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April girls TTC, Part 3... BFP?!!! (It rhymes, so it must be true!)

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MrsPopple29 · 21/05/2014 20:44

Here we go again ladies...

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LuluJakey1 · 29/05/2014 00:35

Cupcake Don't test until Friday. If you are not, your body has been deliberately misleading you I think- which is just mean.

Ducky23 · 29/05/2014 07:36

Morning!!! Grin

I don't have any symptoms really... Well apart from constipation ConfusedConfusedConfused lol.

I have been moved to a different site at work so decided instead of paying the ridiculous parking fees I will get the bus. I think the website had the wrong times on though Hmm after a crazy mad rush to get out the house I basically jogged to the bus stop and have been standing here aaaggggeeesss Hmm boo!

Hope everyone has a good day Grin

Cupcake92 · 29/05/2014 07:59

Morning! :)

Haha Ducky that made me laugh! I've so done that before! Buses are so unpredictable they never arrive when they are meant to. Can u believe how much parking costs now it's ridiculous!

Pretty sure AF is about to strike I woke up with bad cramps :/
DS is still asleep I can't believe it! Must be the antibiotics knocking him out bless him.
Hope everyone has a good day

Cupcake92 · 29/05/2014 08:07

Well yep that's AF.
Full wack and extremely heavy.
Don't think I've been this upset in ages :'(
I hate my body wtf is it doing?!
Am I ever going to be able to conceive again? I don't get how it won't happen when DS happened on birth control!
:'(

LuluJakey1 · 29/05/2014 08:11

Morning Everyone.

Am awake. Feeling nauseous. Not looking forward to 2 hr drive.

DH's waking comment following his little musical performance last night. Unattractive huge yawn followed by big stretch.
'Morning love. Well, did you I give you Cowboy dreams?' [chuckles to himself, entertained]
Me 'I feel sick'.

And is it any wonder really? Cowboy f....ing dreams!

Has just asked if I would like 'something bland like a cottage cheese sandwich' for breakfast. Blluuurrgghh!

LuluJakey1 · 29/05/2014 08:16

Aww Cupcake! I hope it's not AF, really do.

It's early days yet. You are young and is this cycle 2? There's no reason why it won't happen.

Keep your chins up (as I say to DH). You are tougher than this. Thanks

When are you moving house?

Ducky23 · 29/05/2014 08:19

Aww so sorry cupcake that sucks Hmm

Your body must be very cruel Hmm

poppet85 · 29/05/2014 08:20

Cupcake what cycle was this for you ? Try not to worry (I know stupid thing to say !) But least you know more about how your body works ready for June ! You will have another baby ! Best thing Ive read on the internet ?" How long does it take to concieve ? Alot longer than you think !!"

MrsPopple29 · 29/05/2014 08:23

Really sorry to hear that cupcake... Thanks I don't think I'll be far behind you, am all crampy too... Cycle 3 will be the one for us, worry not :) Still sucks big time though!

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poppet85 · 29/05/2014 08:25

Ah cycle 2 ?maybe your baby is waiting until you've moved and your happy in your and its new home !!

Cupcake92 · 29/05/2014 08:28

It's deffo AF. Really heavy and now my stomach feels like it's about to fall through haha. I'm in so much pain cramps are hurting so bad now!
It's cycle 2 yes I know it's still early days I've got plenty of time left to go.
I'm moving Friday lulu. Well we get the keys Friday n we have the whole week to move out of the flat. So will be moving things all week.
I just can't believe it didn't happen I had loads of signs! Just like with DS :/ n we dtd at perfectly the right time. I just don't get it :s

LuluJakey1 · 29/05/2014 08:29

Sorry Cupcake x- pst with you.

F...ing AF!
It'll be next time. Third time's a charm as the American's say. Just focus on that and moving house and getting sorted.
Everything is on your side and it will happen.

Really sorry, I could see how excited you were getting. Thanks

Cupcake92 · 29/05/2014 08:31

I know lulu. Oh well it's done now. Nothing I can do about it I'll just get focused on moving and have everything all in its place ready for the next dtd marathon.
I best get my energy up so think I'll just have a pig out day today lol

LuluJakey1 · 29/05/2014 08:36

That's the spirit! Get some chocolate and cake and treat yourself to a couple of drinks tonight.

Just have a lazy day if possible. Are you at work today?

LuluJakey1 · 29/05/2014 08:37

Anyway, I am off to the shower. We should be setting off in an hour.

See you later.

poppet85 · 29/05/2014 08:43

Think I'll be joining you for cycle 4 :-( this hasnt been our month !

poppet85 · 29/05/2014 08:48

Cupcake I cant work it out eithet .We've got friends who have been together forever but sadly their relationship looks very tired .He is a barman out until 5am most nights smokes and drinks a hell of a lot .I know her af is very irregular , noone believes they actually dtd !!turns out shes pregnant !!we cant work it out !!

Cupcake92 · 29/05/2014 09:18

That's crazy poppet!
If it happens next month for us then it's gonna be good but very bad. As baby would be due around my best friends wedding day! And I'm a bridesmaid!! :s can't go into labour on her wedding day!

bradders85 · 29/05/2014 09:43

Morning ladies, sorry to hear af has arrived cupcake and poppet :( Next month will be our month!
I have to say my af is a bit different to usual this month......very very light and only really noticeable when I go to the loo and wipe with tissue - no need for pads! (sorry if tmi). This is now day 3 like this but I am having all the stomach cramps of af - very odd!!!

macmissy · 29/05/2014 10:10

Morning lovely ladies

So sorry that AF has reared her ugly head for you both. I am trying not to get down about it, but I don't think this is our month either. I have been reading about LH surges and then not actually ovulating - so that's got me down too. ARGH! I hate bodies. I hate them I hate them!

On a positive note, I have only 2 days left in the office to go camping in Scotland for a week.. oh wait, positive? Damn you weather!

At least the weather will take my mind off the TWW, I'll know when I come back if it's happened this month. I hate being this age and no children, it's so ruddy hard. Especially when I have a DSS and all of my friends have children. When you hear from everyone all of the time 'you'd make such an amazing Mum' arrrrrrrrgh!

Rant over, I had better get to work!

Sending you all Wine and Cake to hope this makes your day better

x

Cupcake92 · 29/05/2014 10:16

Enjoy ur camping mac!
Ttc is a mad one isn't it haha.

And lulu drive safe!

Bradders are u sure that's AF?

Cupcake92 · 29/05/2014 10:23

I just want to say also, I'm incredibly lucky to have my DS. Sat playing with him this morning just realising how lucky we were to have him. He may be hard work at times and may have made me loose an excessive amount of sleep and sanity but I wouldn't change him for the world. :) to have another child would be extremely lucky for us but I'd love him to have a brother or sister to play with and be able to have someone else apart from me n DH to talk to if he needs. Gonna keep my fingers crossed for these next couple of months!
Come on girls we can all do this! U will all get ur little babas :) I'm sure of it!

macmissy · 29/05/2014 10:23

I'll try! I'm going to be sopping, as long as I am not cold I am ok!

It's a right test of emotions!

bradders85 · 29/05/2014 10:58

Hi cupcake, yes it must be I did poas 2 days ago and was as neg as a bfn can be! (which I was expecting!) I do feel like this is af it's just odd that it's different to any before.....perhaps it will develop into a heavier af but I'm surprised it's taking so long to get going as its really light at the moment. Our bodies do some funny things that's for sure!!

Ticktick · 29/05/2014 11:25

Oh dear cupcake what a roller coaster your body has sent you on. I'm shocked. So sorry. In a few days times it will be into planning the next dtd marathon. At least you have your move to keep you busy.

bradders if I were you I'd test again if AF isn't as you'd expect. I always do just in case it's an implantation bleed...