All aboard the love bus! Get your ticket for a February BFP!!

[KittyVonCatsington]

We're are getting dangerously close to 1000 posts on the other bus so thought I would start another one. Will update stats in another post. Fingers Crossed for lots more BFPs

Having a little cry. Got up to PIAC and wiped after..red blood. Tested negative. Little bean didn't stick. Will get my green Pom poms later for the March bus, but need to grieve a little for what I thought I had, first.

Good luck for the last few days-need a BFP to cheer me up!

Kitty im so sorry. Sending you lots of hugs xx

Hi kitty I'm upset this morning too I poas and bfn 14dpo today so guess af will show today. Only my first Ttc but I thought it would happen straight away as I'm still young. Obvisouly not. Really not sure about trying for the next few months as not keen on a December/January baby but who knows might feel different when af out the way. I just can't believe that when I was younger I got pregnant from a broken condom and took the morning after pill and still ended up pregnant! How could that happen and I get pregnant yet this time not! It's not fair!!

So sorry Kitty, I hope you're okay. You're doing the right thing taking some time. I look forward to seeing you on the March bus when you're feeling better

Oh no sorry Kitty sending lots of virtual hugs (((hugs)))

I'm 12dpo two more to go BFN today. Roll on Friday!

Oh no kitty I've got tears in my eyes. So sorry (((hugs))) xxx

We should have a leaving party on friday and we can all go to the march bus together for those who arent yet on it.

I'll bring the chocolates x

Sounds like a plan, toots! Going to have to take it easy today. Already in work and trying not to well up again. Mother Nature is pure evil - I have the worst AF pains than I have had in years. She can do one! Said to DH this morning after I had calmed down, *How do you feel about a Christmas baby" in case he wasn't keen and he said "Is it wise to waste time?" so I hugged him there and then! Maybe he just likes the DTD marathon . I had only told my sister who lives 1hr30mins away so you have no idea how much it helps to write it all down and read your wonderful replies. Thank you

So sorry Kitty. Glad to hear you DH is being supportive...and who cares about a Christmas baby...ok so you might be uncomfortable or spend some time around Christmas in hospital BUT you could end up with a super special little Christmas present :). Surely that makes up for any of the less appealing bits?

Oh kitty I'm absolutely gutted for you! :( massive hugs to you and please take care of yourself today. Get some comforts in for this evening and pamper yourself. Plenty DH hugs too. Come sit with me on March bus when your ready x

10dpo here today. Spotting seems to have stopped but bfn.

Sorry for everyone else's bfn's this morning. This bus has been extremely sad.

Oh Kitty I'm so sorry, let DH look after you.

This bus has been rubbish, let's hope there's spring in the air on the next bus.

I'm still in the 2ww so I am going to end up on the March bus for bfp.

if it is bad news we are going to try again even though it would be a Christmas baby but if you had asked me that last year when we had just stared ttc I would have said I would have avoided a Christmas baby but now I don't care I just want to have a baby

It's a great idea about the leaving party and then mass exodus to the March bus. Let's hope we don't curse it with our bad luck.

For me, still no af, was due yesterday, bfn this morning but feeling less hopeful despite the smudgey IC last night!

Oh Kitty, thats awful. Take some time to look after yourself. And allow yourself a goof cry! Sounds like DH is super supportive. We'll be ready to welcome you with our green fertility pom poms on the March bus when you're ready!!

Sorry about your bfn too Emily, please don't put any pressure on your self. There are no rules when ttc. It could be quick, it could take a while. But we're here no matter how long you're with us.

Hopefully there's a few more bfps left for the last couple of days.

Kitty I'm so very sorry!! Give yourself time, it's so hard. Lots of us have been there and it's one of those things that just simply is not fair. Really feeling for you.

Thank you English girl having all you ladies support is a great comfort :)
af due today, crampy pains just went to loo expecting red but only a beige kind of discharge but think I am totally out and am now in mind frame that I'm not pregnant and to try to keep myself busy till end of af.
Looking forward to our Friday party! I may just have a drink or few!! :)

I think it's far to say February has been a pretty disappointing month! Sorry to all those who are still in the ttc game. Congrats to those who got out! Here's to March with lots of BFPs and Xmas babies!!! Xxx

Kitty, I'm just so sorry to hear your news. sending hugs.
A christmas baby would be wonderful, and my ds is a jan baby - not ideal at all straight after xmas, but these things have a way of just happening, he is the most special little thing and I wouldn't have it any other way now. Go for it when you are ready xx

Oh Kitty I am so sorry. Massive hugs x

Still no AF. Haven't tested. The period type cramps I had yesterday have disappeared but I have pain on my right side that's quite sharp whenever I take a deep breath in or pee. SENS BIT:

Of course, I googled and convinced myself that if I am pregnant then it's ectopic. I need to step away from google and try to be a bit more positive, I think.

I don't know when to test. I might nip out today to buy a test for tomorrow or tonight but I think I'll probably wait until the weekend. I asked DH his opinion and he said "I dunno, you're the one on 'Expertsnet' or whatever it's called"

Hazel your dh's comment made me giggle x

Hazel your dh sounds very much like mine! Good luck with the testing whenever you do!

Writer no wonder you felt rather sapped! My goodness, is your dh a rugby player? I think a caesarean is a very good plan, my last ds had a head on 75th centile, I won't make your eyes water with what happened, but I'm only 5'2" so I'm sure you can imagine. The very best of luck for a smooth delivery and safe recovery.

Hazel I think you should correct DH; we are sexpertsnet

missmrs I will correct him next time!

I've just had a chat with him about my "ooh when should I test?!" and he's said the weekend as he's quite rightly pointed out this is only month 3 off the pill so my cycles might be all over the place.

Damn him being so sensible!

I sulked a bit and he told me I'd only be disappointed if it was a BFN, which is true. So if no AF by Saturday I'll go to Superdrug, buy a few tests and test Sunday AM.

My obvious cramps from yesterday have disappeared so all I'm left with is sore boobs and a big appetite. And lots

...I've started so I'll finish! Lots of epic dreams that always include babies. It's odd, with all the effort of ttc I do keep forgetting about the end result!