TTC after mc #4

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Thanks bristolian sorry for the rant haha i just felt like my head was going to explode!! And im sorry but i am the worst at poas! Total addict! I would have tested a million times over currently am by 12dpo so well done you! I guess the only advice i can give is keep yourself busy so your mind is on other things

Aww thanks teenie i was super closem but its such a small office it would come back to bite me on the bum ao i have to hold my tongue. Im lookong for another job though so hopefully will get to leave here soon enough. Ahh gosh hope youre ok, let us know how you get on at the drs!

Wow my typing is atrocious today hope you made sense of that!

Amyy what cowbags. I hope you're holding up ok. Not long till home time x

People just don't think.
But then I'm a hypocrite because I really don't want people to censor themselves in front of me. But I do feel silently furious when people say insensitive things!

Though when I think back to all the times I've said "babies soon/next then!" Or "time for another then! " prior to all this.

Well that was the reason i never told her i knew she was pregnant because i never really thought before mc, however, when she tol me about being pg i made a point of saying it was upsetting for me to hear baby talk after what had happened and she was like 'oh yeah totally understand must have been hard for you' and then never fucking stopped the baby talk, in fact its only got worse. Gah.

Thanks everyone!

I caved and POAS. Or in a cup. Only went and dropped the cup down the loo (smashing it in the process!). Then when finally tested BFN. Not sure whether to laugh or cry . Ha!

Ah Bristolian sorry for the BFN :( and that damn cup! lol.

I've tested this morning at 10dpo... and there was an extremely faint line.. like only visible in a certain light, but my OH saw it too so I'm not going baby crazy! well maybe a bit . I'm not excited yet though... I was reading about the tests I use last night (I think they are called one step - 10miu internet cheapies) and a lot of people were saying not to trust them :( and that superdrug ones were better.. which I have 2 of at home.. so will test again in the morning with a superdrug one.. fx!

Amyy you have my massive sympathy. I had a dreadful time at work after my mc so I know how it feels.

I'm in a state of even more confusion today. Still no more AF so I did another pg test and I think there's a very faint line. It could be an evap line or...

But if it is a BFP then it would look like I had very late implantation. This is how the dates look:

CD19 - dtd
CD21 - dtd
CD24 - dtd
CD27 - dtd
CD39 - short bleed
CD41 - faint positive

So if it is a BFP, the best case scenario is that I actually ovd on CD27 or 28 meaning the implantation was 10-12 DPO. Any longer would have a strong chance of mc according to Dr Google

Oh crossed posts Amyy that's exciting! I have always used those IC tests and they have been reliable for me (although I am going to buy a FR today to use tomorrow I think). fingers crossed for you x

Ooh this is very exciting Amy and Mrs J... Very exciting indeed. I'm 10dpo but not testing yet! Too scared.

Ooo msjupiter exciting!! I hope this is tour bfp! Let us know how you get on! Fx for you too

guy i would hold off as long as you can! Well done for not testing, i am a total poas addict and its not good!

Guy I'll keep my fingers xed for you too... Are you going to wait till 14DPO?

I thought I ov'd on CD20 which is why I'm not getting too excited... If it took 19 days to implant that's not a good sign. All I can do is wait and see I guess.

Which kind of tests are you all using out of interest?

Ah MsJupiter hopefully your dates were wrong! Do you chart?

I'm gunna use superdrugs own tomorrow. I read that FRERs can show very early but can also show evap lines more than others and that's put me off!

amyyy & mrsJ whispered congrats.

fx amy and Mrsjupiter.

I'm 10dpo but won't test until AF is late - because I hate, hate, hate bfns and because when I got my bfp I didn't get a positive until 15/16dpo. Having said that I'm 99% sure AF will be here later this week - I can feel it!

Thanks greedy and genni :) I wish I could have waited but I literally have no self control, especially this month when I feel we couldn't have done any more than we did! I think I have made myself immune to BFNs thanks to all the bloody testing I do! But I totally understand, it was really hard our first month of trying after mc to see BFNs, totally sucked! I really hope AF isn't on its way for you!

Ohh lots of bfp's on the horizon!

I have 2 frers and 2 digis. I can't wait to waste them. .

chasing I hope they aren't wasted my love

Hi ladies, I've been away for a while and looks like lots of congrats in order!

I'm away visiting my parents, and must have ovulated last week, but DP is not with me, so as I already knew we're out this month already. AF should be due next week if my cycles are back to normal.

Ipad is very slow for some reason when I type stuff so will post later.

Sorry, congrats MsJ I'd married you off there

Hi Carrot sorry you're out this month :( although sperm can survive up to 5 days before ov... still no chance?

Oh I just went and bought some FRERs - I didn't know that about the evap lines. I have just been using internet cheapies - they have been very accurate in both my pregnancies although this batch seems more flimsy than usual, hence buying the FRs. I really hope we all get BFPs and sticky beans. I have everything crossed