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When's the best time to get pregnant? Use our interactive ovulation calculator to work out when you're most fertile and most likely to conceive.

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April TTC girls onwards to July! BFP's galore!

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Cupcake92 · 26/06/2014 10:59

Following in from our previous thread!
Hopefully this thread is as successful as our last with a big BFP bonanza!

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Cupcake92 · 07/07/2014 21:58

How exciting Bears!!!! :D bet u can't wait!!!
Day after my DS's 1st bday :)

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Ducky23 · 07/07/2014 23:15

I left DH today Blush packed my bags and everything.

Have returned back now as was so tierd and wanted my bed. What a wuss. Will see how things go tomorrow

LuluJakey1 · 07/07/2014 23:45

Ducky! Where did you go? What did he say when you left? And came back? Are you ok? Thanks

lillamyy1 · 08/07/2014 00:30

Oh my god ducky! How did he react? Are you ok? If you want to leave again is there anyone you can stay with? Please keep us posted Thanks Thanks Thanks
Thinking of you Thanks

Bearsinmotion · 08/07/2014 05:37

Hope you're ok Ducky?!

ToriB34 · 08/07/2014 06:28

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Ducky23 · 08/07/2014 06:45

I'm ok, it was all a bit wierd. I aid we need to talk about how it's been recently and he flipped. I packed my bags and even as I was leaving he was shouting at me.

When I came back, we didn't speak. He was drinking and I just went to bed Hmm

kitkatkaty87 · 08/07/2014 07:40

Sorry to hear that ducky. That's stress that you don't want at the moment. Can you try and sit down and have a heart to heart with him about everything? I hope it gets sorted out.
I have taken a day off sick today again. I feel bad taking another sick day but I just can't struggle through another day and I am puking more now. Just need to bein bed until lunchtime I think.

Ducky23 · 08/07/2014 07:51

He's not a good talker kitkat and I tried last night but he just shouted at me. Bit if it doesn't sort out right now I'm finding somewhere else to live.

Hope you feel better soon, did the gp give you anything for the sickness? Smile

lillamyy1 · 08/07/2014 08:07

Oh ducky I really feel for you. This is the last thing you need after everything else you've been through this year Thanks
What a horrible situation for you. Can you go and stay with your parents or a friend? I think you should remov yourself from the situation for a while, maybe give him tone to realise he's being a dick.

Got a bfn this morning. What's going on??!!

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Cupcake92 · 08/07/2014 08:07

Oh Ducky :( i really hope ur okay. Ur brave to leave and if u do leave don't see it as a bad thing, see it as u making a peaceful home for u and baby.
For personal reason I know it's not nice for a child to see their parents argue, sometimes things are for the best.
Know that ur not alone tho, and don't ever feel lonely! Make sure u have someone to talk to. And u can always chat to all of us girls! :) we will always listen! Thanks

And Kitkat so sorry ur feeling awful still :( that's one thing I don't look forward to once getting a bfp!! I really hope I feel better soon Thanks

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poppet85 · 08/07/2014 08:10

ducky what a awful situation . My dh isnt very good at talking either he gets very defensive .Hopefully a bit of time and space will help though .Sounds like drink is to blame

lillamyy1 · 08/07/2014 09:13

Just been trying to find out if it's possible to have a blood test to find out if I'm pg. the only place I could fine that would do it is a private clinic that costs £85!
Been reading some forums where women had really late AF like me and had pg symptoms but turned out to be early mc - really worried now and just want to know what's going on!!!!! Sad

poppet85 · 08/07/2014 09:19

lilla what about your gp would they not ?given your concerns and dont google !!

lillamyy1 · 08/07/2014 09:36

No when I saw my gp last week she said it was too early. Now I'm in Derbyshire staying at my mum's. Got an appointment with local doc at 4 today re mental health issues so maybe they'll give me one.
In the meantime I'm going to get a superdrug test and maybe an fr! Cb one i did today and yesterday was 25mlu so maybe not sensitive enough??

lillamyy1 · 08/07/2014 09:50

Kitkat sorry you're so ill. I heard it helps to try to eat something before you even try to get out of bed first thing. Really hope it goes away soon Thanks

poppet85 · 08/07/2014 11:45

Hope the dr is helpful today for both reasons !!

kitkatkaty87 · 08/07/2014 12:35

Thanks guys. I haven't been to the doctor about the sickness ducky as I'm really wary of being given any medication to take for some reason.
although if it goes on like this I will need to be signed off work for a week or something as i don't get paid for just a normal sick day but I would be useless at work just feel like I need a bowl by me incase I throw up.
Maybe I should go to the doctors?
I just always think about the whole thalidomide thing :s

poppet85 · 08/07/2014 14:54

Oh kitkat I feel for you I am in the same position if I gosick I dont get paid . Luckily I havent actually been sick but this week I have felt quite ill and dizzy . I've decided if I am ill I am not going to work ,for the next 7 months its about me and baby ! I am sure anything the dr gives will be ok but I know what you mean I havent taken anything since finding out not even a coffee !!

kitkatkaty87 · 08/07/2014 15:02

Makes me feel better to know I'm not alone poppet. That's what I keep thinking I have to look after us.
Dh wants me to go to the doctor. So I think I will book one if it hasn't improved by the end of the week.
i hope you don't get to the puking stage poppet, it just makes everything seem awkward as I'm worried I'm going to be sick!

ToriB34 · 08/07/2014 15:03

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poppet85 · 08/07/2014 15:19

tori we've only just started dtd again !! Like you its more that I am constantly worrying or knackered or feeling sick . Its been a bit mind over matter the last
Few times !!

lillamyy1 · 08/07/2014 15:58

Tori, your dh needs to be more understanding! Men haven't got a bloody clue what we women have to go through and how we feel! Grrr!
Kitkat you should def go to the doc - even if they can't give you anything for the sickness at least you can get a letter for work which will hopefully be like getting one worry off your chest. Poppet, you make a good point - having a happy and stress free pregnancy is mlthe most important thing.

I'm just in the doctor's waiting room - got here early so have 15 mins to wait. Before I came here I went to superdrug to get their tests and did one in the loo in costa. Another bfn! But I'm convinced I'm pg - I feel like my body is made of lead and I could sleep all day. It's just the same as last time.
I know it sounds unfair but I really hope this doc understands - he not my doc or at my usual surgery because I'm saying at my mum's so he won't have my notes. I'll need to explain really clearly what's going on and I'm worried he won't get the whole picture cause my head is all over the place!

lillamyy1 · 08/07/2014 16:00

We're a miserable lot this week aren't we?!!

Ducky23 · 08/07/2014 16:26

I was the same kitkat, my new dr gave me some meds recently for travel sickness, he assured me they're 100% safe but I haven't taken them.

And about DTD! My DH will be lucky if he sees any action from me ever again! Will see how he is when I get home
Hmm

Lil how frustrating. Really hope they listen to you! Surely it is early enough! And tey should do it for your own sanity!