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Pregoween is approaching! Time to grow our beans into Pumpkins - all aboard for spooky bfps!

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wanttobeamummyin2015 · 13/10/2014 11:13

New thread! Fx this one brings us all some luck!

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spinningirl10 · 19/10/2014 08:07

Thanks Terri, being that it's my first cycle temping i keep thinking it might not be quite right anyway.
This bits so hard isn't it, we want that bfp so much and we're looking out for symptoms but it just makes it that much worse when af arrives, only time will tellGrin

broodylicious · 19/10/2014 08:07

Keeping everything crossed for you treacle! Xxx

spinningirl10 · 19/10/2014 08:14

Nice chart grandhigh, fx for you.

Here's my chart

Pregoween is approaching! Time to grow our beans into Pumpkins - all aboard for spooky bfps!
mzzzf · 19/10/2014 08:15

This web page is quite addictive for the symptom spotters amongst us all of us www.twoweekwait.com/bfpsymptoms/dpo/index.html

It has lots of women detailing what symptoms they actually got during their TWW.

Sounds like a few promising BFPs to come!! Grin

Boosk · 19/10/2014 08:30

treacle I'll be either 9 or 12 dpo by Wednesday. It's only four days away!! How many dpo will you be? Is Wednesday too far?

My boobs are really sore and massive today and I was quite hot in the night again. Both usually signs that Af is on the way. But I still have a dull cramp in my belly so keeping my hopes up. Smile

TheGrandHighWitch · 19/10/2014 08:30

That chart looks awesome spinningirl10. Ahem, professional opinion of course. Hopefully you should be able to test and get a positive in a couple of days.

That site is a new one to me mzzzf. Off to have a good old read now....

Katybear123 · 19/10/2014 08:33

Morning all

Love the travel discussion Mauritius sounds lovely. We've travelled a fair amount in Asia Thailand a good few times, Malaysia, and Maldives. Would love to do more but as u all say very bfp dependant.

Great symptoms spinning, I have all crossed for u.

6dpo here have insomnia and am boiling, also have had the weirdest dreams last 2 nights. I never dream so very odd. However I'm not treating these as symptoms as I have had all but the dreaming before at this stage of my cycle - see dh this is y I record my life on on Ovia app??

Wishing everyone a happy Sunday when dh makes it out of bed we have done gardening that needs doing and need to head to allotment - busy Sunday = less time to ponder

angelaham · 19/10/2014 08:39

Got my fingers crossed for you treacle it all sounds promising,

I don't know much about charts spinning and grandwitch but hoping that it will show a bfp soon

I have been using the clearblue smiley face ovulation kits and finally got a smile yesterday on cd 17, I have had pain down my left side yesterday , we dtd last night , I have done another test today and it's back to just a circle, so I am presuming I am ovulating today, do you think I should dtd again or will last night be enough, we dtd on Tuesday night too by chance and iv looked at Ovia which has now updated my details from the positive ovulation stick and says today is my last day of being fertile

Treaclepie19 · 19/10/2014 09:15

Aww thank you ladies. You're all so lovely!

spinning your chart looks amazing. That definitely looks like an implantation dip!

Boosk ill be 10 or 12dpo by Wednesday, I'm unsure when to expect af I used to get it at 10dpo but recently it's been at 12dpo.
Not sure when to test really. Obviously want to do it now now now.

Your charts looking brill grandhigh! :)

I've found out that on ff I can compare my temps with the cycle I got pregnant. Looks very similar!

ChandlersFarang · 19/10/2014 09:19

Spinning you are sooooooooooo getting a BFP soon! GrinGrinGrin

Anyone thinking of a south east Asia trip can be bored to death by me about it if they fancy - I love playing tour guide! We have been all over the place here now - all thanks to my still-vacant womb! Hahaha. GrinGrin

mzzzf sorry I dropped out of our Halloween BFP arrangement so unceremoniously!!! Could you be a darling and whip us both up a pair of blastocyst pumpkins by the end of the month thankyouplease? I'll owe you one. Grin

Dozygirl · 19/10/2014 09:19

No harm in dtd a few more times angela. The more the better I think.

I've got all my fingers and toes crossed for treacle and spinning. I don't know much about temping but what I've seen it all looks promising. I know what u mean though about not trying to get your hopes up. I think that's why I decided not to temp this month because I wanted to try and be stress free in the 2ww (not gonna happen) and I'd be disappointed seeing my temp drop I think. But I might start trying it next time

ohlordyplordy · 19/10/2014 09:38

Morning.
Do any of you ladies who have had a chemical pregnancy mind sharing your experiences?
I woke in the night needing to pee and when I wipe had fresh red blood cue me curled in a ball on bathroom floor sobbing. I used a sanitary towel but this morning it's clean, when I wipe tissue is clean, but dark blood residue inside.
I'm now 12 , I had my bfp 9 dpo.
If I've had a cp, when would it show as a bfn?

spinningirl10 · 19/10/2014 09:41

Ooh treacle your chart sounds good, keeping fx for youGrin

Chandler, haha don't encourage meWink if I do get a bfp the law of sod will definitely be at play. We have Glastonbury tickets and dp says we can't go if I'm heavily pregnant.

MrsExtraOrdinary · 19/10/2014 09:45

Ohlordy, what a shock. In my experience more af type blood would follow if it was a Chem. I think you you should probably do another test and see what the result is. Then straight to the gp Monday. They can do blood tests to see whether your hormone levels are rising,

Thepurplegiraffe · 19/10/2014 09:49

Hi all. Keeping my fingers crossed for you Treacle and Spinning, both sound very positive!

Chandler I keep meaning to tell you my sister lived in Thailand for 4 years and loved it. She also had her first baby out there and the medical care was great! Before that we travelled with her round Thailand, Laos, Vietnam and Cambodia (as part of a 2 year longer trip for me and DH) and loved it.

spinningirl10 · 19/10/2014 09:52

Oh Lordy, sorry I must have xpost with you.
I second what MrsE said, I would see a doc on Monday. When I had my early mc they did a blood test for me which confirmed the next morning I had miscarried.
Try not to worry, lots of ladies bleed early pregnancy especially if it's the time af is due. Was the blood only there when wiping?

Thepurplegiraffe · 19/10/2014 09:54

Ohlordy cross post. So sorry to read that. I lost mine at 5 weeks, had a bit of blood on Friday, starting bleeding properly on the Saturday and went to EPU on the Monday. They did a urine test and bloods and it was negative by then. It was worth going to confirm though and get it recorded. From what I hear though a little bit of bleeding does not necessarily mean mc.

spinningirl10 · 19/10/2014 09:54

Also I meant to say that I think the test will show negative the earlier the loss. Mine was at 5+6 and once the bleeding started it continued like af only heavier.

EnglishGirlsReturned · 19/10/2014 09:58

Morning!!

Charts are looking good Treacle and Spinning!! Hope your BFPs are just round the corner!!
I'm officially 3dpo today! Will read back now!

TheGrandHighWitch · 19/10/2014 09:58

ohlordyplordy so sorry you had that and in the middle of the night too Sad . I think though that it probably isn't a cp but more like General bleeding in pregnancy. I had it with dc1 (usually after std) and at one point the pregnancy was suspected ectopic. I think in general bleeding is nothing to worry about too much as long as there is no pain as well. fx for you anyway.

TheGrandHighWitch · 19/10/2014 10:02

FFS. Not sure why my phone capitalised 'general' and std = dtd.

KittyVonCatsington · 19/10/2014 10:03

lordy It is horrific seeing red blood spots after a BFP BUT you would expect implantation spotting to continue if the bean is burrowing further-you don't just get it at the point when the bean implants and it can be red, not just brown that you might read about. You might even expect a bit of AF cramping over the next weeek or so and that would be normal too. (but still frightening)

You will just have to wait and see as BFPs could still show positive for a while after a loss (although it certainly doesn't sound like my chemical was) Keep an eye out for shed loads of blood and doubling-over pains that mean you struggle to move. Otherwise, welcome to the first trimester!

Frolicacid · 19/10/2014 10:06

It all sounds very positive for you spinning and treacle. Fx for spooky pregoween bfp's for you both next week.

I'm officially on day late in my period. Bfn on a ic this morning. Temp still reasonably high. Will attach my chart. Sending DH out to the shop now for a frer. I have a tub of fmu waiting! This is so frustrating!

Thanks for the travel advice. I will definitely be picking your brains chandlers if we can go.

I hope it will all be ok for you ohlordy Thanks

Pregoween is approaching! Time to grow our beans into Pumpkins - all aboard for spooky bfps!
ohlordyplordy · 19/10/2014 10:22

Thank you ladies, that's a comfort to know that there is still a chance that everything is ok.
Yeah, the blood was just on wiping, nothing in my knickers or on pad.
It's just weak brown now when I wipe, like at the very end of af.
I've done an ic, very weak line (which is all I've had with them anyway), and still bfp on cb digi. I don't have any frer left.

Thepurplegiraffe · 19/10/2014 10:26

Sounds positive Ohlordy. Once mine went red it stayed that way!

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