TTC after mc #4

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Well I have everything crossed for you. When can you test? What DPO are you?

Oh lord now I'm panicking. Is the line too strong? What does that mean?

Guy haha. There's no such thing as too dark a line! Congratulations! !!!

I'm only 9dpo I think. Gah. I don't know what to think. I don't want hopes up etc.

I don't think there is much you can do about your hopes you could maybe test tomorrow?

Guy don't worry! I got a digital 1-2 weeks at 11dpo. It can't be too dark.

I was suddenly thinking it could be ectopic...

No guy. Nothing to indicate eptopic from preg tests. Your lines just depend on hcg level. Your is obviously rising nicely :-)

Teenie the consultant I saw said the mc could have been caused by an infection which was diagnosed from swabs during my initial bleeding. I was put on metronidazole and told to get swabs next pregnancy to start antibiotics Asap if required. It was naturally occurring bacteria but in high numbers.

I hope you get sorted soon.

Sorry you've had a rough time stocking I remember having to put ttc on hold for rubella vaccinations and found the wait tough.

Congrats again guy

We should start a early pregnancy post mc november bus thread? I'm not sure posting worries here is appropriate and I'm too scared to go on the positivifrickinity one yet.

Yay guy great line!!

Chasing i too had golden cm this month!! Eeek!!

teenie thats rubbish :( hope you are ok

Im a bit worried im very crampy tonight, is that normal for being so early? Trying not to go into panic mode...!

Yeah, start one gr33dy! I definitely don't want to join a proper antenatal group yet, but one for ttc after mc grads would be nice. Don't want to leave this thread though.

Girls let me just say this- I had worse pains with dd in early pregnancy (in fact one at 5 weeks had me on the floor- no bleeding) than I ever did with my eptopic.. I know it's utterly scary and I know I'll be just as bad (as my little episode earlier over cm proved) but I hope this little anecdote helps a bit.

I'm happy for you guys to be on this thread but won't be offended if you start a new one... hopefully I'll join you myself soon enough.

Wow, have not managed to catch up for a few days and have missed all these bfps, massive congratulations and hugs to you all.

Af got me again yesterday, really sore and sick. It has knocked me for six this month as it is a year on Friday since first mc. I am so teary and emotional.

I have a question for you wise ladies. Here is my stats, mc one March 2014, mc two sept 2014. Various blood tests and saw consultant November and December, nothing abnormal, not that they expected there to be.
Now, should I go back to see gp now re fertility in general? This is nearly two years of ttc come April. Or, should I assume that there is a pattern and wait to see what happens this month seeing as I seem to take six months to fall. I feel really lost and confused. Cycle regular, bloods fine. Any suggestions?

Honestly, so chuffed for you ladies with bfp. Sat here smiling and that's a rarity this week believe me!!! Yeah!!

Thanks chasing thats made me feel a whole lot better x

Yeah good idea, let me know where to find the thread! I will be sticking here too though its like my MN home

queen I'd start reaching out to your gp and get the ball rolling. It doesn't mean you have to stop trying.. but sometimes getting help from them can be slow going.

I'm gutted to hear AF got you and you are so low

Emotionally I've been on a roller coaster this cycle. Convinced it's happened one minute and quietly confident and relaxed. . The next minute gripped with an unshakeable feeling of despondency and uncertainty. . And then today the sign of golden cm had me physically shaking. Had to get in the bath with dd to calm down.

Sometimes I find bfp's hard but actually, I find bfp's on this thread so encouraging and exciting. Xx

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/pregnancy/2323413-The-best-shit-place-to-be-grads-Early-pregnancy-after-miscarriage-hopes-and-fears

Hope this link works. Im not very technically minded! Its in talk, pregnancy.

Aww thank you allthequeenshorses and so sorry AF got you :( i would go to the GP to get the ball rolling. Hope you get tour sticky bean that you deserve very soon

Ok, Amy and chasing, I will do that. Thank you.

Chasing, I have been exactly the same this month. I think it was because I kept going this time last year, in my head. In all honesty we didn't get a very good month as dh flat out busy and not seen much of him, but I remained hopeful. What's with af emerging in the middle of the night as well!!! Not a nice way to wake up. Trying to be positive but it's hard.

Totally understand the bfp thing, I am genuinely so pleased for all the ones on here, but struggle in day to day life. You ladies are all wonderful.

I'm even secretly pleased there a new thread because like you Amy, this is like my home and I would panic as to where to go next and where everyone had gone!! Honking of you all. X

Honking?? Lol. Thinking. My autocorrect is hilarious today. Also failed to highlight any names. Sigh.

So sorry allthequeens. I would definitely see the doctor. Sorry if you've already said but how old are you, if you don't mind my asking?

Hey Msjupiter, how are you? I'm 32. No dc at all.

Hey Msjupiter, how are you? I'm 32, no dc.

I'm not too bad thanks guy still bleeding a small amount after D and C last Tuesday so no idea how to track my cycle this month, any ideas? Because my mc started on 21st December I just don't feel like I am in my wtc cycle, if that makes sense?

chasing I'm waiting with bated breath :-)

heaven hope you're ok xx

have you had bfn yet epskie? Are you going to ttc next cycle?
Chasing I'm impatiently awaiting your test day too. Fingers and flaps crossed.

Allthequeens - I would speak to your doctor. Even though nothing obvious has turned up, it's worth seeing them to voice your concerns and seek more advice.