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Conception

When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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TTC after mc #4

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GuybrushThreepwoodMP · 12/02/2015 14:44

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chasingtherainbow · 07/03/2015 07:01

Please tell me you can all see it right?????

Bristolian1 · 07/03/2015 07:10

I see it chasing!!

HariboBrenshnio · 07/03/2015 07:11

Yep I can see it Chasing! Do a digital anyway, It'l put your mind at rest. Your only 12dpo, I wouldn't expect at really dark like yet and you know that the darkness of the line means nothing. A line is a line!!

MrsConfusion · 07/03/2015 07:13

I can see a line chasing, despite phone pic and hotel lights (whispers congrats). Of course you're stressed after all you've been through, and of course your body is telling you that. Try (ha ha) to focus on holiday for a few hours, did you say it involved beach? (So jealous, although tricky with dicky tum!)

Bloods overnight were 'reassuring', whatever that means. Just heard from nurse I'm meant to be back on nil by mouth though so once again I'm totally confused. Cramping and clots this morning, so doctor me (ha ha, a medical degree would be helpful!) reckons I'm having early mc, possibly caused by infection(???) and have no idea what that thing by my ovary is. Let's see what this morning's batch of medics say.

Yesterday was in shock, this morning I can't stop crying. Crazy really as I didn't even know I was pg 24hrs ago.

chasingtherainbow · 07/03/2015 07:19

Oh MrsC. I was exactly the same. Had no idea. It's so much information to take in.. made worse when you'd just wish someone would be honest and say "we don't bloody know either"

you are well within your rights to sob all day long. especially if they're not even allowing you to sob into cake
I hope they get it sussed asap and you can get home to your jammies. I will stop posting about me too . .I don't mean to be so insensitive I am so sorry.

Also clearly I meant dicky. . Not dinky! I bloody wish I was dinky!

Amyyy27 · 07/03/2015 07:22

I see the line chasing! yay!

MrsC my heart goes out to you, im thinking of you

chasingtherainbow · 07/03/2015 07:27

Looking at that pic I might have been shaking a bit. It's much more clearer irl. . But so long as you can all see it and I'm not losing it!

Gr33dyeggs · 07/03/2015 07:45

Congrats chasing. Hope your tummy settles. My asthma has flared up again. It could be general pregnancy as with ds and the last mc, or just anxiety induced. Because lets face it - there's a lot of anxiety!

MrsC hugs. The not knowing must be awful.

chasingtherainbow · 07/03/2015 07:51

Funny you should say about your asthma. My eczema has flared up really bad!

MrsConfusion · 07/03/2015 07:54

Chasing please please keep posting about you - and all of you lovely ladies - it really helps to see there's hope! And I care so much about you all, and really want to see you all with babies to snuggle. Goodness knows every single woman on here deserves the happy ending.

Cariad2014 · 07/03/2015 08:12

Apologies ladies I've been trying to avoid MN over the past week in a bid not to get too obsessed with ttc.

Just popping on to congratulate Genni and Chasing on their BFPs - such fabulous news. I am so delighted for both of you.

Genni - I know exactly how you feel. I found having a BFP second time round far more stressful than any 2ww. Hang on in there my lovely.

Sorry you're having a tough time MrsC - I really hope what they've spotted near your ovary isn't an ectopic. Thinking of you.

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GuybrushThreepwoodMP · 07/03/2015 08:16

Chasing! Congratulations!

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Romeolovesjuliet · 07/03/2015 08:20

mrs C really thinking of you.
chasing, it's definitely there - congrats!! Enjoy the rest of your holiday.

gennibugs · 07/03/2015 09:29

mrsc I am so sorry of what you are going through.

chasing congratulations. Delighted for you. Enjoy the rest of your break.

cariad hello - hope everything is ok with you? Sounds like you are a busy bee at the mo.

MsJupiter · 07/03/2015 09:32

MrsC that sounds awful, I am so sorry you are going through this. I hope you get some answers and resolution soon.

chasingtherainbow · 07/03/2015 09:40

Eep. Thank you for all the well wishes! Morning sickness has well and truly kicked in. I won't complain. .but have to admit I hoped I'd get away with it this time. Was sick daily till 21 weeks with dd.

Mrs C you are so utterly lovey.

Cariad2014 · 07/03/2015 10:31

Genni - am ok thanks. 10dpo at this end and no symptoms whatsoever so I reckon I'm out this month. I also rather stupidly POAS on one of my CBFM hpts this morning, I didn't put it into the machine (and admittedly they tell you only to test 3 days before AF is due and mine's not due for another 5 days) but the strip was as white as snow. Your comments on the March bus earlier this week about feeling that you were back to square one really resonated with me - I'm just so tired of this endless rollercoaster and cannot wait for it to stop.

It would have been the EDD for my first pregnancy yesterday Had a mini meltdown this morning, as I honestly thought that I'd be pregnant again within 6 months of my ectopic, but it doesn't look as though it's meant to be. Meeting up with a load of their friends and their bumps/ babies this afternoon which I'm dreading - I really can't stand being the gooseberry in the corner anymore.

Ah well onwards and upwards, we have a cockapoo puppy viewing booked in for tomorrow !!!

How are you feeling?

Cariad2014 · 07/03/2015 10:33

My friends not their friends I must learn to proof-read my posts!

Gr33dyeggs · 07/03/2015 10:40

cariad for yesterday and I hope today isnt too difficult.

Bristolian1 · 07/03/2015 10:47

Hmmm. Now AF seems to have gone away. Trying not to get my hopes up (could it be implantation??) grrrr just want to know one way or another. Stupid irregular cycles and stupid me for not knowing exact ovulation date! Every month cannot be like this or I will not survive TTC!

Cariad EDDs are the worst. I was a real mess on my last one and not liking forward to the next. Well done for coping and

Amyyy27 · 07/03/2015 11:23

cariad hope today isn't too bad . You will be one of the bumps one day soon. But anyway a cockapoo puppy! Awwww! I love dogs. Im encouraging my mam to get a cockapoo when her partner retires. They are such lovely gorgeous dogs!

bristolian i have my fingers crossed for you!!

MsJupiter · 07/03/2015 13:05

Bristolian I was in exactly that position last Sunday - AF came and went. In fact that's three times now I've been fooled. Fingers xed for you...

MrsConfusion · 07/03/2015 13:56

Fingers crossed Bristolian

Hugs cariad, edd milestone is so hard and and if allowed.

I've been allowed home but not formally discharged, back tomorrow for more bloods to see if hcg rising or falling, then they'll make decisions from there. Cramping and periodic bleeding including clots, so this feels like mc . I don't know whether to hope it is mc, hcg falls and they leave me alone or whether to pray this tiny seed makes it even though that means more investigations.

At least the doctor offered to refer me to recurrent mc clinic. Still can't believe what's happened in the last 7 months, this isn't my script, I simply can't believe this looks like mc3. Had an hour of very snotty crying in hospital this morning before DH got there, otherwise pretty numb. I just want answers!!

Bristolian1 · 07/03/2015 14:00

Oh MrsC there don't seem to be any adequate words. Sending hugs and

chasingtherainbow · 07/03/2015 15:37

Oh MrsC :-( my heart is breaking for you.

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