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April girls TTC, Part 3... BFP?!!! (It rhymes, so it must be true!)

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MrsPopple29 · 21/05/2014 20:44

Here we go again ladies...

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ToriB34 · 27/05/2014 21:33

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lillamyy1 · 27/05/2014 21:54

Thanks cupcake - you're right. Silly old me! It's great having such a lovely, supportive group Thanks

lillamyy1 · 27/05/2014 21:58

Yeah, that's a good idea try sunday morning ticktick, have you got a fr or another test that good for early testing?
Tori, I can imagine that's frustrating, but when it does happen for us, it'll be so much more special than it would have been because our DH's are fully on board now.
Trying to be positive!! Grin

Ticktick · 27/05/2014 22:05

Iv got a ton of cheapies from eBay and one fr stashed away, saving it for when I feeling more sure. We've dtd loads this month but I didn't get any deff positives on opks so I'm really not sure if I'm really in the running it not this month.

Fx for everyone testing this week. Hope we get lots of bfps :)

LuluJakey1 · 27/05/2014 22:11

We will all get there in the end- just believe it. It might not be this month or next but it will happen.

I feel guilty I have been so lucky but that's not to say I would be another time.

I am just learning about all of this from you lot. I had no idea how hard TTC is. We had a plan to start trying after Christmas but my mum died and everything sort of went to pot for a while. By the time we got round to thinking about it, it had happened. But with my past- 2 lots of treatment for pre- cancerous cells after smears, polyp removed, hysteroscopy, cone and loop biopsies, thyroid problems, and almost 35, it's amazing really that it just happened.

I would say just have lots of happy sex and not think about it. All the time we were supposed to be using condoms, from January, we just kept getting carried away or couldn't be bothered to use them. I do really just think it is about lots of stress free sex.

Mind you I bet that is easier said than done if you already have children or work different shifts. There is just the two of us and we work the same hours, both work within a 15 minute drive of home, are home every night and don't work weekends.

You will all get there- I bet! Fingers crossed for BFPs this week.

Am off to bed now. DH wants hosing down again! Romantic or what? At least he doesn't need wrapping in a bin bag and we can take the knee support off while he is in there. It's just his balance really incase he slips, otherwise he could manage himself.

Cupcake92 · 27/05/2014 22:20

Night lulu hope u get a good nights sleeps!

Tick, I've got one FRER stashed away! They are like the special ones aren't they the first response :p
How sensitive are they? Do u know?

poppet85 · 27/05/2014 22:33

Tori Iam similar . I wanted to as soon as we got married dh wanted to get christmas /new years/ birthdays out the way (this was when we thought one shag would do it !) , one of my friends said to just stop taking the pill but I didnt want it to be like that . Dh is fully on board and supportive now !!Iam so glad I didnt trick him in to it !

LuluJakey1 · 27/05/2014 23:04

Poppet- we have been married almost 4 years. DH was keen last year but I wanted to wait a bit longer. I do wonder if we had, would my mum have seen her first and only grandchild.

But it is what it is. We are doing this now and I can't change anything so no point wondering.

Cupcake92 · 27/05/2014 23:09

Grrrrr I'm so angry at myself!!!!
I just did an IC test and I'm not sure if I see a supa supa supa faint line or if it's just a dent in the test? I went to touch it n I've just scratched the test so I'll never know now!
If it was a faint line then only poas addicts would have barely noticed.
Grrr I rele don't know now :/

Ducky23 · 28/05/2014 06:52

My first one was like that cupcake!!!!!!!! Have you got more ic?

Cupcake92 · 28/05/2014 06:59

Nope :( I've got a frer but don't wanna waste it !

MrsPopple29 · 28/05/2014 06:59

Test again cupcake!!! I'm convinced you're gonna get a BFP this month.

Lillamy, hope AF stays away today!!

I'm now on crotch watch, feel like AF isn't far away for me...

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MrsPopple29 · 28/05/2014 07:00

How long are your cycles usually cupcake? When was AF due?

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Cupcake92 · 28/05/2014 07:01

I have irregular cycles but I'm due AF either Friday or Sunday lol

lillamyy1 · 28/05/2014 07:10

Haha, crotch watch Grin

Well, AF caught me this morning bright n early, so I'm out for this month Sad I was kind of expecting it though.
Trying to stay positive - going to go the whole hog next month - opks, no booze, try to get DP to cut down on smoking and to exercise more etc!

Cupcake fx for you, that's so exciting!!!

Cupcake92 · 28/05/2014 07:21

Oh lill sorry to hear that :(
That's great staying positive :) ull do it next month! It's gonna be ur month!

Ducky23 · 28/05/2014 07:24

Sorry about AF lil Hmm

Omg cupcake! I'm so excited I'm convinced it's your month too Grin

Cupcake92 · 28/05/2014 07:30

I do to know whether to take my FRER?? :/

Cupcake92 · 28/05/2014 07:30

I'm holding my pee atm till I make up my mind haha

poppet85 · 28/05/2014 07:31

Cupcake !!! Do it !

Cupcake92 · 28/05/2014 07:41

Think I got it wrong tho :/ might have just been a dent and I think frer are 15miu whereas my IC was 10 miu :/ I dunno

MrsPopple29 · 28/05/2014 07:43

Just do it or you're just going to drive yourself crazy thinking about it today! :)

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Cupcake92 · 28/05/2014 07:45

It was a massive massive bfn :(

poppet85 · 28/05/2014 07:45

Iam on crotch watch as well popple !! Lilla just think least your settling into a regular cycle which will make ttc easier ! Iam the same Iam trying alllllll different tricks next month .

MrsPopple29 · 28/05/2014 07:46

Sorry AF got you Lillamy, glad you're feeling positive though. I'm gonna do that next month too, at least I will be fit and healthy if nothing else!

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