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Eggsellent Egg buddies! For those having ivf during April, May and June and any others still around :-)

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starsandmoonandback · 28/04/2014 17:16

Couldn't see another thread so thought I'd make our new one Smile

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tametortie · 30/04/2014 07:23

Turquoise- what is your amh and afc?

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starsandmoonandback · 30/04/2014 07:26

Bears congrats honey Smile

Tame, very possible it's irritation from pessaries. Can you do up back door for next few days and see if it calms down. I've only ever done back door myself! Sorry you're feeling so worried hun. Difficult not to after past experiences I imagine. Keeping everything crossed today for your blood test. Will you repeat in 2 days to compare? X

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tametortie · 30/04/2014 07:41

I would, but it's bank holiday.....

More menkulling!!!

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NoCupcakesOrCocktails · 30/04/2014 07:47

Bears that's fantastic news Grin I hope the next two weeks to your scan fly by x

Tame ((hugs)) It's completely normal to be this worried. I've been there with bleeding after my BFP and I was absolutely terrified. I think it does sound like irritation, I agree with Stars to try using back door to see if that helps. I know my story didn't have a happy ending but I was having very heavy constant red bleeding. Lots of egg buddies have had spotting and faint lines on tests and everything has been fine. Keep taking deep breaths and remind yourself today you are pregnant xx

Turq it does sound like short would be worth a shot then. I had gonal f last time. It didn't seem to work for me so I'm trying menopur next. The drugs affect everyone differently so it may be that gonal f is the one for you.

Lumen I think a few people have used embryo glue. I've been told at my clinic that it may help but there's not much research on it yet. They seem to think it doesn't do any harm though and seems fairly cheap so might be worth giving it a go.

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lumen · 30/04/2014 08:48

Thx for the advice on the glue peeps, I think we will go with it. Still a while until we have to make the final decision at the end of June. Feels like a long time but hoping it will fly by.

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vallinnapod · 30/04/2014 08:50

Resgood luck for today!!!

Tame if it is any consolation I did a CB digital this morning expecting it to say 3+ thanks to my mammoth HCG levels but it still said 2-3....strangely I am not mental about it! Is your first HCG tomorrow?

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tametortie · 30/04/2014 08:53

Val- I'll post a pic of my lines from Monday evening to this morning. They are no different Sad surely that's a bad sign????

Eggsellent Egg buddies! For those having ivf during April, May and June and any others still around :-)
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tametortie · 30/04/2014 08:54

Yes, hcg tomorrow x

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lumen · 30/04/2014 09:19

Tame and Val is it standard to have hsg tested? I haven't seen that mentioned anywhere in my protocol. Good luck tomorrow tame.

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vallinnapod · 30/04/2014 09:56

It really isn't a bad thing Tame ((((hugs)))) For a start they are all consistent and all still there! I have read it can be down to the amount of dye in the test. If it was a very early chemical pregnancy you would expect the line to disappear, esp by OTD. I am a fine one to talk but please try not to worry. Fingers crossed tomorrow you will be posting and 'Oh, fuck my HCG is in the 1000s' post Smile

Lumen - yes, you should have two HCG tests 24 hours apart. These confirm the level of HCG in the blood. You are looking to see the level approx. double in 48hrs. If it isn't it could be an indication of an ectopic or failing pregnancy. Not sure mine mentioned it until ET day....and then it was in passing in the "take a PG test, if it's positive then call and we'll arrange a blood test"

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resipsa · 30/04/2014 10:20

Thanks Val. Just arrived for ET. Alone. DH has surpassed himself. First, he suggested that he could attend a telephone conference whilst we were driving in which I vetoed. Then he said he'd have to bring his laptop so I told him not to bother. So, here I am on my own. Again. For the 3rd time. I've been on drugs for weeks, had to arrange scans, appointments, drug purchasing etc etc while still having to work and he can't give me 2 hours. He really doesn't give a shit. Sad

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resipsa · 30/04/2014 10:23

And he had the gall to say that I'd left him in the dark about (1) what happens at ET - umm, if you'd come either of the other times or even read Google, you'd know, (2) the timing of ET - umm, I only found out yesterday. This is doomed. I fucking hate him.

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tametortie · 30/04/2014 10:24

Res- (((((())))))) I hope you are ok and ET goes ok xxx

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tametortie · 30/04/2014 10:26

I think my hcg will be low judging by the colour of the tests.

I will do a digital in the morning and try to stop worrying.

I am only 13dpo and at this stage last time
The tests were very faint x

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lumen · 30/04/2014 10:43

Sorry res, sounds pants. Sending lots of hugs, hope it all goes ok.

Val thx for the info. Is all very new to me but learning a lot from you lovely bunch Grin

Just had a lady from our clinic visit me to take some blood for their research pjts. Took her over 30 mins to get one vial and ended up using a vein in my hand. But I persevered as one pjt is to test amh levels which I have not had done as standard and I get to have the results at the end of my cycle. Might help if this one is not successful.

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vallinnapod · 30/04/2014 12:11

Res Sad I am so sorry he just doesn't get it. It is so easy for men to be removed from this process. fingers crossed you are PUPO as I type Grin

Lumen it might be worth asking them to make sure they know your AMH levels before you start stimming? AMH is a test that is compuslory at our clinic. If you have a low/high reserve it will influence the doses of FSH drugs they put you on.

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nobeer · 30/04/2014 13:02

so sorry res. what a twat. I'm fuming for you. Hope you're able to talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. hugs(())

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resipsa · 30/04/2014 14:25

OK. Slightly calmer (!) now. I might have overreacted just a little Wink but in my defence it is a stressful time Grin. He's still a dick though and I've just told him that if it works, I will tell the child that Daddy couldn't be bothered to turn up for his/her transfer cause work was more important. I'm so mature.

Anyway, Now PUPO. Both embies thawed with 100% of cells in tact. So, 2 blasts - one expanding/ed and one hatching safely aboard. OTD 13 May so I guess that I'll do it on about 18/19 May - remember that I'm a BIG coward.

And relax...

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resipsa · 30/04/2014 14:26

Bears - v good news re your scan. Envy.

Tame - any news?

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lumen · 30/04/2014 14:37

That all sounds really good res Smile

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vallinnapod · 30/04/2014 14:53

LOL Res you are the polar opposite of me Grin

Huge congrats on the PUPOedness

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Moonfacesmother · 30/04/2014 14:53

Maybe twins then Res? For you and val? X x

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resipsa · 30/04/2014 15:22

Hi One. D'you know, I think I'm owed twins Wink. Was just contemplating that I should have had 3 DCs by now (or soon) born Jan 11, Oct 12 and Aug 14 so it'd feel right. I'm strangely optimistic.

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NoCupcakesOrCocktails · 30/04/2014 17:27

Res you are PUPO!! Sorry to hear DH was a bit useless. I'm Angry on your behalf. They sound like two fab embies. We will probably end up testing at the same time if you take as long as you did last time Wink

Just a flying visit as I'm of to meet DH in town for shopping and food.

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NoCupcakesOrCocktails · 30/04/2014 17:28

Hi One and welcome back Smile

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