212 · 24/03/2015 17:44

Haha BabyBump That's a good point!

loopylou1984 · 24/03/2015 17:54

Trixie - glad you're feeling positive after your appointment Smile
Was that your decision to postpone any treatment or theirs? Just wondering how controlling they are when you go privately?

Welcome mship, well if your bfp is due now then you technically should be on the March bus, but feel free to stick around if you prefer.... Lots of us are on both at the moment!Smile

As for buying baby stuff, I haven't as I feel like you would jinx things. I have one baby grown hidden in my wardrobe which was second hand bought for my niece but never fitted, it's too cute to get rid of, but I can't help thinking that maybe it's causing our bad luck thus far! Xx

DizzyNorthernBird · 24/03/2015 18:25

Afternoon ladies.

I haven't bought any baby stuff or even barely looked or thought about it! I'm concentrating on actually getting pg first! I'm with sammy, would be too worried about jinxing myself. Like your cunning plan though baby!

Bought some chocolate covered Brazil nuts today! Did any of us not go nut shopping today?! Lol.

Well I'm cd19 here and I'm a bit concerned my shag tactic has backfired. Temp was up ever so slightly this morning and no line at all on opk, which means I may have missed the surge at some point since Sunday Hmm and we've only dtd once. Gonna try and grab DP later to get a panic shag just in case. Still got a load of ewcm today though......I guess tomorrows temp will reveal all!

wotsits1 · 24/03/2015 18:51

Trixie and night I have Raynaud's too. Didn't realise it had anything to do with fertility. I got a bfp after 3 cycles both times (first one ended in mmc at 9 weeks, second one gave me my beautiful dd). Never heard abt impacting fertility but will research.

spinningirl10 · 24/03/2015 18:55

Mrsb, that's so shocking that you were treated so badly. Pleased you've got out and are enjoying your new job.

Purdey, hope your cake is lovely, can we see a picSmile

Eskimo, sorry you've had a shitty day. I wonder if stress could be the reason your af is absent, I think you should mention it to your doc. Hope you can have a relaxing evening and eat cake Smile

Boris, sorry you're feeling low and pleased you have a doctors appointment. It's good to feel that you're being proactive. Your bfp will come, the waiting is tough but it will happen Thanks

DizzyMerry · 24/03/2015 18:56

Welcome theM fx for your bfp.
I nipped into h & b after work and no Brazil nuts Shock so have asked DH to pick some up from tesco on his way home.
Trixie revamping your diet can only be a good thing. I have read that some people have pco and some have pcos which is essentially the same but the latter obviously manifests itself with symptoms. As you say lots of people conceive regardless so fx for you
Dizzy dtd again tonight and hopefully you'll be covered.
I was going through DD's stuff from when she was a baby (2 now) and felt really broody. I so can't wait to get preggers and I really enjoyed my pregnancy with DD even though I had awful heartburn towards the end

DizzyMerry · 24/03/2015 18:57

Sorry about going on about my pregnancy. I didn't mean to offend anyone or be insensitive

wotsits1 · 24/03/2015 18:59

Trixie and night... just realised how that sounded! Was just tryna reassure that Raynaud's and fertility may not be linked!

wotsits1 · 24/03/2015 19:04

dizzynorthern Jump dh! Stat! And emergency shag should do the trick!

Well, i THINK I ovd on Sunday. Maybe. Gonna have a last ditch dtd tonight tho and then it's in the hands of the gods for another month. We DTD sat, sun and Mon too so hopefully has been well timed.

And I ate 2 Brazil nuts tonight so that means I'm defo pregnant.

spinningirl10 · 24/03/2015 19:05

Sorry, my reply was to the March bus! Just came here to catch up and realised I've posted on wrong thread! Thought I was being clever by reading from iPad and replying on phone, that'll teach meSmile

Nomio230 · 24/03/2015 19:17

Ouch, Tessie, that sounds nasty. Hope they heal up soon.

I can't believe how many of you there are with Raynauds. I always thought it was really unusual. I am sure my mum has it as she is always cold, especially her feet and hands.

I think it is hilarious that we are all now munching away on brazil nuts in the hopes of getting a BFP! The things we do!

I am off to make dinner. New potatoes and omelette for me. Smile