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April TTC girls onwards to July! BFP's galore!

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Cupcake92 · 26/06/2014 10:59

Following in from our previous thread!
Hopefully this thread is as successful as our last with a big BFP bonanza!

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Cupcake92 · 23/07/2014 21:14

Haha yep Ducky!! He said he's got mega supa sperm! Haha!

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LuluJakey1 · 23/07/2014 22:39

Cupcake - just so happy for you and glad DH was so excited. Bet you can't stop thinking about it. Congratulations.

I put a pair of jeans on today and they would not fasten! DH was very entertained by me trying to hoike up the zip lying on the bed. When I got it fastened I could not get up- ridiculous. Went for wrapover dress instead- comfort.

looking4rainbow · 23/07/2014 22:42

So happy for you cupcake. Congratulations Smile don't post alot but always keeping an eye on bfp x

LuluJakey1 · 23/07/2014 22:43

And you and Ducky are right about men - somehow they think you getting pregnant is down to their virility and supersperm. DH was telling me it depends how powerfully they ejaculate like it was a hosepipe on full power or something rather than a dripping tap Wink

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Cupcake92 · 23/07/2014 22:46

Well a good evening turned out to be a horrible one.
Me and DH have just had an argument. All over a packet of crisps!!!! Apparently I lied to him saying I never ate them all.
How stupid. N then he said he doesn't want the baby and that I'm a horrible bitch that's lazy n only having another baby so I don't have to work!!!!! That's so not true! I'd love to go back full time to work. Why does he have to be so horrible to me on what's meant to be a happy day?? :'(
I threw the test at him and it hit him and he pushed me put the lounge n tried to slam the door.
Now he said he's leaving me.

I don't get this???!!

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LuluJakey1 · 23/07/2014 23:04

Oh Cupcake! How has that happened! He doesn't mean it- it is a silly row but he shouldn't be so horrible. Those are horrible things to say. He should apologise. Don't put up with it!

Is he worrying about money or something, how you will manage?

LuluJakey1 · 23/07/2014 23:04

Are you OK Cupcake?

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Cupcake92 · 24/07/2014 04:18

God knows why he's being like that lulu. We've waited 4 months to get pg and each month it's not happened he's been really upset. My DH is a strange person. He doesn't handle emotions well.
We'll see how he is when he gets up.
I'm okay tho thanks lulu. I'm still overly excited about being pg!!

Also I know many of u got early morning insomnia. I think I've deffo got that. I wake up far too early n I'm wide awake! :(

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iamdivergent · 24/07/2014 06:37

((Cupcake)) Sad

Ducky23 · 24/07/2014 06:46

wtf cupcake!!! What a knob!!! How dare he!
He probably said that about work because he's bloody lazy as is jealous you will have time off AngryAngryAngry my DH is a bit like that

How is he today?

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Cupcake92 · 24/07/2014 07:48

How is he today? Asleep. Lol
He's not at work till 2 so will be in bed most this morning.
Men are such asses sometimes !

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steph1204 · 24/07/2014 08:06

Hi ladies!

Don't worry too much Cupcake, I'm sure DH will be in a better mood after a good night of sleep :)

I don't know how many girls from the April Thread got their bfp, but I know it's a high number (probably higher than the average) and I can't wait for the rest of you ladies to get a bfp!!
Even if we - the pregnant ladies - talk a lot about our pregnancies, I always cross my fingers when one of you should poas or is waiting for AF (not) to come! A wish you all a end-of-July-or-beginning-of-August BFP Bonanza!! One of you (at least!!) has to get pregnant next month :) :) :)!

FX for everyone!

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Cupcake92 · 24/07/2014 08:51

Hi steph!!
I know what u mean. I always get so excited when one of us gets a bfp! N then when I got mine it made me even more excited as I didn't expect it, I just expect everyone else to get one! Lol! Really hope everyone does get their bfps tho :)

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LuluJakey1 · 24/07/2014 09:21

Cupcake- Glad you are alright but pushing you is not alright. He should grovel today and be ashamed. Hope he does. Some men are such prats sometimes.

Speaking of which, I have just gone downstairs to find DH 'cleaning' the kitchen and looking very pleased with himself. My 3 potted herbs on the windowsill have disappeared. Apparently, he thought they looked 'dodgy' and has put them in the bin! Is he Alan Titchmarsh? There was nothing wrong with them. I have been feeding them and cultivating them. I went out to the compost bin but he had taken them out of the pots, shredded them and mixed them in. Honestly!

Enjoy the excitement of being pregnant- you are much tougher than me. I was just scared for about a week once the shock wore off!

Have a great day.

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Cupcake92 · 24/07/2014 10:20

Oh no lulu! Potted herbs are a good idea, can come in handy :) at least he is attempting to clean! I've just cleaned up the house this morning and DS has been making a mess as I've been cleaning hahaa bless him.

Well DH had sent a text to my mom being very disrespectful saying to her that he "bets she thinks he's a bad dad but he couldn't care less what she would think" how dare he be like that with my mom! Only thing my mom has said was , it'll be different this time as (me) would be doing most of the work with the children as he works now. And from that he got that he was a bad dad. No idea how! But he has no right to disrespect my mom. She is a wonderful lovely woman!

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Ducky23 · 24/07/2014 10:32

Omgggg cupcake AngryAngryAngry why is he being such a dick!!! Hope he apologises!!

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Cupcake92 · 24/07/2014 10:54

He's always a dick Ducky lol!
I'm getting really bad cramps :( it's worrying me. Feels like ba AF cramps. :( :(

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LuluJakey1 · 24/07/2014 15:11

Cupcake - what on earth is the matter with him? Is he a good dad or does he know he isn't, so is sensitive to anything he thinks might confirm someone else thinks he isn't.

Are you OK? Have the cramps stopped?

I have been out with a friend and have come back feeling a bit grotty with a stomach ache- I think it is digestive rather than pregnancy. Am having a lie down. DH has gone to play tennis.

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Cupcake92 · 24/07/2014 15:21

He always thinks people will think he's a bad dad. He doesn't believe in himself.
He's at work now, DS is in bed, cleaning is all done :) and I'm contemplating on whether I should have the leftover pizza hmm....

Yes lulu the cramps have stopped now. Felt just like AF cramps, got me a little bit worried! I took another test just in case. Still pg!! Lol! :p
I have work tomorrow and would love to tell all my old people but I'm going to keep hush till my scan. They'll love looking at the scan picture :)

Hope ur alright lulu n belly ache has gone.
Hope everybody is having a lovely day :)

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Siarie · 24/07/2014 15:38

I was sneaking in here to read your great story cupcake of how you surprised your DH only to find that he has been a massive twat. I don't know how you ladies deal with that sort of guy, if me and my DH don't agree we talk about it and come to a compromise.

You need a nice calm, stressless time right now so he needs to man up and stop being a jerk. It sounds like you are used to it and used to how he is so I'm sure he will be nice again shortly. It's a good thing there are ladies out there who are happy to deal with that kind of crap otherwise these men would not have any partners!

Ducky23 · 24/07/2014 16:19

Hope your feeling better lulu

And cupcake, did your DH say anything about what happened? I think the AF type cramp is completely normal, I had them up until around 8 ish weeks I think

LuluJakey1 · 24/07/2014 16:48

I am ok just a bit of an upset stomach. Thank you.
Cupcake I am really pissed off with your DH and I don't even know him. How old is he?
He needs to learn how to deal with emotions without being horrible to you. Just not fair.

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Cupcake92 · 24/07/2014 18:01

DH never said anything at all before he went work. He text me on his break saying sorry and that he can't wait for another little peanut.
But he shouldn't have acted like that at all towards me or my mom.

Lulu he's going to be 21 on Monday. Young I know!! His immaturity reminds me of how young he is each day!
I need an older man I rele do. Lol

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LuluJakey1 · 24/07/2014 19:24

It is young Cupcake and hopefully as he grows up he'll handle emotions better.

Mind you, I have one here who is 35 and having a little huff after a few words where we have disagreed about something really annoying he does all the time which he denies outright he does at all. I and his sister both clearly just make this up and of course he will be right Huff on DH Grin

LuluJakey1 · 24/07/2014 19:28

That makes me feel so old Cupcake. He is just 20. When I was 20, I wasn't very grown up and didn't handle lots of things well.

Will he apologise to your mum too?

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