April TTC girls onwards to July! BFP's galore!

[Cupcake92]

Following in from our previous thread!
Hopefully this thread is as successful as our last with a big BFP bonanza!

Have just been to loo and there was some more. Same stuff.
Rang hospital who said not to worry.
Shit, shit, shit!

The Dr this afternoon said the uterus has a hugely increased blood supply during this stage of pregnancy and tiny blood vessels can burst because of the pressure on them and it is really common.

But now I am panicking again.

Lulu I'm sure they know what they're talking about it seems like it's common in pregnancy but still super worrying non the less.

I'm a bit fed up ATM feel like DH doesn't even like me anymore.

fx all ok lulu. They put you through it xx

You're right Ducky super-worrying. I thought I had pains as well but it turned out to be wind!

Why do you think DH doesn't even like you? I'm sure he does! What's he doing? Or not?

DH hasn't rang or texted- my fault. I spoke to MIL yesterday and she said she would tell him to give me a bit of space this weekend.

Ahh lulu maybe give him a text?

He just has hardly spoke to me for the past two days, and he tried to blackmail me into going mil tomorrow even Though I have plans and he knew I have had plans for the past few weeks. He decides to drop mil visit on me about n hour ago and then has gone in a massive strop with me for saying no. The only reason he wants me to go is cus he doesn't want to go himself!

Hope everyone is having a good weekend

Bit like the way I have gone on with DH!

Your DH always gets ratty about visits to his mother doesn't he? I remember he had a right huff last time, went by himself and came back in a really good mood with your favourite sweets. Do you think it is that again that has had him being moody?

I don't know lulu but if I'm being completely honest if he continues with his current behaviour we won't be together much longer

Oh Ducky! Is it that bad? Does he know how much he is upsetting you with his behaviour?

Tbh lulu I don't think he cares.

He does have a lot on at the moment but so do I, and I am always asking about how he is doing and he never asks me.

I'm tierd all the time and I have to do all the housework while he sits and watches movies and then moans at me for wanting to go to bed.

Today he has just flipped at me for anythig, I had to put the hot water on to mop the floor and he comes in and starts going why the hell is this on blah blah blah and went mad at me, even though he doesn't pay/put towards any of the bills

Sorry for ranting but am feeling a bit fed up

And then there's his excessive drinking

But on a happier note.... I think I woke up feeling some small movements last night when I was waking up for my 5th wee!!

Omg Ducky.... Is ur DH my DH???
That sounds exactly like mine!!!!
I do everything in the house whilst he sits there on his arse watching tv! And then shouts at me that DS is breaking something but won't actually go sort him out himself. I have to stop what I'm doing to come back into the lounge to sort him.
N DH moans if his clothes aren't washed "on time"

Ducky I honestly think I've found my DH's twin lol !!

N lulu I'm so sorry about ur worrying day really hope u feel okay soon.

Omg omg omg cupcake!!! I get the clothes washed on time thing too!!! But he can't manage to put his dirtys in the washing basket! I have to hunt them out!!!

Our dh's should marry each other

I do think you two have DHs who must share some DNA somewhere back along the line! They seem linked. That is mean of him Ducky. I bought a steam cleaner a while ago and it does the floors amazingly well. No need for hot water or cleaning products. No effort either and they dry really quickly- in a minute.

That's lovely about feeling movements. What does it feel like. I can't wait to feel Smudge move- although at the minute that seems like it might never happen.

Have come up to bed.

DH has texted to say , 'Love you Lu. Mum said to give you a break from me today. Miss talking to you. Miss you. Hope you have had a good day.'

I feel better. I just texted back. 'Love you too. Sorry for being such a witch. Really wish you were here.'

I can't tell him by text and I don't want to spoil this with his dad, they have been looking forward to it for ages.

It seems to have stopped again.

lulu must be scary but from what I ve read it seems quite common ,horrible to worry by yourself though xx
ducky sounds like hes a pain in the arse ! Would drive me insane if he wasnt even contributing towards bills or helping round the house . For a few short months we relied on my income and its a lot of pressure to be under .Sounds like you need a good rest . Yay for feeling movements !!! That must be amazing !!

I am a worrier poppet and always think the worst will happen if it is me but can be really rational with other people. It is worse being by myself tonight. I am scared the bleeding really gets bad and I am by myself. I am starting to get tired so will try to sleep soon.

Ducky Why does he not contribute to the bills? Does he pay the rent/mortgage?

Aw lulu I do feel for u having to worry by urself. :(
I hope u managed to get a nice rest and sleep.

And Ducky my DH chucks his clothes by the side of the bed or in the bathroom!!! It rele irritates me! And he always fails to scrape his plate and put it in the dishwasher. He leaves it on the side. I really hate that!!
I love the moment when u first fell them move! Like a little tickle inside ur belly! Hehe :)

Thanks guys

Hope your feign better lulu.

The movements were little flutters the other night, I want them to get regular now!

He doesn't contribute as when we moved in together he didn't have a job it was just me so I paid everything and he just stayed in bed all day when I was at work. He always said when he gets a job he would contribute but he never has because he says I earn more than him, which I do. But he doesn't try and get as better job all I do is moan lol

Ducky he should still contribute as much as he can.
My DS used to lie in bed all day and do nothing when I went work then when I went on mat leave I begged him to find a job as he was really annoying me just sitting there every day. He now earns the most as I only do 2 days now. But I still end up paying more!!! It angers me so much as I can't afford to pay what I pay. N then my DS misses out on new things as I can't afford to buy them.

DH's suck sometimes :(

Agree he should could contribute something or at the least do housework ! These dh/dp are a pain sometimes !!

Who was on about the Tour de France earlier? Was it u lulu?
Is it in Derbyshire do u know?

Sorry to hear that lulu. I hope it hasn't come back again.How many weeks are you now? Is your dh coming back today?
I'm feeling rough today. Nothing makes the sick go away today.

Well I popped out this morning and finished what I was doing early so I thought id go with him, but come back and he's got up and gone without a text or anything which is very unusual for him

Just hoping he comes back in a better mood like last time!

Cupcake It was me talking about the cyclng. It is Yorkshire not Derbyshire.

I haven't had any more bleeding today but there is just this constant worry in my head which is feels crap.

Kitkat I am 14 weeks and 1 day. MS is awful- not that I had much of it but what I had I felt grotty. It does go though? How many weeks are you?

DH should be home about 8-9 tonight.

I am distracting myself with work and mowing the lawn and having an afternoon sleep later on.

Your bound to worry after that lulu, did you say you had a scan?

Yes Ducky It was fine - placenta, baby- wriggling and heartbeat fine. Nothing more today so far.

DH has just texted to say he is setting off soon - should be home by 8.30. I will be so glad to see him