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Ski Sunday music ready, the BESH are Bobsleighing their way through the icy slopes of hope and despair to win their medals

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cherrycoconut · 25/01/2014 09:39

If you’re over 30, ttc over 12 months and wearing nipple tassels under your snowsuit then this just might be the thread for you - if you can prove yourself bitter and evil enough. We’ll be the judge of that. Don your snowsuit , cowbell ready - fill in the BESHtionnaire and prepare to meet our icy glare. This is a marathon, not a sprint.

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FizzyFeet · 31/01/2014 19:36

Oh cherry I'm thinking of you and your sis. ((((Sneaky hugs))))

bugs can you link to your thread? (If you've had any useful responses.) I can't find it. Confused

FrankelInFoal · 31/01/2014 19:55

Lots of hugs and supportive thoughts for you Cherry

TheBuggerlugs · 31/01/2014 20:11

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lovesLemonDrizzleCake · 31/01/2014 20:38

Thinking of you and sister, cherry! Big unashamed hug from me.

HesterShaw · 31/01/2014 20:48

Oh God Cherry, I'm so so sorry, lovely.

There's nothing to say except we're here for you Flowers

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FizzyFeet · 31/01/2014 22:12

Fanks bugs. Makes for interesting reading!

MyNameIsWinkly · 31/01/2014 22:21

cherry I'm so sorry. Huge hugs from me too.

MyNameIsWinkly · 31/01/2014 22:30

bugs good luck for tomorrow, I'll be thinking about you, and willing on the embys (and the lactulose!)

fizz that's a lot to think about! Hope you're getting proper support from the clinic.

fab sorry droid came, rubbish of it to tease. I'm quite a fan of checking mooncup contents though it was a bit frightening first droid after erpc...

hest glad the clinic moved your appointment. If you haven't already called your mum I agree with the others,maybe leave it for now. If you have I hope it went well.

Bearfacedchic · 31/01/2014 23:47

Cherry- thinking of you and hoping you are alright under the circumstances. Thanks

Sorry - having caught up on the thread but couldn't read and run.

Bearfacedchic · 31/01/2014 23:48

Having=haven't

Fabuluce · 01/02/2014 07:17

Thanks for all the support hags - had a lovely time drinking too much wine and now am awake with a hangover. Worth it tho Smile

Cherry, words fail me. Thinking of you and giving you an unBESH hair stroke.

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cherrycoconut · 01/02/2014 08:17

Thanks for the support hags. You know, the thing that gets me most is how strong my sis is still in spirit, yet how weak and thin her body is. I mean it's painful to witness. Cancer is so fucking cruel that it can do that to someone. For a little while she'll be back in the room like her old self and she can still get awesome words in scrabble. I just wonder how long she can go on fighting.

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cherrycoconut · 01/02/2014 08:19

Good luck today bugs I'll be thinking of you

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FrankelInFoal · 01/02/2014 08:48

Good luck today Bugs, I hope you've made a decision you are happy with on the number of embies.

Cherry we're all thinking if you and your family (((hugs)))

maamalady · 01/02/2014 08:49

Oh, coco :( It's so unbelievably awful. Love to you and yours.

Good luck, bugs. After today it's all peaceful and only waiting to do.

Fabuluce · 01/02/2014 09:46

Good luck Bugs - transfer is an exciting day Smile

HesterShaw · 01/02/2014 09:49

Good luck today Bugs

xxx

And Cherry hope you're ok this morning x

Bearfacedchic · 01/02/2014 10:02

Good luck Bugs. Rooting for you.

Thanks Cherry. Having been through similar, I know there really aren't words. X

eurochick · 01/02/2014 10:28

Bollox, fab. I too find the examination of mooncup contents oddly engaging.

hest I was told I had a beautiful endometrium when cycling. I preened. Well as much as one can preen with a dildocam up one's foof. I'm glad your clinic has been accommodating. My clinic did that too as there were only 2 of us on my EC day and the other couple was coming from out of London. Unfortunately, that meant a daftly early start for me!

I agree with the others about waiting to call your mum. From what you have said, she is unlikely to say anything helpful and EC and ET time is the most stressful bit of IVF.

bugs it sounds like the crazy drugs have done their job. Good luck for transfer! In a few hours, you will be PUPO.

cherry that's so sad. I'm thinking of you all.

The work trip was lovely. I want to go back to Israel and see all the historic stuff. It's only really marketed here as a beach destination (Eilat) and as an atheist, I'd never thought I would be interested in seeing Jerusalem, but being there I have realised that the whole country is full of "cool old stuff", which we both love poking around, so I reckon we will end up going back as tourists at some point. I had a quick walk through Jaffe and that was amazing. I really wish I had had more time there.

The flight back though was awful. My preggo bloating seems to maximise in the evening, and flying sometimes has that effect on me too, meaning that I was blown up like a balloon and hugely uncomfortable on the plane. The airport security was crazy too - every bag searched by hand, several short interviews (they profile every passenger), everything swabbed for explosives. It's strange to be in a country so hated by all its neighbours that it has to go to those extremes. I am glad to be home (and gradually deflating).

HesterShaw · 01/02/2014 10:41

Trip sounds amazing, Euro :) I'm longing for some sun!

Bloating sounds awful though. Were you dying to fart on the plane? That's agony!

Talking of scannage, it was funny yesterday. The nurse and MrH were talking earnestly about floods and dredging and the Somerset Levels and what a scandal the Environment Agency is....while she was brandishing a dildocam and inserting it up my foof. Really surreal Confused

eurochick · 01/02/2014 11:02

hest yes! And then I had an hour's cab ride home. And then got in to find a friend had popped by! I was desperate for a good guff!

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