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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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Treaclepie19 · 20/10/2014 20:36

Cheesy title I know.
All aboard for the final stretch! :)

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Cariad2014 · 22/10/2014 14:32

Enormous hugs Chandlers. Your positivity has been an inspiration since I embarked on my bus journeys, and as Lucie rightly said, you will be much missed.

It sounds as though you're making the right decision for you though. Enjoy the rest of your SE Asian adventures without the stress of endless hospital appointments and please do pop in from time to time to keep us updated. I have thoroughly enjoyed your tales of spa retreats and upside down yoga!

P.s. Loving the dog idea - DH is currently obsessed at the prospect of getting a dachshund.

xBlueberry88x · 22/10/2014 14:34

So sorry to see so many BFN's this morning hopefully its just to early.

Flower congrats!!

Chandlers I responded to your post on the November bus we will miss you!!

gennibugs · 22/10/2014 14:57

Yes lucie we will in January if no luck. With my low amh I can't risk waiting much longer. I'm still right at the start in terms of nhs and I've been in the process months. It's an added worry to be honest!

lucieloos · 22/10/2014 15:11

Yes it's really difficult with nhs. I also have low amh. What level is yours if you don't mind me asking? Sounds like we are in a similar situation. I think we are looking to start ivf around march time.

EnglishGirlsReturned · 22/10/2014 15:38

Congratulations Flower! Thank god for your lovely news!!

Chandlers - I'm so sorry you're body isn't playing ball. But sounds like you have a good plan in place! Enjoy your time in Thailand hun.

Treaclepie19 · 22/10/2014 16:11

Sorry to hear that chandlers :(

Congrats flower :)

Well I'm spotting so guess that's another fucking cycle wasted.
I give up :( plus work has been shit and I have to go back for parents evening at 6.

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ohlordyplordy · 22/10/2014 16:23

So sorry for the bfns and af. treacle I was convinced it was your turn.
Congratsflower x

Cariad2014 · 22/10/2014 16:27

Big hugs Treacle. Fx the spotting is just implantation bleeding, similar to what Sunbathing had when she was convinced she was out. But even if it's not, I'm sure you WILL get there soon. Thinking of you. Thanks

Choccywoccydodah · 22/10/2014 16:28

Just to let you all know in 5 weeks today and started spotting this morning brown and pink this afternoon. Don't think I can try again of the worst happens.

spinningirl10 · 22/10/2014 16:29

Oh treacle, that sucks, I'm sorry. Parents eve must be the last thing you feel like doingThanks

spinningirl10 · 22/10/2014 16:30

Oh ffs Choccy, I'm so very sorry. I don't know what to say but I'll be keeping everything crossed that the bleeding eases and little bean is ok in thereThanks

Cariad2014 · 22/10/2014 16:38

How utterly rubbish Choccy. As Spinning says, there really are no words. Keeping everything crossed for you - here's hoping the spotting was caused by your little bean burrowing deeper and that the bleeding eases. Enormous hugs Thanks

MrsExtraOrdinary · 22/10/2014 16:40

Choccy I'm so so sorry! I really thought this was it. Thinking of you Thanks

Choccywoccydodah · 22/10/2014 16:43

Me too :'(
I have a scan already booked for next Thursday which I'll still go to. No use doing anything before as they'll just get me to come back then anyway.

Treaclepie19 · 22/10/2014 16:51

So sorry choccy :( I really hope it's just pregnancy spotting.

Thanks, I hoped it was just implantation spotting bit seems unlikely with a short lp and I've had a fair bit with some red in there too. Only on wiping but more than I'd think was implantation.
The worst thing about parents evening is ill have to sit there knowing that when I leave ill probably have full flow af.

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TerrysNo2 · 22/10/2014 16:54

choccy we are all rooting for this little bean. fx for you.

wanttobeamummyin2015 · 22/10/2014 16:57

Fx choccy hope your bean is ok :(

lindamagoo · 22/10/2014 17:43

choccy fingers crossed it's nothing bad and just one of those early pregnancy nasties, I bled a lot at the start, well actually even now at 28 wks I'm getting it again, it doesn't always mean the worst and I truly hope that's all it is for you Smile

mzzzf · 22/10/2014 18:11

Aaahh ladies so sorry for the BFNs - what a 'mare! Don't let the swimmers get you down. Every bfn is closer to a BFP etc etc. anyway you know the cliches... Chin up ladies, it may just be too early. Really keeping my fingers crossed.

Choccy - keep your head up missus. Thinking of you x

And chandlers - WHHAAATT? You're off?! You'll be sorely missed lady! Really make the most of your time in Thailand. You'll be back pushing prams in rainy London before you know it Grin. LOVING the plan for a dog, they rock! Genuinely hope you get sorted via IVF and good luck x

I may have developed POAS phobia and feel like I should wait until the very last minute to test, or at least when AF is actually due...

EnglishGirlsReturned · 22/10/2014 18:23

what a shit day!!Choccy i'm keeping everything crossed for you that it's just your little bean getting nice and comfy.

I too have a poas phobia Mzzzf! Hate seeing a bfn, would much rather af just arrive!

furtivefeline · 22/10/2014 18:39

I really hope the spotting doesn't progress Choccy. Fx for you, must be so worrying.

Congrats to flowerbomb - hope all goes well for you.

And fx to spinning and everyone else in limbo waiting for AF/BFP

AF not here yet but am looking ahead to next cycle already and have decided to give temping a go as well as starting soy! Always good to have something lined up for next time.

mzzzf · 22/10/2014 19:47

Oh and congrats to Flowerbomb! Yay! Grin

My actual AF is due anytime between 28-31st English at the very least I'm going to hold out until Sunday.

lucieloos · 22/10/2014 19:53

Just had an interesting acupuncture session which I thought i would share incase it helps anyone else.
I showed her some of the temp charts I have done previously. They almost always show good strong ovulation but then always have a big dip around 7/8 dpo before going back up quite high for a couple of days before tailing off again when AF is due. She said ideally the temps should stay up during the luteal phase and be quite consistent and so could possibly indicate a drop in progesterone. She wants me to continue temping for my full cycle this time around which I wasn't going to do so she can take a look at it. She also wants me to temp for the whole of the first half of my next cycle which again I never bother doing, would only normally start a few days before ovulation. She said this part of the cycle the temps should again remain quite consistent without too many up and downs.

She has recommended that after af has finished to start using a hot water bottle every night up until ovulation and also doing gentle stomach massaging to stimulate blood flow. She also mentioned progesterone cream which you can buy online although said to wait until next cycle for that as she wants to look at the rest of my temps for this cycle first. I'm not sure I do have a problem with progesterone as when I saw the consultant last week she said that I didn't need the day 21 progesterone test as I would normally be spotting for a few days before AF if I did have low progesterone but I don't think the cream does any harm so I am thinking of giving that a try next month. A little boost can't hurt surely.

She could see I was a bit down in the dumps this week just as it seems like a long journey and absolutely nothing has happened at all for us. Not even a sniff of a pregnancy. Anyway she told me this little thing that she had devised with the letters from the word 'fertility'

F - Food (lots of protein, seeds, nuts in first half of cycle and warming foods in second half)
E - Exercise
R - Relaxation (getting enough sleep and time to chill out)
T - Thoughts ( thinking positive thoughts instead of negative)
I - Imagination (imagining the various stages of cycle as you are going through them so picturing the egg being released, then it being fertilised etc)
L - Laughter (laughter is the best medicine of all. Watching funny films or anything that makes you laugh)
I - Inner Voice (banish that inner voice that tells you negative things. Like my temp has gone down, it's never going to happen)
T - Thank You (Say thank you for all the good things you have and remember them. A lovely house, husband, friends, family etc)
Y - YES ( Yes I will be a mum. Yes it will happen and again picture that)

Hope it's of some use anyway, I thought it was helpful Smile

TerrysNo2 · 22/10/2014 20:02

that's a great post Lucie thanks did sharing Smile

TerrysNo2 · 22/10/2014 20:03

did = for!