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Pregoween is approaching! Time to grow our beans into Pumpkins - all aboard for spooky bfps!

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wanttobeamummyin2015 · 13/10/2014 11:13

New thread! Fx this one brings us all some luck!

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lucieloos · 19/10/2014 10:26

Ohlordy really sorry about the blood but try not to think the worst. As others have said it can be normal to have some blood around the time AF was due. It may be worth taking another test to see what it says.

Treacle and spinning got my fingers crossed for you both, your charts are looking good! Good luck as well frolic,your chart is also looking fab! So exciting Grin

I'm am now on cd14 and no temp shift yet after my positive opk on cd10. I tried another opk this morning and it's almost positive so I may be gearing up for a second surge and will hopefully ovulate then. I will try another opk this evening and hopefully it will confirm. Really hope i do ovulate as we have had a marathon dtd session this month and I don't want all that effort to go to waste! So far we have dtd on cd6, 8, 10, 11, 12 and 13 and will probably do again on 15!

lucieloos · 19/10/2014 10:27

Sorry x post oh Lordy that's great news and must be a bit of a relief.

xBlueberry88x · 19/10/2014 10:53

Morning ladies

Firstly my god I've never had so much ewcm 2 days of it now!! And positive opks now (10.30 am) had cramps for a few days im sure the scan on Tuesday will be to late.

ohlordy please try not to worry hun (id be the same) just try an relax today and see the doc tomorrow but it doesn't sound like a lot of blood so fx for you lovely

spinning I am so damn excited for you...you deserve a bfp but i'll miss you if you go!!

treacle some great symptoms for you to fx!!

mrse how are you feeling?

kitty you little spy we miss you!!

Sorry i cant answer everyone my phone doesn't let me!

Frolicacid · 19/10/2014 10:55

Bfn on a predictor early test. Sad

lucieloos · 19/10/2014 11:06

Sorry frolic how many dpo are you?

Cariad2014 · 19/10/2014 11:10

Hello ladies. Sorry I've been AWOL from this thread for a while.

Spinning and Treacle - Symptoms are sounding really positive. Loving that chart Spinning. Keeping everything crossed for you both - I really hope Pregoween brings you those long awaited BFPs. A flurry of July EDDs on this thread would be fab.

OhLordy - the main symptom with my cp was horrific cramps (much worse than my typical AF ones, even though I consider those to be painful) which started about 4 days beforehand. When the bleeding started, as Purple says, it didn't stop. So I'd try not to worry too much - what you've described sounds a lot more like normal implantation bleeding to me.

Sorry about the BFN Frolic - but remember, you're not out until AF arrives.

MrsExtraOrdinary · 19/10/2014 11:16

Blueberry I'm feeling dreadful. Sad I just don't know how I'm going to get through the next 7 months. History tells me I will. But after 2 weeks dh has run out of sympathy. I spent most of the day in bed yesterday. I've got silly things wrong with me and I knew this wouldn't be easy. Feel free to say I told you so because that's what everyone will be saying in rl. I see the heamatologist tomorrow I'm really hoping they will help. I'm fainting already. Gp thinks my spline might be inflamed as well as my stomach ulcer flare, added to the sickness, cramps and muscle spasms I'm completely shattered and not running on empty. I'm worried I'm this ill already it's only going to get worse as the baby grows. I've barely eaten all week and my stomach has ballooned to 6 month pregnant status. It's not going well at the moment. Mil is on her way! Thrilling!

Treaclepie19 · 19/10/2014 11:17

Thanks ladies. I rreally hope this is it.
Last night i struggled to sleep with a racing heart and breathlessness. Then had vivid dreams. All like with my bfp.
It could however just be my anxiety acting up.
Dozy if it helps I never know af is coming by a temp drop. Af normally arrives the night before my temp drop. I know it's not like that for all ladies though.
ohlordy sorry you've had to go through this. Like the ladies have already said go to the gp on Monday and hopefully they can do bloods and reassure you x

Blueberry the cm sounds good. Is the scan to see if you're ovulating?

Hope you're ok MrsE, it's tomorrow you're at the doctors isn't it?

Treaclepie19 · 19/10/2014 11:18

Sorry, cross post!
MrsE sorry you're feeling so unwell :(
No I told you so's here. You deserve this baby and I think you're so strong going through this for your baby.
Sending big hugs x

Frolicacid · 19/10/2014 11:21

I'm 14-16 dpo lucie. I'm sure that if I was pregnant something would have shown up by now.
Going to try my hardest to forget about it now for a few days as if that's possible and test again if my period is still AWOL mid week.

Nice to see you back cariad - Croeso 'nol! How are things with you?

xBlueberry88x · 19/10/2014 11:24

mrse im so sorry your going through all this dont listen to anyone else id do anything to have a kid and im pretty sure my body wont like it!

frolic sorry for bfn

treacle yes scan is to see if my ovaries are behaving normally it would be done before ovulation to see how many follicles etc but they didnt have an appointment

Foxtrot7459 · 19/10/2014 11:26

Sorry frolic

I'm still in limbo land cd37 8 days late and bfn - not tested today and trying to step away from the sticks for a few days too.

Treaclepie19 · 19/10/2014 11:26

Oh that's rubbish blueberry :( hopefully your ovulation will hold out til then.

MrsExtraOrdinary · 19/10/2014 11:27

That's very gracious treacle! It took a long time to decide to try. I'm having a bit of a wobble because there really is no rl support. Doesn't mean it's impossible but does mean it's hard.

Treaclepie19 · 19/10/2014 11:31

I can imagine. Your number one priority is you and your family. Don't let other people's judgements get to you. As blueberry said. When ttc and in pregnancy, there is such a desperation we can get through anything.
Could you explain to your DH how your feeling? Guessing he already knows but sometimes men just dont think do they.

Frolicacid · 19/10/2014 11:33

That's crap foxtrot. You must be going out if your mind. One day late has been stressful enough for me. Loads of empathy and sympathy coming your way from mine.

MrsExtraOrdinary · 19/10/2014 11:35

We do need to talk but we have all 7dc this weekend so pretty impossible to speak freely as none of them know yet. Unless they've guessed if I could just get those iron injections I think I'd feel like a different person.

Treaclepie19 · 19/10/2014 12:39

Fingers crossed for you then MrsE x
I hope you get some time to talk to DH.

I really am in awe of you. Before ttc I only wanted one baby. Now I would love a big family. Lots of little ones to love and share our life with.
Gosh I'm emotional today :p

Boosk · 19/10/2014 12:42

Sounds really promising for you treacle let's try and wait till Wednesday then Smile Will you join usspinning?

MrsE so sorry you are feeling so awful. You can always say what you need to here, there's plenty of sympathy for everyone. Thanks Thanks I really hope things settle down for you and the mil isn't too much of a pain today.

ohlordy that must have been really scary. I hope it's nothing serious and FX just further implantation bleeding.

Lucie good work on all that dtd. FX you get your peak soon! Smile

blueberry Hurrah for ewcm!

Sorry it was a BFN today frolic FX for you that it turns into a BFP. You're not out yetThanks

foxtrot sorry you're still in limbo. How frustrating!Thanks

Thinking realistically I'm not feeling that confident myself. When I put my sensible head on my 'symptoms' could easily just be pre-af. I have been obsessively checking cm and so far nothing. My only real symptom is the cramps. Anyone else had a BFP but had no cm?

MaGratgarlik1983 · 19/10/2014 12:46

Oh lordy with my CP what happened was we confirmed the pregnancy with a CB digi on the Tuesday but then on the Friday I had light brown bleeding which turned red on the Saturday and stayed that way. Lots of cramping but no worse than usual AF but the 'period' itself was really clotty and stringy (sorry tmi) - I called my GP on the Friday and he just said to wait it out and see how it goes. But for me, once it went red, it stayed red and lots of it. And by the afternoon of the Saturday the hpt was negative. So your situation sounds very different - try not to worry.

Currently now on CD 45 but think I ovulated really late again :(
Found my run harder than usual this morning, really hot, tired, headachy, light headed etc. etc. Really scared to test again though in case it all happens again. Ooh have dry eye and dry lips as well! SYMPTOM (surely??) ;)
I don't know ladies, I want to test, but also just want to wait and see what happens!

spinningirl10 · 19/10/2014 12:50

Frolic and foxtrot sorry for the bfns, hopefully they're just taking longer to show.

Blueberry, what a shame your scan wasn't sooner. Will they still scan you even if you think you've ov'd? Surely they can tell you how things are looking? And thank you for the kind words. After all this time on these buses I'd be keeping a very close eye on you all. I've got so used to going through the same thing month after month I'd be very shocked to get a bfp.

MrsE, I should hope no one says to you I told you so! I really hope the pain eases off for you soon. Once your older dc know will they be able to help out more?

Treaclepie19 · 19/10/2014 13:04

I feel the same Boosk trying to be positive but deep down I think I know it will be a bfn as always.
I don't remember having much or any cm with my bfp Boosk.

Join us with our poas party Spinning!

spinningirl10 · 19/10/2014 13:07

Terry, how was your temp this morning?

Boosk, yes Wednesday sounds good to me, it's a dateGrin

Magrat, will you join us on Wednesday at the poas party?

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flowerbombVR · 19/10/2014 13:44

Ah Frolic sorry it was bfn x give it time. Fx for you.

For everyone.

Mrs E take it as easy as you possibly can Flowers

Oh lordy I hope all is well for you and bean Flowers

Asia sounds so damn good at moment just looking out at that rain Shock I was out at 8.30 at churchyard got caught in it Sad Out to Next with dd for a new bag for college then meeting a friend for a coffee. Brew
Proper clothing and all that eh.

I'm tempted to poas, will maybe join the poas weds Grin if I can wait that long. I should be cd 24, 9dpo!
Tho being wtf cycle I am no where near sure.

I had a horrible dream last night, symptom?

Enjoy easy Sunday ladies.

Oh Mzzzf that link sounds interesting Wink